Comments on: Crossdressers and Transsexuals are NORMAL http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/crossdressers-and-transsexuals-are-normal/ Fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:04:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Vanessa Law http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/crossdressers-and-transsexuals-are-normal/comment-page-1/#comment-3771 Vanessa Law Tue, 22 Jul 2008 17:29:49 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/crossdressers-and-transsexuals-are-normal/#comment-3771 Hehe, yes I think it's true for many folks as crossdressing is part of the natural journey towards a full sex change. As you say though, this doesn't apply to everyone. Give and take, yes - that's a lot of what marriage is about. Give and take. Compromise. Coming to terms with the fact that the other person may have dreams, desires, heck, hobbies that are different from yours. And that's okay. As men we sometimes forget the give part of the equation though. It's easy to ask our wives to compromise for crossdressing, but harder to compromise ourselves for something else they want. Hehe, yes I think it’s true for many folks as crossdressing is part of the natural journey towards a full sex change.

As you say though, this doesn’t apply to everyone.

Give and take, yes – that’s a lot of what marriage is about. Give and take. Compromise. Coming to terms with the fact that the other person may have dreams, desires, heck, hobbies that are different from yours. And that’s okay.

As men we sometimes forget the give part of the equation though. It’s easy to ask our wives to compromise for crossdressing, but harder to compromise ourselves for something else they want.

]]> By: Lynn Jones http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/crossdressers-and-transsexuals-are-normal/comment-page-1/#comment-3770 Lynn Jones Mon, 07 Jul 2008 21:39:50 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/crossdressers-and-transsexuals-are-normal/#comment-3770 You're right about harsh. :-) > men "settling" for crossdressing For some, perhaps that is true. But I don't think it's true for everyone. Yes, there's a grain of truth to the old joke.... Q. What's the difference between a transexual and a transvestite? A. About 2 years. ... yet there are CD/TV people (pick your label) who don't want to change sex. Personally, I'm quite happy to be a part-timer. It can be a bit of a juggling act with family, but then (and with luck), I get to have my cake and eat it. There's comprimise, but isn't that part of a relationship? The act of give and take? :) You’re right about harsh. :-)

> men “settling” for crossdressing

For some, perhaps that is true. But I don’t think it’s true for everyone. Yes, there’s a grain of truth to the old joke….

Q. What’s the difference between a transexual and a transvestite?

A. About 2 years.

… yet there are CD/TV people (pick your label) who don’t want to change sex. Personally, I’m quite happy to be a part-timer. It can be a bit of a juggling act with family, but then (and with luck), I get to have my cake and eat it. There’s comprimise, but isn’t that part of a relationship? The act of give and take? :)

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