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It’s Been Too Hot And A Crossdressing Forum

This last week temperatures in Seattle reached record highs. Where I live it got up to 107 degrees (41 degrees Celsius for our friends to the North and East). Anyone who has lived in the Northwest a while has grown accustomed to extreme moderation in temperatures – it rarely gets below 30, and rarely peaks above 90. Very few homes have air conditioners, so this bought of overly hot summer brought us sweating and in search of any respite.

Unfortunately this meant I spent as little time as possible in our computer room, which is heated even further by Intel, and missed out on last week’s Crossdressing Website recommendation. We’re back in the saddle this week.

A Crossdressing Forum

This week’s recommendation comes from Laura Evans. It’s a crossdressing forum, and often has valuable resources and provides a place to talk with other crossdressers.

http://www.crossdressers.com  A site for discussing all sorts of topics related to crossdressing with other crossdressers.  Topics range from clothing, makeup, going out in public, coming out to the spouse or others, etc…  It is a moderated site with rules for participation.  There is a section for partners and a photo gallery.  There is more to it check it out.

Thanks for your recommendation Laura! If you have a site you’d like to recommend to others, please send me an email: vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com with your femme name (so I can give you credit), as well as a paragraph or two description of the site.

Keep cool, and remember to wear sunscreen!


I use Bare Escentuals mineral makeup as my sunscreen. The foundation includes an SPF15 sunblock. It’s the only sunscreen I’ve found that doesn’t cause me to break out – give it a try if your sunscreen doesn’t agree with your skin.

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My Transgendered Husband

The Internet is littered with website that portray the transgendered in a negative light. It could be a site so sexually explicit that even the latex clad crossdresser begins to sweat – and you know when this happens that things are getting out of hand.

To make it easier to find high quality transgender sites we’ll feature a website each week that is worth visiting. Rather than just send you a list of links we’ll provide a bit more information about the site you’re going to visit, so you know whether it’s worth your time.

If you would like to recommend a website to the readers of Crossdresser Heaven, please email me at vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com.  Include the website address, your femme name (so I can give you credit), and a brief description of the website and why you think others would find it valuable. In the coming weeks I’ll feature the high quality site you recommend.

Thank you to all the ladies who have already submitted their favorite transgender and crossdressing websites! Keep the recommendations coming!

Help For Transgendered Partners

This week’s website comes from a friend and fellow blogger, Lynn Jones, and is a wonderful find. Transpartners is a website by partners for partners of the transgendered. It’s based in the UK, but we won’t hold that against them :) It’s one of the few sites I’ve seen that provides good advice no matter where your partner is on the transgender spectrum. Some articles include ‘Relationship Options’ for partners of a transvestite’ and ‘Living With Her’ for partners of a transsexual.

Lynn has read through the advice they’ve provided, and gives it the thumbs up. I must concur. Their advice is thoughtful, caring and comprehensive. For anyone who lives with a crossdresser, transvestite or transsexual Transpartners is well worth a visit.


P.S. Before you read about Transpartners you were going to send me a link and brief description of your favorite transgender website. Please take a moment to email that to me at vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com – if you’re like me you’ll forget once you close your browser. Don’t let that deprive other’s from your fav sites, it just takes a moment to send.

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Know Any Good Crossdressing Websites?

Drowning in crossdresser websites When I was first trying to understand my strange desire to wear woman’s clothes there was hardly any information available. At least, any that I could pluck up the courage to find. Back then we didn’t have any fancy things like the Internet. We had to walk five miles uphill in the snow and pay a week’s wages just to borrow a book from the library. After such a trip one wasn’t inclined to ask the stern librarian for help finding a book about wearing woman’s clothes lest we unleash her wrath and earn a trip to the local minister.

So perhaps I’m exaggerating just a little… But I had no inkling of how I could both learn about crossdressing and prevent the world from knowing I partook of such an activity.

Fast forward less than a decade and information about crossdressing is in abundance. We’re just a Bing! away from finding out all we could ever want to know about pretty much anything.

Unfortunately such abundance of information has made it even harder to find good advice. Fifteen web searches later and we’re still sifting through ‘made for Adsense’ websites or the latest offering for crossdressing fetish dating – ‘53 crossdressers in your area are waiting to hear from you!’.

If you think Jerry Springer can do damage to the public perception of the transgender community, try your local (or more likely super multi-national) search engine.

‘So,’ you’re asking yourself, ‘what are you going to do about it Vanessa?’

I’m not going to do anything…

without your help at least :)

Eagerly you lean forward towards your computer screen and ask, ‘So how can I help dear?’

I’m glad you asked! Here’s how you can help:

  • Find a great website or article  that is relevant to the crossdressing or transgender community. Sites you frequent often are a good place to start.
  • Write up a few paragraphs as to why you recommend the site. Stories of how the information or site has helped you personally are best. More details are better – give readers a sense for the benefit they’ll get by visiting the site
  • Include your femme name so I can credit you
  • Email all this to me at vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com
  • Feel good about helping the transgender community

I’ll do a quick pass on the site, and every Monday I’ll share a new crossdressing or transgender website on Crossdresser Heaven.

A Crossdressing Gem

This week’s recommendation is a site run by one of my friends on Twitter, called Jessica Who. I especially appreciate Jessica’s sincerity when she shares her experiences crossdressing. Her sense of humor is refreshing and she’s nothing short of prolific in her writing. One of her most popular posts has the title ‘Wife Dreams of Dressing Husband in Lingerie’. I encourage you to visit her site, I’m sure you’ll learn almost as much as you laugh.

Thanks for your wonderful site Jessica!

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