Comments on: Sarah’s Crossdressing Success Story – A Sister’s Secret

By: Ragina

Ragina — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:46:29 +0000

Hi Jordyn, my name is Ragina. I am a retired member of the Army, having done my 20, mostly National Guard, but I have 7+ active duty. I also have been where you are now. I hope that you are doing well. Enjoy your time there, and do try to meet some of the Locals, they really aren’t bad people, just a few bad apples in the barrel. I’d love to talk to you and find out what things are like there now. I was there in 03-04. I’m sure things have changed a lot since then.
If you want to chat, you may reach me at : rswarmergi@aol.com
Best of luck to you and come home soon.
Ragina

By: Ragina

Ragina — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:23:29 +0000

HelloNicolle, My name is Ragina, and I live in Georgia, USA. I am a retired member of the Army. I wish that our Army was as tolerant of the Transgendered as yours is. If it was, I’m sure I would have come out long ago. However. I’m sure that there are many here who would love to serve, but being transgendered they cannot. I would love to chat with you and share stories. If you would, you may e-mail me directly at:
rswarmergi@ aol.com
Good luck with all you do to advance the cause, and thank you, my brother-in-arms.

By: Ragina

Ragina — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 06:20:29 +0000

Hi Sarah, I’m Ragina, and like you, I’m also a vet. Just wanted to say that I loved your story and wish you all the best.
HOOAH
My best to you, Ragina

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:34:40 +0000

to Jordyn Wayne-Stress induced my 6!We were like this to start with,we just went ahead and did the macho thing to prove we could,now that thats over,we can be who we want

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:04:54 +0000

What I intend to do is leave my former life behind,dont care to be a male anymore,want to become Sarah forever,need a place to go,transition,and restart a new life

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 00:54:35 +0000

Thank you-never expected to turn out like this,but,life is full of surprises,and did in fact set out to prove manhood,only to find out that it is all a cruel joke-point being go as who you want to be-defy convention

By: Joanna M Phipps

Joanna M Phipps — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:15:22 +0000

One of the main covers for Transgender is for an MTF to take the hypermasculine jobs. Part of this maybe to try and prove to himself that he is indeed a man and can do as society expects. There maybe other familial reasons, such as a family tradition of military service that push the transperson in that direction.

Even if on the outside they appear to be successful there may always be a sense of incogruity, yes that male did a good job but that isnt really me. There appear to be 3 courses of action,
-transition early and avoid a life of confusion, depression and problems,
-try the ‘I am male role’ and see if you can keep the female burried
-retreat from life and everything else because its all too painful.

Some of us have lived the lie for most of our lives and it doesnt get any easier with practice. I know of transwomen who, like me, began the journey to completeness in the middle years of life.

It doesnt seem to matter when you transition as long as you, if you are trans, do so at some point in time so that you can enjoy how it feels to be complete.

Love Joanna