Crossdressers In Pursuit of The Perfect Feminine Figure

Crossdresser Body ShaperIt’s happened to all of us. We finally pluck up the courage to purchase an outfit of our very own and spend many days or weeks admiring our new femininity in the privacy of our home. The feelings of elation seem to touch to the core of our soul as we see the woman inside us come to life. Yet after a few weeks something happens.

We observe that the dress doesn’t hang right. The sexy blouse seems to gape in an unattractive way. Even in the dim light of evening we struggle to describe our hourglass form as such. The elation of those first tentative steps are replaced with a low grade despondency a frustration at how far our form is from the perfect feminine figure.

Enter Crossdresser Body Shapers

With some guidance from fellow crossdressers, or a few keystroke search over the Internet we find the answer to our feminine figure frustrations – body shapers. The most obvious starting place is, of course, breast forms. Of all the things missing from our bodies breasts are the first and most obvious we notice. Breast forms do the obvious – creating the appearance of real breasts, especially when carefully concealed behind a blouse or dress that masks their artificial nature. There are many places to purchase breast forms – in fact you’ll find a link to the Breastform store at the bottom of this page – but your figure firm ups don’t need to stop there.

As you know woman tend to have larger hips and curvier bottom than men. The balance between larger hips and smaller shoulders gives woman the desirable hourglass figure. As long as you don’t make the mistake of wearing a top with shoulder pads or copious gathers around your shoulders you’ve done about all you can do for your shoulder size. Your bottom half, however, presents an opportunity to further your feminine image. Hip pads and bottom pads are body shapers that many crossdressers use to balance out their wider shoulders, and give the appearance of a curvier, hourglass figure.

To take the illusion to the next level you can wear a corset, which makes your waist smaller through the painful application of a smothering force around your torso. Oftentimes you can take 2-4 inches off your waistline with a corset. Just be careful not to tie it too tight – it’s no good looking fabulous if you’re passed out on the floor!

Vanessa’s Body Shaping Routine

I must admit that I’ve found over time that I prefer fewer enhancements than more. Perhaps it’s just my desire to feel comfortable, or maybe I’m just fleeing from the struggle to keep those breast forms attached and happy. When I’m out with jeans and a tshirt or blouse I’ve found the lack of breast forms doesn’t make much difference as to whether I’m read or not. I’ve had less success going breastformless with dresses, or certain blouses that hung uncomfortably empty without them.

I generally don’t use hip or butt shapers – though if done right they can look fabulous. I haven’t worn a corset for a few years – for now I’m focusing on slimming my waist through diet and exercise. Once I’ve taken that as far as I can I’ll give the corset another try.

What about you? What’s your crossdresser body shaping routine?

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About the Author

A woman living in Seattle, enjoying the freedom to be who she is every moment of her life!

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  1. seha says:

    when I dressed I want be with man or women, to receive comments and appreciation love me as a queen. where can i get hip pad and  breast forms , suit to my size and color and how remove mustaches permanently pleases. advise 

  2. avalana says:

    it is very hard for me to find any shoes that fit well, either m or f. perhaps it’s the eeee width! masons shoe catalog is one of my faves

  3. TRAVIS says:


  4. SexyLayne says:

    Can anyone please help me. I am a fourteen year olf male crossdresser. I have many problems I need help with. I have a dream of becoming a pilot in the Air Force. But I feel like cross dressing may get in my way since the military needs me to be tough. Plus, I havent even told my mom. I know she will be supportive and all, but I am affraid that then my crossdressing will become part of my life. And an air force pilot cant have that happening. Also I am a failure at crossdressing. I look at a woman in a playboy magazine and I think “Oh I would love to look like that” but I cant. And I barely do it. All I do is just wear makeup in private and panties in public. The two reasons why is that A: I cant drive so the closest place to get panties or makeup is my moms closet. But Im not going to do that. Plus her style is WAAAAY different from mine. And B: I dont have enough money to go buy a skirt, shoes, breast parts, or anything for that matter. And if I did I wouldnt know how to. So if anyone can help me, please do. Thank you

    • dorthy says:

      when u get in military its good to get a car u can stash it in wait till ur roomate goes out then u can dress once u buy something dont be afraid if someone ask which they ussaly don’t they asamed to bring it up most of them dont even stare go out weekends get a motel or something then got a good 2 days of it a week i feel taking away dont ask dont tell is gonna lead to voilnce like before

  5. I wear two different sizes of breast forms depending on what I’m going to be doing. At work and at church (where my wife refuses to indulge me) I wear what amounts to an A cup size in sports bra. It’s enough for me to enjoy having breasts, but no so much as to cause people say, “Wow! He has breasts. The rest of the time, around home and out and about, I wear a C cup form in a mastectomy bra. Noticeable, but easily missed in the right clothing. I wear the “right” clothing when my wife is going to be with me. The rest of the time I wear things that are as feminine as I feel at the moment.

    I don’t usually try to pass, however, I often do because I’m where women go and I’m doing things women do wearing obviously women’s clothing. I’m just an ugly old broad out and about to the people who see me. (At my age, 67, I can get away with that.) People at the grocery store and my bank know I’m a man and act as if it’s normal for me to dress the way I do.

    Likewise, my doctors, a primary care physician and an endocrinologist both have had me turn up in their examining rooms totally en femme (including make up) and not even blinked.

    I’m fooling no one really. I’m just being me and acting as if I have every right to do it and no one person wants to challenge that right.

    To SexyLayne: Don’t worry about cross-dressing becoming a part of your life. It already is. The best you can hope for from here on out is to bury it for a time. Don’t ask, don’t tell is dead. If the Air Force needs to run a security check, list cross-dressing as a hobby. If they know about it, there’s no problem. You can’t be blackmailed if the person that would be told already knows.

    If you can’t bring yourself to that, then you can’t be an Air Force pilot anyway.

    If you’re really sure your mom will be supportive, then tell her you have a need to explore your feminine side and let her show you her support. She may want to put limits on just what and where, so be a good kid and respect her authority. ;o)

  6. Margaret stewart says:

    Nice website finally an outlet to share our femeninty . As, I write I’m engoying a night in femme. With a wow! Of finally a lil encouter w/ others. Anyone to reply, I’m new to this .

  7. Rijeana says:

    I like what you have to say greatly,
    I have bought a few dresses & lots of high heels, from 1inch to 5inch but still hav to get some sexy thy high boots with 4 inch heels I think, but probley get them in 5 inch,
    I have just dressed & never thought much about butt & thy implants but I think im going to try it out,,,
    I just adore a sexy hip area around a female,,,
    I have been dressing for 3 yrs now & am Bi , so life is just beginning for me,,,
    Thanks RiJeana

  8. Falecia McGuire says:

    Good Morning
    I am intrigued my much of the information on your site. I am a virtually lifelong crossdresser. I can remember trying my mother’s, sister’s and aunt’s clothes and accessories in my early teens. I am now retired and eligible for social security. You can do the math. Nevertheless, I have for some years been experimenting with my writing. I have entered essay contests and have just self-published a children’s book. A great deal of what I have written has related to my transgender feelings. At my age, I am not embarrassed to admit that I am a crossdresser, but have kept it from my children. I do it privately or with my wife and there has been no need for them to know. I am not concerned about any internal conflicts.
    While I struggled as an adolescent with my sexual identity – who doesn’t? I came to grips with my crossdressing before I made my career and marriage choices. I never had any homosexual fantasies or inclinations. I knew I loved women. I also knew that I fantasized about looking like a woman in clothing and accessories. I am not unhappy being a man. I just like to play at being a woman.
    From my first reading of Dr. Blanchard’s theory of “Autogynephilia” I felt that much of it did seem to describe my behavior. I did enjoy dressing like a woman, fantasizing about passing as a women and being seen in women’s clothing to extend that I can pull in off. How do I pull it off? I occasional wear women’s clothing items with my wife, I have masqueraded at parties and I very often wear virtually all female clothing while presenting as a man. Most of my jeans are in women’s sizes. Many of my shoes and sandals are designed for female wear. I frequently wear foundation garments that slenderize my waist and give me a female shape. I have remained slender and fit, partly motivated by my desire to fit into women’s styles that appeal to me. And finally, in my workout routine – mostly running, I generally wear fitness outfits in women’s sizes.
    I do not feel distressed in any of this behavior. I feel that this is who I am. What I do feel is euphoria. I have been running long enough that I have frequently felt a runner’s high — the euphoric sensation attributed to the release of endorphins. I often feel that same endorphin release while crossdressed. When I am both running and crossdressed, I feel wonderful.
    This has been a synopsis of some of my journey. I am currently working on a novel about evanescent transformation. To add a sense of reality to the piece, I will reveal much of what I have truly experienced in my life as a crossdresser. I will also cite studies and theories that have genuinely been a part of the fabric of the transgender community.
    Falecia McGuire

  9. petra frederica says:

    what is a girl who wants to Dress up but no one to be with.

  10. seha says:

    same here

  11. Deadlywhispers_666 says:

    Me too lol

  12. vic gonzales says:

    Been too long! Fem Tonight. Lol!!

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