Stepping Out – Beating the Fear By Kris Burton Part II – From Theory to Practice/What I’ve Learned Like so many of our persuasion, I have come to find that stepping out into the community en femme is a high point in my overall CD experience. In Part I of this tota...
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I’ve spent most of my recent, and older life, thinking back on all those signs that I missed, and the ones I purposely avoided, ignored, took shots at, and begrudgingly followed. I’ve shared with you in retrospect what I hoped would be some commonalities to help you avoid sim...
Stepping Out – Beating the Fear By Kris Burton Part I – Developing an Approach If you read my bio, you’d have learned that I am a lifelong musician and music educator. I have spent a large portion of my professional life either performing music or teaching other...
I love being a woman. I regard myself first and foremost as a woman rather than a crossdresser. I love wearing makeup, lingerie, dresses, beautiful shoes, jewelry, and having my hair in different styles. I love perfume; Chanel No. 5 is my signature fragrance. And let’s face it,...
I try to imagine the world through others’ eyes. It makes interesting fodder for thought. We see things differently than other men, women, too. We are the crossdressers and transgender MTF that the world despises. And… yet… we are the spouses, parents, friends, colleagues, ...
What we EXPECT from Today’s Women-and Shouldn’t
Meghan Brandice Crossdressing Relationship Advice 50Over the past few weeks, I’ve given a lot of thought to my other CD members here about the mindset comparison between us and them. I’ve concluded that how we judge women today, and in that we EXPECT them to “see it our way”’ and think as we think, is wrong. So read alon...
I’m sorry you’re going through the issue with your wife. It is a delicate and fine line; everyone is different in where they’re at in accepting something like our dressing feminine. My marriage didn’t work out, but that’s very okay because I am much happier being...
I’ve been crossdressing since an early age. My first time and what I wore were my sister’s red tights. Their feeling of sliding up my legs was a very different experience. I can’t remember why I tried them on; I just did. I suppose I was always a little envious ...
I had the best of intentions… but… (fill in the blank with your own reasons.) I’ll go first! There were several things that I wanted to get done after my Mom passed. Many were started, some even finished, and then Dad had his ongoing year of decline. What once seemed import...
The first time a man puts on a dress he looks like - a man in a dress. In our minds we picture ourselves as dainty, feminine and gorgeous, but we're actually a man caught wearing girl's clothes. Looking good as a woman is a hard thing to do - just ask any lady who has spent an ho...
Nope! If they’re not women’s bras; I don’t want them. The same goes for panties, leggings, skirts, dresses, or any feminine clothing. Yes, there are bras made for men. And yes, men’s bras might be a better fit for a male body. Panties for men might fit your package better...
I don’t know about you, but Christmas time for a crossdresser is a strange time of the year… Let me explain. It is the season of hope, forgiveness, and gratitude, and most importantly, the season of miracles. Every Christmas movie is full of them. We (as crossdressers) often ...
Crossdressing is still a big taboo, and it raises fears even in those who don’t practice it. One of a crossdresser’s biggest fears is that of being “caught” doing it. It starts with the risk that the boy who is trying on his mother’s or sister’...
Wendie passed away Tuesday evening, November 14th before she could approve and have her article published. I’ve posted it here as a tribute to her. 6:13 am: crawling out of bed a few minutes ago, I couldn’t help but think that it seems like getting out of bed k...
I used to go to my aunt’s house every Thanksgiving. Those days have passed as she, my mother, and their brother have all moved on to the fabulous banquets above. I went as a kid, an adult, with my children, and then as a grandfather. As my parents aged, we used to go to Village...
I recently looked through a dictionary for a word to help me solve a clue in a crossword puzzle and came across the word “odyssey,” which was defined as “a long wandering usually marked by many changes of fortune.” It struck me that this definition was also a good descrip...
Dear Friends, With the rise of online shopping, many of us would be relieved to no longer have to subject ourselves to the “in-person purchase.” But nothing can really replace assessing the size, fit, colors, fabrics, and contours in person before splurging hard-earned money....
Nothing scares us more than the erratic pattern of our crossdressing lives; sometimes forced by situations such as vacations or extended guests staying at the house, or even the Pandemic. The most worrisome is the break that happens when I can but don’t dress, even more so than...
I’m going to share with you my story about my day at a TJ Maxx store. Just keep in mind I’m no writer and I’m just a man telling his story. On August 31, 2023, I blew 10 bucks at a TJ Maxx store. I was there looking for a birthday gift for my granddaughter-in-la...
In Shakespeare’s time, men played all the female roles. Wouldn’t that have been fun? Not only was it acceptable, but it was also mainstream, and what wonderful clothing we could wear. If we can learn anything from history, it is that varying notions can change—for either be...
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