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Susan's Cross Dressing Success Story – It All Starts With My Wife

This week’s cross dressing success story comes from sunny California and is one that many cross dressers wish was their own.  This crossdressing success story celebrates more than the acceptance of a crossdresser’s wife, but the birth of a wonderful new experience.

Meet Susan

Hi, I’m Susan am 54 and live in Northern California.

Susan’s Cross Dressing Success Story

I have been dressing for the last 12 years and my wife was actually the one who started on this path, believe it or not. She started by suggesting I wear women’s panties, so to the store we went. Since then I have been blessed with a beautiful wife who supports me in all my dressing. I can dress anytime, anyway I want, use makeup, and I just can’t tell you how much I love it! Everything feels so good on me and makes me feel great. I know how lucky I am from the stories I have read to have to have this in my life, I really feel for the people who have to dress in private and can’t let their wife know, it must be so hard on them. I say think about telling her, start slow and see how it goes. If it works your life would explode with joy, no more hiding. I wish everyone good luck in their journeys.
With love,
Susan


If you’d like to share your cross dressing success story, please email me at vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com. You don’t have to write 500 words for a good story, just something heartfelt from your journey with cross dressing.

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I Am Not Gay!

Really. I promise. Cross my heart.

I know, I’m wearing a dress.
No, they’re not real.
Yes, that’s lipstick – Raspberry Rush actually.

*sigh*

Sexual Identity is a Tapestry of Color

Sexual Identity is a Tapestry of Color

The rest of the world is blessed in it’s ignorance. They get to lump all the “sexually deviant” folks into a single bucket of “them” (usually pronounced with a sneer). Sexuality, as with most things in life, is not so easily separated into black and white. Rather, it is a tapestry of colors that cover the gamut of sexual preference, gender identity and gender expression. With much of the common knowledge running aground as a transgender myth.

In my life being transgendered has forced me to confront my own sexuality. I identify, in part at least, as a woman and often seek to express this identity in the clothes I wear, the way I look and the activities I undertake.

In those moments when I identify as a man I’m quite confident in my heterosexuality. My wife’s movement, her body, her voice, her scent – they send my heart a flutter (among other things :) ).

When I am a woman, lets just say it gets more complicated. Though my lovely wife may not appreciate it, she still has a wondrous effect on me. I long for the feelings of protection, love, adoration, softness from one who is strong. Yet the thought of this being a man does not appeal to me. It’s as if I long to play the feminine part with a masculine partner who is not a man – Take that Freud!

My point in sharing is not to disclose details of my private life with you, or even to hold up myself as a prototypical example of all crossdressers, for surely this isn’t the case. I want to point out that the diversity of human sexuality is not confined to a few discrete points. It’s not possible to create a set of categories and use these to accurately define everyone, as is wonderfully captured by a poetic recounting of the third gender.

Live who you are. Love who you are. Define yourself by what is in your heart.

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