Comments on: Halloween Is A Busy Time For Crossdressing… http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/halloween-is-a-busy-time-for-crossdressing/ Fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:04:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Andi http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/halloween-is-a-busy-time-for-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4017 Andi Thu, 14 Oct 2010 16:43:00 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=493#comment-4017 I told my wife about my urges to crossdress way before we were married. Her reaction was one of compassion. We married, it never was really an issue until I hit my 40s it became stronger and stronger. I approached her with it again and she was totally grossed out and angry. Her reaction was totally about her. I was devistated. I have since gone to counseling and am finding out about myself, and getting comfortable with who I am. It will be a long road, but our relationship will never be the same. As many others probably, I wish my wife had been as open minded as you. I told my wife about my urges to crossdress way before we were married. Her reaction was one of compassion. We married, it never was really an issue until I hit my 40s it became stronger and stronger. I approached her with it again and she was totally grossed out and angry. Her reaction was totally about her. I was devistated. I have since gone to counseling and am finding out about myself, and getting comfortable with who I am. It will be a long road, but our relationship will never be the same. As many others probably, I wish my wife had been as open minded as you.

]]> By: Stephanie http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/halloween-is-a-busy-time-for-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4016 Stephanie Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:54:09 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=493#comment-4016 Oh Loo how I wish i had a partner as understanding and accepting as you. I have to wait until she is out before I can dress as she knows about it but wont accept it. I am beginning to think I should leave her and live on my own so that I can dress whenever I need to Oh Loo how I wish i had a partner as understanding and accepting as you. I have to wait until she is out before I can dress as she knows about it but wont accept it. I am beginning to think I should leave her and live on my own so that I can dress whenever I need to

]]> By: Loo http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/halloween-is-a-busy-time-for-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4015 Loo Wed, 13 Oct 2010 16:52:44 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=493#comment-4015 Dear Wendy I'm a women who is very open minded with my partner regarding his crossdressing, we have a very strong relationship and I cannot understand why many women feel it a threat or unacceptable regarding their partner who wants to dress up, surly the relationship between them in the first place is not one that is strong. My partner was open with me from the very start with the enjoyment he has wearing womens clothes but in no way does he want to be a women, it's just a pleasure he feels free to experience. Women may feel crossdressing a threat to them if their partner has been hiding it from them for sometime, which it then becomes a shock and a relarionship barrier to her as she could feel he never trusted her to speak about this in the first place. Honesty and understanding are the two major factors in this situation between the couple and is the only way to overcome and move forward in their relationship. Ladies if your think your partner is crossdressing but your not sure he is THEN speak to him as he could feel unable to approach you, dont get upset or angry as this is as hard for him as it is for you. Crossdressing is very common now.... LL Dear Wendy
I'm a women who is very open minded with my partner regarding his crossdressing, we have a very strong relationship and I cannot understand why many women feel it a threat or unacceptable regarding their partner who wants to dress up, surly the relationship between them in the first place is not one that is strong.
My partner was open with me from the very start with the enjoyment he has wearing womens clothes but in no way does he want to be a women, it's just a pleasure he feels free to experience.
Women may feel crossdressing a threat to them if their partner has been hiding it from them for sometime, which it then becomes a shock and a relarionship barrier to her as she could feel he never trusted her to speak about this in the first place.
Honesty and understanding are the two major factors in this situation between the couple and is the only way to overcome and move forward in their relationship.
Ladies if your think your partner is crossdressing but your not sure he is THEN speak to him as he could feel unable to approach you, dont get upset or angry as this is as hard for him as it is for you. Crossdressing is very common now….
LL

]]> By: Wendy http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/halloween-is-a-busy-time-for-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-4014 Wendy Mon, 11 Oct 2010 17:08:21 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=493#comment-4014 Hi, In addition to articles such as “How To Tell Your Wife You Crossdress”, it would be useful to have something similar to help wives accept crossdressing rather than seeing it as a threat to their marriage or an unacceptable peversion. Thanks, keep up the good work. Wendy Hi,
In addition to articles such as “How To Tell Your Wife You Crossdress”, it would be useful to have something similar to help wives accept crossdressing rather than seeing it as a threat to their marriage or an unacceptable peversion.

Thanks, keep up the good work.

Wendy

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