Monthly Archives: March 2008

What Sex is your brain?

By Vanessa Law | Published March 30, 2008

Some of you are probably familiar with the COGIATI test, which stands for the mouthful of ‘Combined Gender Identity and Transsexuality Inventory’ (phew). This test is targeted to Male-to-Female, Pre-Operative people, and should be used as a basis for self-examination, and to consider whether further investigation should be pursued with a qualified therapist.

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Let us take a piss!

By Vanessa Law | Published March 29, 2008

[One of my friends was ranting about how some transvestite was saying he wanted to be able to go to the ladies’ bathroom and all this other crap.]]
So what? A bathroom is for taking a leak and other such things. While I don’t necessarily agree with transvestites or crossdressers using the bathroom of the gender they are presenting as, I have no issue with it because GASP

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I married a cross dresser

By Vanessa Law | Published March 27, 2008

When you marry the man you love, you hope for a life of bliss – you don’t expect him to utter these fateful words, ‘Honey, I’m a Cross Dresser’.

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Counselors should be advocates for the transgendered

By Vanessa Law | Published March 24, 2008

I think it’s wonderful that more and more researchers are devoting time to transgendered studies. When more people examine and question pre-conceived notions they advance the state of the art in our understanding. I think this can only be a win for the transgender community, as the medical profession gains a better understanding of who we are, why we are transgendered and how best to ensure we live healthy fulfilled lives.

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Learn how to cross dress

By Vanessa Law | Published March 23, 2008

The first time a man puts on a dress he looks like – a man in a dress. In our minds we picture ourselves as dainty, feminine and gorgeous, but we’re actually a man caught wearing girl’s clothes. Looking good as a woman is a hard thing to do – just ask any lady who has spent an hour doing her hair and makeup!

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