Comments on: How To Tell Your Wife You Crossdress http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/ Crossdresser Heaven offers fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine. Transgender news and issues are also discussed, along with Christianity and crossdressing. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:40:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Crossdressing From Bangladesh | Crossdresser Heaven http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/comment-page-1/#comment-1463 Crossdressing From Bangladesh | Crossdresser Heaven Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:44:31 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=486#comment-1463 [...] — Mita, thank you for sharing your story. For anyone who is contemplating telling your wife, I don’t recommend Mita’s approach. It might work for a few people, but things can go disastrously wrong. If she finds out the truth she’ll feel betrayed because you lied to her. Be very careful. I wrote some thoughts on how to tell your wife you crossdress. [...] [...] — Mita, thank you for sharing your story. For anyone who is contemplating telling your wife, I don’t recommend Mita’s approach. It might work for a few people, but things can go disastrously wrong. If she finds out the truth she’ll feel betrayed because you lied to her. Be very careful. I wrote some thoughts on how to tell your wife you crossdress. [...]

]]> By: Joanna Marie Phipps http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/comment-page-1/#comment-1336 Joanna Marie Phipps Fri, 17 Jul 2009 02:49:38 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=486#comment-1336 Dear Vanessa, The more I read your tips for cross dressing husbands the more I realize that they are the same things that those of us who are gender dysphoric need to do. However our journey to acceptance can be made infinately harder by our need to eventually transition to being a woman. This will place intense strain on a relationship and many will not survive it. The hardest time I had in coming out was to my wife, I had a fear that she would either chuck me out, or leave herself (luckily neither happened), I was ready for the fight (which did happen) but then I was at a loss as to what to say. I had just pulled the rug out from under her, upset everything she thought she knew about me and she wasted no time in letting me know it. Dear Vanessa,
The more I read your tips for cross dressing husbands the more I realize that they are the same things that those of us who are gender dysphoric need to do.

However our journey to acceptance can be made infinately harder by our need to eventually transition to being a woman. This will place intense strain on a relationship and many will not survive it. The hardest time I had in coming out was to my wife, I had a fear that she would either chuck me out, or leave herself (luckily neither happened), I was ready for the fight (which did happen) but then I was at a loss as to what to say. I had just pulled the rug out from under her, upset everything she thought she knew about me and she wasted no time in letting me know it.

]]> By: Joanna Maguire http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/comment-page-1/#comment-558 Joanna Maguire Mon, 03 Nov 2008 05:40:50 +0000 http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/?p=486#comment-558 How to tell your wife ? She has discovered you are a CD She is perplexed or horrfied. A good idea might be for u the CD is to write down what you do as a CD and how you feel about feminism include your sexual needs But only ones that involve your wife if you are hetro. Show your wife all your feminine clothing If you want to wear a nighty to bed ? Buy her a nice expensive one Make love and tell her u love her ? It will take time for her acceptance or understanding Understand what she is feeling Pay attention to her reactions. Maybe she should write her feelings down ? Talk about what you both have written. If you go out enfemme. Take her out to dinner and visit a CD club Not a gay nightclub. It wont be easy The results or consequences are uncertain It had to eventualy happen. Better its out in the open to maybe? help your fearns nervousness etc She may accept it She may leave or send you on your way Best of luck Joanna How to tell your wife ? She has discovered you are a CD She is perplexed or horrfied. A good idea might be for u the CD is to write down what you do as a CD and how you feel about feminism include your sexual needs But only ones that involve your wife if you are hetro. Show your wife all your feminine clothing If you want to wear a nighty to bed ? Buy her a nice expensive one Make love and tell her u love her ? It will take time for her acceptance or understanding Understand what she is feeling Pay attention to her reactions. Maybe she should write her feelings down ? Talk about what you both have written. If you go out enfemme. Take her out to dinner and visit a CD club Not a gay nightclub.
It wont be easy The results or consequences are uncertain It had to eventualy happen. Better its out in the open to maybe? help your fearns nervousness etc She may accept it She may leave or send you on your way
Best of luck
Joanna

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