It’s such a wonderful blessing to hear stories from wives who love and accept their transgendered husband. This week’s crossdressing success story is unique journey of discovery for both partners – beautiful, moving and inspiring.
If you’re the partner of a crossdresser please take a moment and click here to share your crossdressing success story. Your joys and frustrations, acceptance and struggles will inspire and comfort other partners. Stories of the good times will provide light and hope, and stories of the bad times will let them know they’re not alone in their pain.
Andy and Natalie’s Transgender Success Story
I feel the need to share our story in the belief that it may help other wives understand and support their husband. I’ll get straight to the point, when my husband told me that he likes wearing feminine clothing & make up I honestly wasn’t that judgmental about it, because my mother taught me to be open minded to such things.
He informed me in a letter that he made me read in private in another room for fear I may react negatively; quite the opposite I can proudly say. I read the letter and thought about everything. It made me realize that I secretly desired to be a man. I told him my secret desire, and I will never forget the look on his face; surprise mixed with love and happiness.
Ever since our relationship has grown immensely. We encourage each other & refer to each other in the opposite sex more. Our spiritual connection was bursting with passion,
understanding, and deep love for each other; it made our relationship stronger. I sense the envy that people have when they see us and it honestly makes me thankful; I’ve found a bestfriend, lover, and soulmate all in one (a rarity in these current times I sadly believe).
I love to have girl nights with him. We practice & share makeup & some clothes. The only downfall we have come to learn is how & if we tell our friends and family about us, but we agree that this is a minute concern & don’t stress about outsiders. We see each other inside & out & share a deep connection & desire for each other.
I just hope that other wives will be as open & understanding because they may come to realize that it can strengthen & intensify the relationship. Just remember that he is opening his soul to you, he’s in a fragile state of self consciousness and any sense of negativity may hurt him. He’s looking for understanding, acceptance, and in my opinion, informing you that he loves you enough to reveal this to you.
It can be a spiritual revelation to the relationship & it has (and I can testify) lead us to act upon our fantasies in a way that I can only describe as ‘OMG, satisfaction.’
– Andy & Natalie from Houston, TX.
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I enjoyed reading your story . My saying is if our husbands can accept us for who we are then we need to accept our husbands for who they are . I love my husband dearly and im walking this journey with him where ever it may take us and who knows i may have a journey of my own to take someday and I know he will be right there by my side . My husbands name is Michelle
Cynthia K
This is AWESOME! Great story.
Absolutely fantastic.Funny but my wife wears the hair style of a guy more than a gal and I'm the opposite. She still is negative about the cross dressing but I was doing it when we got married years ago.
Thank you so much for sharing your story…I am a supportive girlfriend of someone who bared their soul, as well. I met his "news" with acceptance and love the way you did because I, too, was raised to love people for who they are. We have become closer and closer as time has progressed and for that I am more than grateful. I thank you for sharing your story because it is so nice to know that there are others who have embarked on this journey together as we have. A unique and amazing journey.
that is great i came out to my wife, and she is not understanding about it.
I suppose that my story is similar to all those that i've read over many years. I guess what is really needed is for a movement to start to try and make our so difficult lives acceptable in public. Why should people react the way they do? Is it because we look 'odd' or is it because it is the last great taboo to fall.
Just imagine your wife dressing like a man. Gee isnt that wonderful Get real. Its a sensative situation. Volitile, potentially explosive. Take it slow, and be prepared for the worst!
my boyfriend recently shared to me that he likes to crossdress i think it is cool it is different but to me i think what ever he wants to do i am here for him no matter what i love him for him. i think that your story is goodfor people to read thank you.
That is such a wonderful story <3
Great story but this is a pretty far exception to the rule. My worry is what if you have a wife that doesn’t want or seems to not want your relationship to get closer? I know divorce should have taken place but that’s a cop out. It’s the easy way. Everyone wants the easy way. I don’t know what the real answer is myself, but this couple in this story must be pretty exceptional people. I certainly wish them all the luck in their quests, especially coming out to friends and family. No need to wish them love and happiness… Read more »