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Crossdresser Beauty Lessons

Dear readers, I’m pleased to introduce Jamie, accomplished crossdresser and author of the transgendered girl’s best friend: The World’s Best Cross Dressing Guide. Jamie has been kind enough to share some of her crossdressing wisdom, as I’m sure we could all use some pointers as we learn how to crossdress!

A girl’s informal beauty lessons and training start by nursery age and by her teens she will already have spent hundreds, if not thousands, of hours practicing and experimenting.  Mothers teach daughters how to dress and how to look after their skin.

Crossdressing Beauty Lessons

Crossdressing Beauty Lessons

Older sisters teach younger sisters how to add volume to lifeless hair. Girls teach each other about eyeliner, nail polish, hemlines and high heels. Therefore, many people believe if a man were not brought up female, he would never be able to join the cult of womanhood since femininity is so complicated. Some men may fear exposing their ignorance if they put anything designed for women onto their male bodies since men did not get the years of training girls get growing up.

Men wear female clothes for a number of reasons. Some men believe themselves to be female trapped inside male’s bodies, some men dress for a sexual thrill, a sexual turn-on, and some men do this to express another side to their personality.

Crossdressing is also a lot of fun. Not just for transsexuals but also for many people in the transgendered community: crossdressers, drag queens, female impersonators, and the simply curious.

Probably one of the toughest jobs a transgendered person has to learn to be accepted as a female when out in public. So, for many crossdressers, crossdressing means much more than wearing female clothing. It also involves acquiring or imitating more complex feminine attributes and behaviors – including posture, mannerisms, and speech patterns. Acquiring such skills can bring great personal satisfaction but is also necessary for crossdressers who want to avoid attracting too much attention while crossdressed in public. Therefore, the purpose of this guide is to help you to pass as a genetic female, to increase the possibility of you being accepted as a real woman in the public.

To pass more convincingly as a woman be sure not to miss other valuable tips in Jamie’s crossdressing guide. Go out into the world and let your crossdress beauty shine!

Best Cross-dressing book: My Husband Betty

Last week I finished reading My Husband Betty, a book by Helen Boyd about Love, Sex, and Life with a Crossdresser. I can honestly say that this is the best book I’ve read about the cross-dressing experience. Helen compassionately shares her struggles living with a crossdresser, exposes the hidden truths about cross-dressing that Tri-ESS doesn’t want you to know and shares the real experiences of other woman who live with crossdressers.

My Husband Betty Book

best crossdressing bookAs mentioned in a previous article for women married to a cross-dresser, I still think Peggy Rudd’s book My Husband Wears My Clothes is a valuable resource. Peggy’s book is an excellent guide to cross-dressing 101. Helen’s book is more akin to Transgender 202.

The things I especially appreciated about Helen’s book are her frank and open discussions about cross-dressing and sexuality. This is a topic generally avoided by Tri-ESS, and other books about that discuss cross-dressing purely as a the expression of inner femininity.

I enjoyed Helen’s overview of all members of the transgender community, and discussing the difference between transsexual and transgender. Helen has a keen appreciation for where crossdressers fit into the larger transgender community, as well as some of the conflict that occurs between crossdressers and the same community.

Helen is also not shy to share the “darker side of crossdressing”, very vividly portrayed through the stories of wives and ex-wives of crossdressers. In some sense, the book could be titled “What your husband won’t tell you about crossdressing, but probably should.”

The Crossdressed Husband

My Husband Betty is valuable for the wife of a crossdresser, but I think the crossdressed husband has a duty to read this. An area that we often lack as crossdressers is empathy for our significant other. Resources that help us accept ourselves and share our transgendered nature with others are valuable, but often they don’t prepare us fully for the struggle our loved ones will have.

A highly recommended read – but be warned, My Husband Betty could shatter some of your preconceptions about crossdressers.


P.S. Have you ever wanted to be a better woman? Learn how to cross dress and pass as a woman

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