Thanks so much for this post. I hope that all your readers take note and shop openly where welcomed. It is important as well that we do not subsidize ignorance and ill-will by shopping furtively or by shopping where we are not welcomed.

I realize that many of the CD/TG set simply cannot shop openly for themselves (en femme or in drab) but for those of us that can, we can make our numbers felt, and really help advance the frontiers of acceptance when we do. Easy steps (once you chase the butterflies away) -

The garment is for you — say so, do not beat around the bush. Most Sales Assistants have already figured it out, and appreciate honesty.
Be respectful of the store environment. You are their guest, so dress appropriately, and ask permission for the use of the fitting rooms.
Share your findings with friends…

Thanks again Vanessa! Happy shopping..