Where in the world do you crossdress?
The Internet is a wonderful invention for crossdressers. It allows us to reach out and find a community without risking our families, our jobs or in some cases our lives.
Personally, I’ve been extremely blessed by the resources I’ve found on the Internet. It was how I found my first crossdressing support group, read my first crossdressing tips, and was able to share my crossdressing secret with the others.
I know that meeting people online is an inferior substitute to sharing your true self with another in person. It’s to this end that I’ve begun maintaining a database of crossdressing support groups throughout the world, and asking you to submit any transgender support groups you know about that aren’t listed.
No crossdressing support group?
In many countries like the US, Canada, Australia, UK and Germany we’re blessed to have so many support groups available to us. But what do you do if there is no crossdressing support group in you country?
I began pondering this question after a South African crossdresser left a comment looking for someone in her area. It can be lonely when there’s noone else to talk to, go shopping with, or just spend an evening dressed to the nines. If you live in a country that doesn’t have many crossdressing support groups I have an ask for you, but before we get there:
A word of caution about meeting other crossdressers
More than likely the person you’re going to meet is a wonderful lady who will be thrilled to form a new friendship with someone who shares her secret. However, there are some people who may have more nefarious intent. It could be someone who is looking to cause you harm, or an admirer who is looking to ‘hook up’ with a crossdresser. Always meet in a public place for the first time. If you’re still in the closet, agree to go in male mode and meet at a coffee shop or another place you know other people will be. Get to know each other over email or the phone before meeting face to face. You don’t have to do an FBI background check on the person, but you owe it to yourself to be careful.
Comment and find a friend nearby
Now to my ask. If you live in a country with no crossdressing support group and would like to find others in your area please leave a comment with your email address and the country/city you live in. Check back every few days to see if another crossdresser lives nearby. Who knows, you may make a great new friend.
With love,
Vanessa
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Vanessa is a happily married 30 year old transgendered woman from Seattle. It's been a long road to acceptance for her, despite the fact that she has been crossdressing for more than 25 years. Sometimes, when she looks in the mirror she longs to see the girl that lives
within her. 
11 Comments
i am from newyork and i have been a crossdresser for many years and i belong to a meetup group and i love dressing.
I go to a group in Blackpool, UK. I contacted via their website, Renaissance, Blackpool. I have met some really sweet and lovely people, and am mking friends. Their is support and friendship, too, for those going “all the way”.
I’m near Amsterdam, NL. From what I have found online there is not much around here as far as support groups go. To be honest I’m not sure I could pluck up the courage (or find the time) to go if there was… (Still the option would be nice)
I live in southren Oregon ” Medford” Area. This is where I do most of my “Dressing”. I don’t know much about other “dressers in my area. I know they are out there, But I haven’t spoke, or emailed any of them as of yet.
*Hugs*
Dawn
We live in NE Florida,near Jacksonville.I have lived in both Chicago and New England where there is a large TG network.We are trying to get some new monthly gettogethers going in this area.I am an out and about girl that goes anywhere yet,on the opposite end,there are cds that never leave their spaces and live with their secret.I wish more would get up the courage to come out and meet others. Rogina
from tunisia
i currently live in brooklyn new york and i am a member of a meetup group inmanhattan.
Thank you to all who have already replied. If you see someone in your area, click on their name in the comments to email them if you’d like. I’ll be sure to link to this page from other areas of the site, so crossdressers who are searching for someone in their area in the future may find you.
Hugs,
Vanessa
I live in Wv. near harrisonburg va. Most of the time i only dress at home. but always were frillies under my male street clothes. I would love to find a support group or a friend or two in the area.
hugs
Jessica
your near harrisonburg jessica, so am i.
Hello all, Happy New Year to all. I live in the “Centeral Savanah River Area” of Georgia. I’d love to meet any others in this area and maybe start a gathering group. Please contact me here. Love to all, Ragina.