Unfortunately we can’t spend every day presenting as our feminine persona. Whether it’s work, family or friends we all have occasion dress as a man. If you’re like me, this can be immensely frustrating. When dressed as a man I feel as though I’m wearing a mask that hides my true self. Yet there are many ways to express your femininity without letting your inner girl run wild.
In this week’s crossdressing poll, I’d love to hear how you express your femininity in stealth. If you have a way not listed below, please take a moment to share – I know that many of the readers would appreciate learning new ways to be the girl inside, even when circumstances don’t allow.
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Last Week’s Crossdressing Poll
The results from last week’s early crossdressing valentine poll are in. Almost half of you gorgeous ladies take the opportunity on Valentine’s day to buy yourself some sexy lingerie, while for a good number Valentine’s day is about spending a romantic evening with the person you love. Whatever you choose to do on this hallmark holiday – do it with all your heart and look fabulous!
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There are many ways I choose to dress in stealth mode, one of my favorites is the use of hair accessories mainly because my hair is quite long (shoulder length). They serve a practical purpose as well as letting me express my femme side.
I also have a femme voice.
Kind Regards
Emily
In addition to underdressing (bra/panties/stockings), I sometimes wear innocuous jewelry. If I’m wearing a shirt with a reasonably high collar (a sweater, for example), a necklace is an option, and most people won’t notice or comment on a ring, even if it looks feminine.
Can I say none of the above? 🙂 I don’t feel there’s a line between him mode / her mode. I feel kind of in the middle.
Hehe 🙂 You certainly can Lynn. Do you present more feminine most of the time? Or is there a definite ‘not Lynn’ mode for you?
Anna, nice idea about the jewelry. I wear earrings pretty much all the time, though I stick to studs or small hoops when not presenting as Vanessa.
Emily – blending practicality with dressing – I like it!
I underdress! I mean I wear everything . I cant wear anything around the house, but I underdress at work. I usually wear stockings, a slip (half or full, depending on situation and mood) and a camisol. sometimes a bra when its cold enough to wear a coat. Feels wonderul. Also feel kind of ‘naughty’ cause I know the guys I work with dont have any idea that I wear a slip/camisol and panties under my work clothes. Yes! I am careful.
I apparently have feminine gestures (that family members have commented on, not in a negative way, apparently since they found out about me). Esp when I am sitting.
I also have quite a feminine voice – 50% of the time I get called Mrs on the phone. Everybody outside the close family thinks I’m embarassed by it…
Stace
I underdress pretty much every day. I marshal at a local golf course on weekends. The weather was so chilly this past weekend I was able to wear a bra, waist nipper, cami, pettipants, longleg brief and panties. I also had on thigh-high stockings. I was covered up with a hoody sweatshirt all day long. Felt wonderful to be girly while at work. I even knocked some balls around by the practice range and it felt great to be hitting balls while wearing my bra. I nearly always underdress while playing golf but usually stick to just panties and pettipants.… Read more »
hi vanessa, i wear pantys and either thigh hi’s or pantyhose, to work, sometimes , i wear a bra, when i’m wearing a sweatshirt or something loose, makes me feel so feminine. i like the idea of wearing a camisole, or half slip though, that might be in the future. i hope i see more ideas here, thanks ladys, melony..
Hi.
I use different way to be in stealth. I let my nails grow longer than a man uses but not to much, also with manicure just enough to look a little more feminine (of course without painting them). And I have removed the hair of mi fingers too. I wear panties and stockings or I sit crossing my legs like a woman.
Cecilia
I answered that I underdress, but I also use feminine movements and gestures, and style my hair if not trulyfeminine, at leat in an androgynous style. Wintertime is easier, because I wear enough over-clothing to completely hide any traces of a bra or cami. I have a pair of Bass boots that have a round toe, and 2″ heel that can pass for an unusually high men’s heel, like motorcycle boots. I find when walking in them, I have to take shorter steps, to keep my weight centered over the heel, or it hurts my ankles. But that folds right… Read more »
I try to dress femm. every day. though most of the time i wear womans jeans. Always a cute top and a bra which does not give to much away. I find that i lean more to the TS. side and try to express that which is within. I always have at least eye shadow and liner. I am coming to that place where i dont really care what others may be saying behind my back. But, i am on disability and do not have to deal with the work place. Elizabeth i purchased the enhancers that you told me… Read more »