Dear readers,
It has been almost two months since I last shared with you. Even though I have been far from my keyboard, you have not been far from my thoughts. I have been so blessed in my transgender journey that I feel a tugging need to give back to the community.
Write for Crossdresser Heaven
As a writer my words, my thoughts and experiences are the way in which I can most deeply honor you. Through my journey I have had many who helped me. There were those who touched me directly in person, but I took no small measure of courage from the articles I read on the Internet and from the stories I got lost in, crafted by talented writers such as Jennifer Boylan.
During these last few months I have discovered a beautiful and powerful part of my life. I believe I’ve been living life the way I was meant to be. As the scars of surgery fade and the waves of recovery ebb I feel healed and whole.
Yet as I don my life fully, I find that I have less time to reflect and share. I go to sleep at night after a full day with so much still undone.
I started Crossdresser Heaven to discover who I was, and to share my journey so that others may find love, encouragement and compassion. Now that I have less time to write for Crossdresser Heaven, I know that I am no longer fulfilling the mission I started with.
I need some help!
A call for contributors
Any online community thrives with regularly updated content that shares a diverse perspective with the world. I want to ensure that Crossdresser Heaven can continue to serve cross dressers, transgender women, those questioning their gender identity and the partners and families of those in the community. So I am asking for your help!
I’m looking for 3 or 4 writers who would be willing to write an article a month for Crossdresser Heaven. If you want to touch thousands with your journey or encourage those just starting their own, please email me at vanessalaw1@gmail.com. If you want to inspire someone to take their first courageous step, or weep with a wife who just discovered her husband is a cross dresser, please email me.
I look forward to hearing from you, and to keep the community on Crossdresser Heaven strong for years to come.
With hugs and blessings,
Vanessa
Vanessa,
Here is my facebook for reference.
Sorry,
here is my facebook for reference:
http://www.facebook.com/civilwarbuff02
Dear Vanessa,
Thank you for such a great website! I’ve enjoyed the stories about other CD’s expressions, and their grasp of whom they really are inside. I’ve been fortunate enough to be in relationships where my tendency is understood and encouraged. My fiancée L, who loved to shop together, would have “slumber parties” and we would do each other’s make up! It is so much fun to go dress shopping with the person you love, and have the secret to share. I have an amazing wardrobe of dresses, skirts, blouses, make up, purses, shoes and intimates. Half of my closet is dress shirts, Dockers, and flannel, and the other half has my “soft” clothes. I’m not passable because I am very large and tall, (6’9″ in my 5″ heels…)and have a goatee I would really hate to shave off. I’m not the least bit homosexual, but simply enjoy the feel of women’s clothing against my skin. I absolutely love to be outdoors in the summer, in a long sun dress, reading a book. My love for dressing began at an early age, and recall a day in Elementary school where the boys were to dress up like girls. Sadly, I didn’t participate, because I was so afraid of being discovered that I REALLY liked silky things! Even the class bully was sporting a dress that day and was wearing make-up. Now, I look forward to Halloween annually so I can walk around the mall in a skirt and a blouse, and my leather heels, with minimal strange looks. I finally became tired of hiding my expression in my 30′s. But, I’m all man…working on cars, deer hunting, and watching football are my favorite past times. It just feels remarkable to wear panty hose under my Carhartt’s, or a half-slip under a sweater. No one at work knows I’m wearing Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau under my Dockers! My advice to wives whom discover that their husband dresses, he is still the man you loved before you discovered his secret…now you just need larger closets! Another way to look at it, he’s man enough to wear a dress. Be supportive; be understanding; you cannot “counsel” this out of him, and he will resist the change. If you cannot evolve your thinking, you may push him away. Open your minds…you now have something else in common that may bring you even closer. This tendency is more widespread than you think… and it’s okay. Bugs Bunny was often drawn in a dress. Take him to an Ulta, Sephora or a Dress Barn. There is nothing wrong with him hanging his Calvin Klein double breasted suit, next to a Vera Wang. Thank you Vanessa, for the chance to discover your website, and type my diatribe. I hope my message reaches many readers, and encourages men and women, to better understand this normal, healthy affliction.
Sorry for the delay Vanessa…I sent you a submission to your email.
Hello,
I am a 19 year old teen adult and I have been a cross dresser since I was 6. This blog site has helped get the courage to tell my girlfriend and my mother that I am a cross dresser. Thank you so much for your advice and input Vanessa!
Hello dear Manager ^.^
I am so sorry to disturb you in such busy time.
I am a crossdresser in Taiwan.
I often see you shared interesting things in your facebook, so I have no ideal if could get your little help to share and introduce my new pubulished book『Oh My God！He dresses like a girl!?』and network blog in simple positive way. It’s so kind of you if you could. Please…=^.^=
This book be talked about soul consultation, communication, encouragement…ect. for population, family and crossdresser or transsexual themselves.
This is my blog：
http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/leafage2000/
Hope you and your facebook become better and better, thanks a lot.
Sincerely Youko
P.S I also really hope the book will be translated in English someday.^^
i have been crossdressing on and off thought the years but latey i have been feeling like iam really a sexy woman that want to come out and would very much like my male body to look like the way i feel a very sexy woman
Hi Vanessa.
I’m not a crossdresser, I’m a pre-op MTF and having surgery in December. I’m 200 pages into a book about change and transition to fill in the missing pieces for those of us who are trans or questioning it. I’m getting great response to what I’m writing and think I would be perfect for your needs. I can give you an essay from the book each month to post. I am trying to keep things in the book relative to anyone, but would be happy to add in a personal perspective to each piece if you want to use me. You can view the pages I’ve posted at:
https://www.facebook.com/LifeIsChangeChangeIsLiving
I think we would mesh well!
hugs, Suzie