By: Staci66

Staci66 — Wed, 31 Aug 2011 19:24:00 +0000

Thanks for the reply. I understand about the Deuteronomy verse, and I know that the act of crossdressing it self isn’t wrong. But pretty much everytime I crossdress, I sin sexually, and that’s where the problem occurs.

By: Ragina

Ragina — Fri, 12 Aug 2011 02:14:00 +0000

Staci, I too am a christian crossdresser, although I haven’t come out in my own church. I have done much study and reading about just that question and rteally cannot find anywhere that states that crossdressing is a sin. Sure,sure you can quote me the scripture in Deuteronomy, but I doubt that the sord, being quoted out of context by fundamentalists, refers exactly to cressdressing. You may study for yourself, but please do so prayerfuly.

By: Staci66

Staci66 — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 15:07:00 +0000

Hey Vicki. I noticed how there are Christians out there who crossdress and love it, and see no problem with it. I am a Christian too, and I’m trying to live the way God wants me too, but I feel like crossdressing is a sexual sin. How do you feel about this?

By: Lori Q

Lori Q — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 02:56:00 +0000

I am so happy to see there are people that have seen the light! I so enjoyed reading your comment Staci! I wish there were more people like you in the world! Thank-you!

By: Staci

Staci — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 00:16:00 +0000

I must say I really appreciate such bold people. I wish I were so bold before I started getting old.
I would like to use this moment to tell why I have such an issue with religion:
When I was in my mid twenties, I discovered my feminine self and my bisexuality. My name sometimes comes up on here as Staci25. The 25 part was my age at this revelation, but I also had drug problems and started trying to fix it in Christian churches. I’m now in my mid 40s and looking back, I realize they wasted my time. I spent 8 years trying to do things their way and still having problems. At age 33, I quit relying on these people and everyone else like them and decided I had to solve my problems myself. Since I made that decision, I’ve been clean and sober for 10 and half years now. I tried so hard to fit into their gender dychotomy rule driven way of life that I spent all those years lying to myself about who I was and what makes me happy.
I would never try to say there is no god because I can’t proove that. I have also found that “they” can’t proove their god exists either. My personal experience would definately suggest their god does not exist or was incapable or just unwilling. I don’t know.
I put money I worked for in their collection plates, did plenty of volinteer work in their “causes”, and anything else they wanted to the best of my ability. Anytime I needed anything from them, they always told me go prey about. None of them were ever interested in doing anything for me unless they thought they could get something from it. My belief today is that religion is a pyramid scheme.
I agree, it all started out of fear of the unkown. Nowadays, I see a lot of religous people using heaven and hell as a means to threaten people into following their beliefs.
I find it sad that gays still can’t get married to each other because this is such predominately christian society driven by beliefs that can never possibly be proven. Christians are still complaining that we live in such a depraved culture yet American culture is the most sexually inhibited in the whole world second only to the Mid East – maybe.
If I didn’t get distracted by religion so many years ago, I would have come out a lot sooner when I was young enough to live it to the fullest. I also wouldn’t have lied my way into a relationship that brought 2 children into the world. I don’t regret them. They are the best people in my life and my wife is supportive of everything I do here. We even go lingerie and high heel shopping together! But I can’t help but think it’s unfair to her and everyone else that has a family with someone that really isn’t in it all the way because they came out too late because of a society that persecutes it.
I have come to realize that religion causes more harm than good and people need to consider the source in everything. In my experience with religous people, I find most of the people I have met seem to be threatened into their belief - Passive aggressive terrorism. Sad to say, but they are all victims of what they tried to victimize me with.

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