Comments on: What do you do to help your crossdressing? http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/ Fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:04:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: prashad http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/comment-page-2/#comment-8572 prashad Thu, 26 Jan 2012 16:38:18 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/#comment-8572 addresses same woman those help of crossdresser their ph.no. addresses same woman those help of crossdresser their ph.no.

]]> By: Rita http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/comment-page-2/#comment-7925 Rita Fri, 30 Dec 2011 11:38:57 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/#comment-7925 Hi, I have an addiction to wear women's clothes for as long as I can remember, I am now in my 30's and married. Here is a brief description of my life, apologies if it is a little too details but it's as it happened. I started off wearing my sister and mums clothes to fulfil my fantasies. Always ending up ejaculating into a nylon stocking, then stripping off after ejaculating because I felt ashamed and disgusted! Then When I went to college I moved away from home and started to buy my own stilettos, nylons, skirts etc especially pencil skirts, again each time ending up cuming and the same shame to follow. Later when I got a job I moved again but this time as luck would have it I moved into a house with 4 female house mates. At work I was in an office with 7 women so now I was always in the company of wemen all of the time. This also took its toll as it drove me further into my feminine side. To the point I began going for late night secret walks to near by estates all dressed up in heel skirts ect but not tarty just classy look. At the start I wore make up and a wig but later I got more brave I left the wig at home. Then arrived back at the house and climaxed, but in this case I developed a full on fetish ejaculate into each of my house mates shoes and and boots only stilettos in each case :-(. Between the four of then the had 157 pairs of stilettos boots, shoes and sandals. I am totally ashamed to say that I actually deposited into both lefts and rights of each in the time frame of just under 6 months.. I used to get do turned on when I would see them going out at night wearing the shoes the I came into, yea sick and perverted and I am so ashamed of that! I was dress size 14-16 and the four of them were 10-12 so I lost weight so I could wear their clothes, then I began to wear their clothes for my late night walks. On my return I would again get relief followed by the shame, disgust , regret and sorrow. Unfortunately as time went on the anti climax feeling began to last for shorter periods of time. Then I decided there maybe a way to ditch this addiction, I decided if I was to cum it had to be during my late nights walks and I had to be a minimum of 1/2mmile from the house. So my next walk I popped one of the girls stilettos into my handbag and headed off. At the turning point of my walk almost a mile from the house I found a nice quiet corner I descretly took out the shoe and began I was sooooo turned on just a few strokes I experienced the most intense orgasm ever my legs went weak my head went so light. Then the reality hit me s@&t I was so far from the house and dressed like this!! I began the walk of shame I was do disgusted! After that each time I had to cum this is what I made myself do, needless to say in the next year and a half I didnt cum very often. I returned home but 6 weeks before then i dedicated a night to each of the girls clothes tried on loads of different outfits, shoes, skirts, nylons, lingire, tops the works, but I took loads of photos with their own cameras, even photos of me depositing in their shoes. I also to a photo of a note the basically said I was sooo sorry for invading their privacy, and that this is what I have done with their stuff over the past two years, and that my fate is in their hands to do what they wish with these photos as i had invaded their privacy. Then left the cameras back where I got them, at the end of the 6 weeks I heard nothing so I deleted the photos, but if they ever deleted one of their own photos by mistake and use recovery software the will also find mine. I miss wearing their clothes I really do need help! rita.hickey1@hotmail.com Hi, I have an addiction to wear women’s clothes for as long as I can remember, I am now in my 30′s and married. Here is a brief description of my life, apologies if it is a little too details but it’s as it happened.
I started off wearing my sister and mums clothes to fulfil my fantasies. Always ending up ejaculating into a nylon stocking, then stripping off after ejaculating because I felt ashamed and disgusted!
Then When I went to college I moved away from home and started to buy my own stilettos, nylons, skirts etc especially pencil skirts, again each time ending up cuming and the same shame to follow.
Later when I got a job I moved again but this time as luck would have it I moved into a house with 4 female house mates.
At work I was in an office with 7 women so now I was always in the company of wemen all of the time. This also took its toll as it drove me further into my feminine side. To the point I began going for late night secret walks to near by estates all dressed up in heel skirts ect but not tarty just classy look. At the start I wore make up and a wig but later I got more brave I left the wig at home. Then arrived back at the house and climaxed, but in this case I developed a full on fetish ejaculate into each of my house mates shoes and and boots only stilettos in each case :-( . Between the four of then the had 157 pairs of stilettos boots, shoes and sandals. I am totally ashamed to say that I actually deposited into both lefts and rights of each in the time frame of just under 6 months.. I used to get do turned on when I would see them going out at night wearing the shoes the I came into, yea sick and perverted and I am so ashamed of that!
I was dress size 14-16 and the four of them were 10-12 so I lost weight so I could wear their clothes, then I began to wear their clothes for my late night walks. On my return I would again get relief followed by the shame, disgust , regret and sorrow. Unfortunately as time went on the anti climax feeling began to last for shorter periods of time.
Then I decided there maybe a way to ditch this addiction, I decided if I was to cum it had to be during my late nights walks and I had to be a minimum of 1/2mmile from the house. So my next walk I popped one of the girls stilettos into my handbag and headed off. At the turning point of my walk almost a mile from the house I found a nice quiet corner I descretly took out the shoe and began I was sooooo turned on just a few strokes I experienced the most intense orgasm ever my legs went weak my head went so light.
Then the reality hit me s@&t I was so far from the house and dressed like this!! I began the walk of shame I was do disgusted! After that each time I had to cum this is what I made myself do, needless to say in the next year and a half I didnt cum very often.
I returned home but 6 weeks before then i dedicated a night to each of the girls clothes tried on loads of different outfits, shoes, skirts, nylons, lingire, tops the works, but I took loads of photos with their own cameras, even photos of me depositing in their shoes. I also to a photo of a note the basically said I was sooo sorry for invading their privacy, and that this is what I have done with their stuff over the past two years, and that my fate is in their hands to do what they wish with these photos as i had invaded their privacy.
Then left the cameras back where I got them, at the end of the 6 weeks I heard nothing so I deleted the photos, but if they ever deleted one of their own photos by mistake and use recovery software the will also find mine.
I miss wearing their clothes I really do need help!
rita.hickey1@hotmail.com

]]> By: Daphbryn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/comment-page-2/#comment-6477 Daphbryn Wed, 20 Jul 2011 00:01:00 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/#comment-6477 For me it is all in the mind since the body I was born with doesn't match who I am inside (445 COGIATI) so I dress when I can and dream about maybe coming back as the bi woman I am in the next life ( if reincarnation is a fact). Until then I do all I can to live as the woman I really am with the means available to me. I even find my self with crushes on lesbian women and have major vagina and breast envy.  Best wishes to all of my sisters on this wonderful website. I love you all, Daphne For me it is all in the mind since the body I was born with doesn’t match who I am inside (445 COGIATI) so I dress when I can and dream about maybe coming back as the bi woman I am in the next life ( if reincarnation is a fact). Until then I do all I can to live as the woman I really am with the means available to me. I even find my self with crushes on lesbian women and have major vagina and breast envy.  Best wishes to all of my sisters on this wonderful website. I love you all, Daphne

]]> By: Racquel Lynn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/comment-page-2/#comment-3691 Racquel Lynn Mon, 19 Apr 2010 16:22:46 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/#comment-3691 I had my ears pierced when I was 18. It was the 80's and I was into the rock scene, so I started out under the cover that they earrings and eyeliner (and yes, even some of the clothing) was all part of the rock and roll thing, but the underliing truth is that I knew I wanted to be a girl and adopted a very feminine, yet still rock and roll appearance. (that was the wonderful thing about the 80's was that I could somewhat crossdress right in front of people without any of them knowing I was crossdressed. aside from actually wearing a dress or skirt, pretty much any other female clothing was fairly acceptable and cool.) Since coming out, I have had some permanent hair removal done and also had permanent make-up. Black eyeliner and Full Magenta Lips. So I wake up every day with that much make up on already. I plan to do some other permanent make up and also some more hair removal. I have also had long hair every since I was about 11 or12 years old. Once I have some dental work done this June and finish the hair removal on my face, my next hurdle will be breast implants and tracheal shave. I had my ears pierced when I was 18. It was the 80′s and I was into the rock scene, so I started out under the cover that they earrings and eyeliner (and yes, even some of the clothing) was all part of the rock and roll thing, but the underliing truth is that I knew I wanted to be a girl and adopted a very feminine, yet still rock and roll appearance.
(that was the wonderful thing about the 80′s was that I could somewhat crossdress right in front of people without any of them knowing I was crossdressed. aside from actually wearing a dress or skirt, pretty much any other female clothing was fairly acceptable and cool.)

Since coming out, I have had some permanent hair removal done and also had permanent make-up. Black eyeliner and Full Magenta Lips. So I wake up every day with that much make up on already. I plan to do some other permanent make up and also some more hair removal.
I have also had long hair every since I was about 11 or12 years old.
Once I have some dental work done this June and finish the hair removal on my face, my next hurdle will be breast implants and tracheal shave.

]]> By: Racquel Lynn http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-3690 Racquel Lynn Mon, 19 Apr 2010 16:14:08 +0000 http://cdhtest.dreamhosters.com/what-do-you-do-to-help-your-crossdressing/#comment-3690 My wife was the first person I came out to, other than a couple of friends in high school. She was amazing and very supportive and actually loved it. I told her before we got married that I was a crossdresser and I also wanted to have a sex change and she still married me. We divorced after almost 10 years because of financial problems, not anything to do with my gender issues. I really did not think I would find anyone else like her that would want to be with me and accept me, much less support me and encourage me and love me more for being the real me, but I have been very lucky that I have been able to find women that do support me, but there have been a couple that said they were supportive, but it was obvious that they were not as comfortable and accepting as they said they were. I let them know up front that I like to crossdress and that I will eventually be living full time as a female and that I fully intend to pursue surgery to become a female, and they said they were fine with that, and also fine with me dressing up, but not so fine with me being out in public or around their friends. I tell them that this is what I told them up front and they better get used to the idea, because going full time as a female means full time and once I start full time, I cannot only be a female when it is convenient for them or to please their friends. So some will say they are okay with it, thinking you would never go out in public like that or whatever and then when they see that you are serious and it hits them that what you said is for real, they don't know how to handle it. Although most of the girls I have dated since my divorce already knew about me before we started dating and have already been supportive, but for those who did not know before, I am honest and straight up front with them and I am more assertive when I tell them that I will be living full time as female and going for surgery as soon as I can afford it. I let them know what happened with the two previous girlfriends who knew up front, but then only had a problem with it when they actually had to deal with the fact that I was going out in public or going to hang out with her friends wearing a dress or something feminine. I make it more of a point to get accross the reality that "Yes, it will happen, this is where my life is headed so don't tell me now that you can accept it and then give me a problem about it when it actually happens". Overall, I have gotten acceptance and support from the girls I have dated. It pays to be open and honest up front. My wife was the first person I came out to, other than a couple of friends in high school. She was amazing and very supportive and actually loved it. I told her before we got married that I was a crossdresser and I also wanted to have a sex change and she still married me. We divorced after almost 10 years because of financial problems, not anything to do with my gender issues. I really did not think I would find anyone else like her that would want to be with me and accept me, much less support me and encourage me and love me more for being the real me, but I have been very lucky that I have been able to find women that do support me, but there have been a couple that said they were supportive, but it was obvious that they were not as comfortable and accepting as they said they were. I let them know up front that I like to crossdress and that I will eventually be living full time as a female and that I fully intend to pursue surgery to become a female, and they said they were fine with that, and also fine with me dressing up, but not so fine with me being out in public or around their friends. I tell them that this is what I told them up front and they better get used to the idea, because going full time as a female means full time and once I start full time, I cannot only be a female when it is convenient for them or to please their friends.
So some will say they are okay with it, thinking you would never go out in public like that or whatever and then when they see that you are serious and it hits them that what you said is for real, they don’t know how to handle it.
Although most of the girls I have dated since my divorce already knew about me before we started dating and have already been supportive, but for those who did not know before, I am honest and straight up front with them and I am more assertive when I tell them that I will be living full time as female and going for surgery as soon as I can afford it. I let them know what happened with the two previous girlfriends who knew up front, but then only had a problem with it when they actually had to deal with the fact that I was going out in public or going to hang out with her friends wearing a dress or something feminine.
I make it more of a point to get accross the reality that “Yes, it will happen, this is where my life is headed so don’t tell me now that you can accept it and then give me a problem about it when it actually happens”.
Overall, I have gotten acceptance and support from the girls I have dated. It pays to be open and honest up front.

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