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I am a 74 yr old Bi married CrossDresser. Recently I was asked if I was transitioning? I told them at 74 I didn’t think I had a chance & certainly my wife would not approve as she hardly approves of my C/D
How far could I go at 74 and on Social Security? As it is I have an Penile Implant. I’d like Bigger Boobs but really at 74?
Hey hon, I know that ladies in their 70s have transitioned, though if you’re eager to explore more I’d recommend talking with your physician. She should have a better idea about what could work in your situation. Good luck!
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I have been crossdressing since I was a child and still think of myself as a female when i am dressed
I have been out in the wide world as a woman many times, I came out to my wife a long time ago and it was the best things I ever did she helped me with make-up and shoes and so much stuff I would never have managed, she does my nails and hair when we go out for the day, I know I am never going to pass as a woman without a lot of help from a surgeon but at the age of 65 I think I have left it a little late for transition, so I will now make do with what I have I almost always wear a natural blonde coloured wig but on several occasions i have worn a grey wig while out with my wiife and that seems to draw less attention to me as men are less likely to look at a grey haired woman than a blonde one just something for the older ladies who dont go out much because of the bigotrythat abounds
wierd how wmen can wear mens clothes and nothing is said but let a man wear a skirt and we are all perverts and the like
go for it ladies and be proud xx
LOVE TO HEAR OF OLDER MEN CROSSDRESSING.I HAVE DONE IT F0R PRIVATE SATISFACTION SINCE I WAS A BOY.NOW AS A MATURE MAN 65 YEARS YOUNG,I HAVE HAD REASON TO DOUBT MY SEX.MY PENIS HAS BECOME A MINUS EVENT,I AM ABLE TO INSERT TO THE SECOND JOINT INTO IT.
WHEN IT IS MORE VAGINA IT FEELS GOOD AND VERY COMFORTABLE.IF I TRY TO MAKE MY PENIS APPEAR IT HURTS.I HAVE TAKEN TO SITTING ON THE TOILET NOW FOR BETTER CONTROL.I LOVE DOING THAT,IT EVEN FEELS NATURAL.ALTHOUGH HAVE REASSIGNMENT DONE,I AM A PENSIONER NOW,I MUST PUT UP WITH THE DISCOMFORT OF HAVING A PENIS.
I LOVE BEING A GIRL,I WISH I WAS A SEXY ONE.
Hi Chris.
It is a very similar story with me but I have sat to use the toilet for a long time even when I go out for a drink or a meal I am a sitdown girl lol. Also I am now in the same stage with my penis, which is almost none existant and I can put it up out of the way and also use it as a virgina but my middle two fingers does go completely inside it . I do not manage to have an orgasm but it does make me feel more like a womanand so much more feminine when I do it, especially when fully dressed and been out for a walk
I do wear feminine underwear all the time and have even worn breasts when out for a meal, with no -one saying anything as they dont show much with my coat fastened even when I open the coat, they dont jump out and say look at me I’m a man with a boob job, so just be a little more daring and people seldom make a lot of judgement when it is an elderly man doing what they think is something silly and so let it slide have a go it makes life more simple to bear xxx
More men are getting out there and dressing to go out, So join the happy throng and sing along with us silly old duffers xxx
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I lived in a house with 4 women late 20′s. Always crossdressed in my room. Complete outfits bra Knicks garter belt nylon stockings skirts top never a wig and always, either control knickers or else crotchless panties. I always kept my crops dressing to myself, then one day I completely forgot to close my room,my room door was ever so slightly open. Then after some time I noticed it I know that one of the girls caught a glimpse of me as she passed that evening. The inside chair at the table was always used as a store for shopping bags and coabutane I could see this chair from my room no problem.
She never ate dinner at the table always at the breakfast counter, but after that evening i noticed the inside chair was cleared off and that she always made sure to sit at this inside chair at the table.
When I realized this I was really really embarrassed but then after some time it began to arouse me so I made it my business to wear a different outfit and gave great time each evening to ensure I looked my best, and each evening she made sure she ate her dinner sitting there and aften watched television for some time after, I caught her looking loads of times although she didnt see me looking at her via the mirror.
As time went on I got a little more brave until one evening I put on everything except my skirt and I had lace trim crouch less Knicks on, I am blessed with a small penis 3inches fully erect. I afforded her a glimpse of it, her reaction was a grin to herself I could see clearly via the mirror. A few days later I also did the same but this time put on a condom and began to masturbate to my amazement she actually sat there and watched.
Soon after if there was a time that I knew the rest of the girls were out and she was in the house I often ventured out into the kitchen crossdressed, prepared a sandwich and sat at the table and ate it, other time I would go out the back door to take my rubbish to the dustbin it was such a thrill.
If you want to hear more rita.hickey1@hotmail.com
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I was wondering if anyone would know of a salon or individual that does makeovers (make up at least) for crossdressers in San Antonio, Texas