Comments on: Does Santa Keep You Crossdressing? http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/ Fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:04:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Racquel Lynn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/comment-page-2/#comment-4847 Racquel Lynn Mon, 28 Dec 2009 08:41:26 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=1176#comment-4847 They say that whatever you are doing on New Years Day is what you will be doing all year long. So I am planning to go out New Years Eve as Racquel and also spend all of new years day as Racquel. Let's test that theory! lol I am going to attempt to reveal my true self to my Mother at some point this week Since last week did not work out like I had planned. They say that whatever you are doing on New Years Day is what you will be doing all year long. So I am planning to go out New Years Eve as Racquel and also spend all of new years day as Racquel. Let’s test that theory! lol
I am going to attempt to reveal my true self to my Mother at some point this week Since last week did not work out like I had planned.

]]> By: Vicki http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4846 Vicki Sat, 26 Dec 2009 20:49:31 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=1176#comment-4846 Hi girls I wanted to wait until after Christmas before I answered because I knew my lovely girlfriend was going to surprise me again and wanted to share the latest gift. She and I have shared four Christmases together and each time I (vicki) has found at least one special gift under the tree. This year was no different than last, and except for year one the item has been the most intimate a girl can wear. So again this year I proudly wear my new panties, two pair actually this year, and as she told me, it's the first step each time you go to your feminine side. I am very grateful to have a woman in my life who supports me and is willing to help me be my whole self. Vicki Hi girls
I wanted to wait until after Christmas before I answered because I knew my lovely girlfriend was going to surprise me again and wanted to share the latest gift. She and I have shared four Christmases together and each time I (vicki) has found at least one special gift under the tree. This year was no different than last, and except for year one the item has been the most intimate a girl can wear. So again this year I proudly wear my new panties, two pair actually this year, and as she told me, it’s the first step each time you go to your feminine side. I am very grateful to have a woman in my life who supports me and is willing to help me be my whole self.
Vicki

]]> By: Crossdressing Over The Holidays | Crossdresser Heaven http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4845 Crossdressing Over The Holidays | Crossdresser Heaven Fri, 25 Dec 2009 12:55:24 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=1176#comment-4845 [...] last week’s crossdressing poll you shared your experience with crossdressing Christmas gifts. Or as it turned out the lack of crossdressing gifts at Christmas time. 55% of you lovely ladies [...] [...] last week’s crossdressing poll you shared your experience with crossdressing Christmas gifts. Or as it turned out the lack of crossdressing gifts at Christmas time. 55% of you lovely ladies [...]

]]> By: Racquel Lynn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4844 Racquel Lynn Thu, 24 Dec 2009 13:13:33 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=1176#comment-4844 Just wanted to wish my lovely sisters in the TG community, as well as those who love and support a crossdresser and/or other transgendered person in their lives, a very safe and Merry Christmas! Love Racquel Just wanted to wish my lovely sisters in the TG community, as well as those who love and support a crossdresser and/or other transgendered person in their lives, a very safe and Merry Christmas!

Love
Racquel

]]> By: Racquel Lynn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/does-santa-keep-you-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4843 Racquel Lynn Tue, 22 Dec 2009 06:46:56 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=1176#comment-4843 Unfortunately, it didn't happen. She has a boyfriend who is a real jerk and I don't want to discuss this with him around. He was supposed to have gone out of town to his sisters for a Christmas party, but he found an excuse not to go. He is very unsociable and doesn't like being around people and he does nothing all day except sit in front of a TV and watch football 24/7 when he is not sleeping. I honestly don't know why she ever wanted to be with him, but now she is trying to get rid of him. She just needs the financial means to be able to kick him to the crub. So I am working really hard to get my business going full time so I can help her with that. Anyway, since you never know how someone is going to react to the revealation, I am wanting to have at least a couple of hours alone at home with her, so that she has time if she wants to cry, scream, yell or whatever to have it out of her system before he returns and I know she will have a ton of questions as well. Like I have said before in another post, she at least knows part of it because she was there when I woke up in the hospital the day after my car wreck wearing only a shirt and panties because they had taken my jeans off at some point at the hospital. Niether of us has ever brought that up, so we have never discussed that. I don't know if she may have heard the rest from other family members who do know the whole story or not, but I have a feeling that she is in some way prepared for it even if she doesn't know the whole story. I think it will hit her hard in a way, but I think she will also be very understanding and supportive. Besides, she always wanted 2 boys and 2 girls, but I was the 4th boy, so she gave up trying for a girl after me, but little does she know! lol Even if it is 42 years later, at least she will have a daughter. Maybe just not the way she had planned it back then! lol I know my dad will not take it well at all, but the only reason I don't tell him is because I know he has a bad heart and I know it will majorly upset him. Too much of a chance that it could literally kill him, but at the same time, I feel like I am going to have to start being Racquel full time, so there is a heavy delima in my heart over that at the moment. I don't want the news about Racquel to kill my Dad, but I also can't go on much longer as a male. On top of everything else, my Dad picked the time years ago, when I was beginning full time transition to become deeply religious. Nothing wrong with being deeply religious, I myself am Christian, but he tends to lean towards the groups that are more judgemental and homophobic, etc. This was not the time he had had his first heart attack, but it was the time that he started having more heart trouble and had his second heart attack. There were many times we thought we were going to lose him, but I am greatful that we haven't lost him yet. But I was thinking I would just put Racquel on the back burner and keep it a secret from the family for just a little while, not expecting him to be around as long as he has. He has amazed us several times over the years. He had a heart transplant and wound up getting much stronger again and has done well, although he has had a few ups and downs over the last couple of years. While I only have one life to live myself and believe that I deserve to live it being my true self and being comepletely happy, I also would not trade all the time I can have with my Dad as I can have for anything else in the world. My Mom is also having heart trouble at the moment, but I don't think finding out about Racquel will be anything that she can't handle. She has been dealing with the loss of one of my brothers earlier this year, which is a lot on her, but she has actually handled that way better than I had expected. If I can just get her alone long enough for the initial conversation and let her get out any initial shock and emotions, without her boyfriend sticking his nose into it and wanting to know what's going on, then we can talk pretty much any other time after that when he is around because he never moves from in front of the TV. lol It is way beyond time to talk to her about this, so I guess I may have to take her for a ride somewhere where we can talk. I have one brother who knows, my oldest brother does not, but his wife (even though they are bothvery religious) is very family oriented and a great person that I feel would be supportive and understanding. I think maybe I could talk to her and she would let me take my Mom over there and even help me talk to her. I just know it's gotta happen soon! It really sucks to have gone as far as I did only to have to go part way back into the closet again. But it is for my Dad. Not worried that he won't accept me, just don't want his ticker to stop. The only thing that bothers me is if he hears it from someone else. I would much rather he hear it from me than from someone else, so that is another angle I worry about. I should've just started wearing dresses when I was a kid and he would have been used to it by now! lol (gotta laugh about it!) Unfortunately, it didn’t happen. She has a boyfriend who is a real jerk and I don’t want to discuss this with him around. He was supposed to have gone out of town to his sisters for a Christmas party, but he found an excuse not to go. He is very unsociable and doesn’t like being around people and he does nothing all day except sit in front of a TV and watch football 24/7 when he is not sleeping.
I honestly don’t know why she ever wanted to be with him, but now she is trying to get rid of him. She just needs the financial means to be able to kick him to the crub. So I am working really hard to get my business going full time so I can help her with that.
Anyway, since you never know how someone is going to react to the revealation, I am wanting to have at least a couple of hours alone at home with her, so that she has time if she wants to cry, scream, yell or whatever to have it out of her system before he returns and I know she will have a ton of questions as well.
Like I have said before in another post, she at least knows part of it because she was there when I woke up in the hospital the day after my car wreck wearing only a shirt and panties because they had taken my jeans off at some point at the hospital. Niether of us has ever brought that up, so we have never discussed that.
I don’t know if she may have heard the rest from other family members who do know the whole story or not, but I have a feeling that she is in some way prepared for it even if she doesn’t know the whole story.
I think it will hit her hard in a way, but I think she will also be very understanding and supportive. Besides, she always wanted 2 boys and 2 girls, but I was the 4th boy, so she gave up trying for a girl after me, but little does she know! lol Even if it is 42 years later, at least she will have a daughter. Maybe just not the way she had planned it back then! lol
I know my dad will not take it well at all, but the only reason I don’t tell him is because I know he has a bad heart and I know it will majorly upset him. Too much of a chance that it could literally kill him, but at the same time, I feel like I am going to have to start being Racquel full time, so there is a heavy delima in my heart over that at the moment.
I don’t want the news about Racquel to kill my Dad, but I also can’t go on much longer as a male. On top of everything else, my Dad picked the time years ago, when I was beginning full time transition to become deeply religious. Nothing wrong with being deeply religious, I myself am Christian, but he tends to lean towards the groups that are more judgemental and homophobic, etc. This was not the time he had had his first heart attack, but it was the time that he started having more heart trouble and had his second heart attack. There were many times we thought we were going to lose him, but I am greatful that we haven’t lost him yet. But I was thinking I would just put Racquel on the back burner and keep it a secret from the family for just a little while, not expecting him to be around as long as he has. He has amazed us several times over the years. He had a heart transplant and wound up getting much stronger again and has done well, although he has had a few ups and downs over the last couple of years.
While I only have one life to live myself and believe that I deserve to live it being my true self and being comepletely happy, I also would not trade all the time I can have with my Dad as I can have for anything else in the world.
My Mom is also having heart trouble at the moment, but I don’t think finding out about Racquel will be anything that she can’t handle. She has been dealing with the loss of one of my brothers earlier this year, which is a lot on her, but she has actually handled that way better than I had expected.
If I can just get her alone long enough for the initial conversation and let her get out any initial shock and emotions, without her boyfriend sticking his nose into it and wanting to know what’s going on, then we can talk pretty much any other time after that when he is around because he never moves from in front of the TV. lol
It is way beyond time to talk to her about this, so I guess I may have to take her for a ride somewhere where we can talk.
I have one brother who knows, my oldest brother does not, but his wife (even though they are bothvery religious) is very family oriented and a great person that I feel would be supportive and understanding. I think maybe I could talk to her and she would let me take my Mom over there and even help me talk to her.
I just know it’s gotta happen soon!
It really sucks to have gone as far as I did only to have to go part way back into the closet again. But it is for my Dad. Not worried that he won’t accept me, just don’t want his ticker to stop.
The only thing that bothers me is if he hears it from someone else.
I would much rather he hear it from me than from someone else, so that is another angle I worry about.
I should’ve just started wearing dresses when I was a kid and he would have been used to it by now! lol (gotta laugh about it!)

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