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Crossdressers In Pursuit of The Perfect Feminine Figure

Crossdresser Body ShaperIt’s happened to all of us. We finally pluck up the courage to purchase an outfit of our very own and spend many days or weeks admiring our new femininity in the privacy of our home. The feelings of elation seem to touch to the core of our soul as we see the woman inside us come to life. Yet after a few weeks something happens.

We observe that the dress doesn’t hang right. The sexy blouse seems to gape in an unattractive way. Even in the dim light of evening we struggle to describe our hourglass form as such. The elation of those first tentative steps are replaced with a low grade despondency a frustration at how far our form is from the perfect feminine figure.

Enter Crossdresser Body Shapers

With some guidance from fellow crossdressers, or a few keystroke search over the Internet we find the answer to our feminine figure frustrations – body shapers. The most obvious starting place is, of course, breast forms. Of all the things missing from our bodies breasts are the first and most obvious we notice. Breast forms do the obvious – creating the appearance of real breasts, especially when carefully concealed behind a blouse or dress that masks their artificial nature. There are many places to purchase breast forms – in fact you’ll find a link to the Breastform store at the bottom of this page – but your figure firm ups don’t need to stop there.

As you know woman tend to have larger hips and curvier bottom than men. The balance between larger hips and smaller shoulders gives woman the desirable hourglass figure. As long as you don’t make the mistake of wearing a top with shoulder pads or copious gathers around your shoulders you’ve done about all you can do for your shoulder size. Your bottom half, however, presents an opportunity to further your feminine image. Hip pads and bottom pads are body shapers that many crossdressers use to balance out their wider shoulders, and give the appearance of a curvier, hourglass figure.

To take the illusion to the next level you can wear a corset, which makes your waist smaller through the painful application of a smothering force around your torso. Oftentimes you can take 2-4 inches off your waistline with a corset. Just be careful not to tie it too tight – it’s no good looking fabulous if you’re passed out on the floor!

Vanessa’s Body Shaping Routine

I must admit that I’ve found over time that I prefer fewer enhancements than more. Perhaps it’s just my desire to feel comfortable, or maybe I’m just fleeing from the struggle to keep those breast forms attached and happy. When I’m out with jeans and a tshirt or blouse I’ve found the lack of breast forms doesn’t make much difference as to whether I’m read or not. I’ve had less success going breastformless with dresses, or certain blouses that hung uncomfortably empty without them.

I generally don’t use hip or butt shapers – though if done right they can look fabulous. I haven’t worn a corset for a few years – for now I’m focusing on slimming my waist through diet and exercise. Once I’ve taken that as far as I can I’ll give the corset another try.

What about you? What’s your crossdresser body shaping routine?

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About the Author

Vanessa Law is a women enjoying the freedom to be who she is every moment of her life! She blogs about the transgender journey at Please comment below and tell me what you think!

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  1. lilian says:

    I’m doing a lipocavitation, with good results.

  2. petra frederica says:

    what is a girl who wants to Dress up but no one to be with.

  3. Falecia McGuire says:

    Good Morning
    I am intrigued my much of the information on your site. I am a virtually lifelong crossdresser. I can remember trying my mother’s, sister’s and aunt’s clothes and accessories in my early teens. I am now retired and eligible for social security. You can do the math. Nevertheless, I have for some years been experimenting with my writing. I have entered essay contests and have just self-published a children’s book. A great deal of what I have written has related to my transgender feelings. At my age, I am not embarrassed to admit that I am a crossdresser, but have kept it from my children. I do it privately or with my wife and there has been no need for them to know. I am not concerned about any internal conflicts.
    While I struggled as an adolescent with my sexual identity – who doesn’t? I came to grips with my crossdressing before I made my career and marriage choices. I never had any homosexual fantasies or inclinations. I knew I loved women. I also knew that I fantasized about looking like a woman in clothing and accessories. I am not unhappy being a man. I just like to play at being a woman.
    From my first reading of Dr. Blanchard’s theory of “Autogynephilia” I felt that much of it did seem to describe my behavior. I did enjoy dressing like a woman, fantasizing about passing as a women and being seen in women’s clothing to extend that I can pull in off. How do I pull it off? I occasional wear women’s clothing items with my wife, I have masqueraded at parties and I very often wear virtually all female clothing while presenting as a man. Most of my jeans are in women’s sizes. Many of my shoes and sandals are designed for female wear. I frequently wear foundation garments that slenderize my waist and give me a female shape. I have remained slender and fit, partly motivated by my desire to fit into women’s styles that appeal to me. And finally, in my workout routine – mostly running, I generally wear fitness outfits in women’s sizes.
    I do not feel distressed in any of this behavior. I feel that this is who I am. What I do feel is euphoria. I have been running long enough that I have frequently felt a runner’s high — the euphoric sensation attributed to the release of endorphins. I often feel that same endorphin release while crossdressed. When I am both running and crossdressed, I feel wonderful.
    This has been a synopsis of some of my journey. I am currently working on a novel about evanescent transformation. To add a sense of reality to the piece, I will reveal much of what I have truly experienced in my life as a crossdresser. I will also cite studies and theories that have genuinely been a part of the fabric of the transgender community.
    Falecia McGuire

  4. Rijeana says:

    I like what you have to say greatly,
    I have bought a few dresses & lots of high heels, from 1inch to 5inch but still hav to get some sexy thy high boots with 4 inch heels I think, but probley get them in 5 inch,
    I have just dressed & never thought much about butt & thy implants but I think im going to try it out,,,
    I just adore a sexy hip area around a female,,,
    I have been dressing for 3 yrs now & am Bi , so life is just beginning for me,,,
    Thanks RiJeana

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