Comments on: Are You Ashamed Of Being a Crossdresser?

By: ryanna

ryanna — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 12:14:25 +0000

Well as most people here I have been ashamed of it almost my whole life. I have finally come to terms with it and do feel much better about it. It may be strange but I feel a certain comfort when dressed and less stressed out. But what is it all for? It can make you feel very lonely and isolated. No matter what I’d do to stop doing it it doesn’t work so I quit trying to quit. My girlfriend knows and said she doesn’t care but I know she does and it kills me. It sure would be nice to have friends with the same interests

By: avalana

avalana — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 05:37:45 +0000

not ashamed at all,iv’e been moer or less dressed as a girl for a bunch of years,now,why change?

By: helen

helen — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:32:16 +0000

I only partially cross dress It gives me a feeling of peace and wellbeing. I started with my mother’s stockings at age 9.I find it hugely relaxing and I do really envy women.I would describe myself as asexual, perhaps with lesbian and submissive leanings.Am I confused ?. Yes very much so.

By: Stella

Stella — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 21:00:42 +0000

I was raised Catholic so you maybe can imagine the guilt I had through the years. The buying and throwing away almost drove me wacky. Then in 1989 I had a huge life changing experience when I almost died from cancer, after which I took on a totally different outlook. After I had recovered from all the Chemo, Radiation and Surgery I realized the desire to dress was as strong as ever. It was then I realized that what I wore and how it makes me feel has nothing to do with what happens at the end of life, it pretty much evolves around what we have done for others. I have not suffered the guilt since then. I now have a small wardrobe that I keep, and my wife has even come to realize the same thing. It’s a pitty a guy has to almost die to get a little peace, but I believe it was all for a purpose and have come to embrace my crossdressing. There is nothing else that relieves stress and anxiety as well as a nice snug pantygirdle…:-)

By: Jessica

Jessica — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 23:00:18 +0000

jessica i also feel guilty i am a closet cross dresser i have always had this feeling that i should of been female but iam married have kids no one knows and prob will keep it that way when i dress up i go what am i doing but it feels right so i just keep what i am doing