Monthly Archives: July 2008

Crossdressers – Is Tri-ESS Wrong?

By Vanessa Law | Published July 29, 2008

For all it’s failings, Tri-ESS has helped tens of thousands of cross dressers find peace and acceptance. It has given men a framework for talking about their transgendered nature with their wives and wives to be and shone a light of understanding where before there was only the darkness of prejudice.

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Makeup mistakes crossdressers can’t afford to make

By vanessa | Published July 25, 2008

I’ll take a gander through some of the most common makeup mistakes crossdressers make, and tell you how you can avoid them!

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Best Cross-dressing book: My Husband Betty

By vanessa | Published July 22, 2008

My Husband Betty honestly shares the transgender experience and exposes the hidden truths about cross-dressing that Tri-ESS doesn’t want you to know.

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Linking to Crossdresser Heaven

By vanessa | Published July 15, 2008

Find and share valuable resources on Crossdresser Heaven. Resources for the crossdresser and transgendered person are available

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Crossdressers need to be seen to be accepted

By vanessa | Published July 11, 2008

The sad truth, is that we aren’t doing what is necessary for crossdressing to become accepted in society. We are relying on the transsexual community to advocate for us. We are relying on the LGB community to include the transgendered in their activism and fight for equality. In short we are content to remain in the shadows until our battle has been won by someone else.

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Crossdressers and Transsexuals are NORMAL

By vanessa | Published July 7, 2008

What is normal? We’d like to see normal as the sweet simple way that we’re taught through stories. In fact our definition of normal doesn’t even begin to encompass the wonders of who we are as human beings. In trying to be “normal” we strive for bland sameness, hiding the uniqueness of who we are.

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Crossdresser Vacation – Family and Relaxing

By vanessa | Published July 1, 2008

I’ll be doing quite a bit less crossdressing, since apart from my wife, my family doesn’t yet know about my transgendered nature. They live out of state, and it’s been easy to put off telling them – perhaps I’ll dedicate a future post to exploring why I haven’t yet told them.

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