Girl friends and wives want to know.
Why do men cross dress?
Why does my husband cross dress?
How can I make him stop cross dressing?
The unfortunate truth, is that there is no simple, one line answer to these questions. If there were, you probably wouldn’t be reading this article, and the debates on this topic would be silent.
In my personal experience, the fascination with woman’s clothes started when I was very young. I must have been about four years old, and I remember going to great lengths to procure and then wear my mom’s nightie. My most vivid memory is as a teenager, nervously buying a pair of pantyhose from a local supermarket and then wearing them home under my pants.
I felt (and still feel) a need to wear woman’s clothes, and I can’t quite explain where it comes from. The media like to think of cross dressing as a sexual perversion, and so naturally they see the desire to cross dress and purely for sexual gratification. The problem with this theory is that when I (and many others) first felt the desire to cross dress I didn’t know what sex was.
Many cross dressers I’ve asked describe the need as ‘feeling more comfortable wearing woman’s clothes’. This is sometimes (but not always) coupled with the desire to be seen as a woman. To not just dress like a woman, but behave like one as well, to wear make-up and otherwise pass as a woman. There are others who cross dress for sexual excitement. The need to cross dress is indeed a spectrum.
That still doesn’t answer the question why do men cross dress?
Marcy proposes a few interesting answers to this questions.
One argument is that transvestism of cross-dressing is a way of offering a challenge to society’s preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they are unhappy at being men. Others didn’t mind the male state, but also like to put on women’s clothes occasionally. Some men cross-dress simply to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can only be met by the comfort that wearing women’s clothes gives them.
Yet the true reason why men cross dress remains somewhat of a mystery. It is intensely personal, often confusing and sometimes guilt ridden. I’m hopeful that as society grows more tolerant of diverse gender expression we will see more cross dressers and transgendered stepping forward to share their stories. Without the need to justify their behavior, and no longer shamed by society perhaps we will be better able to answer this baffling question.
Comment and let me know, I would love to hear- why do you cross dress?
to Adam…..LOL…right on,its all good
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hey Todd,
You are so correct about the skirt location in store,does make
ya think.Wear your skirt anywhere you please…I wear mine 7
days a week.(I have many skirts) Where ever i go; work,store,
mall etc….i dont care what people say AND most,about 99% of women i that talk to TELL me that they like my skirt,that they like to see a guys wear a skirt.
I am a crossdresser and have been for a very long time. Is there some advice you could give me for my new wife to explain to her that she does not need to worry about me turning gay or feeling wierd towards me. I need help bad. I want to help her to understand. But as a crossdresser myself and as many crossdresser’s i can not explain to her why i do it. If you could be of some help i would greatly appriciate it.
Than you.
I been a life long cross dresser since i was about 5 to 10 years of age , and i am now 55.I still do not understand my need to dress as a girl.I feel strongly i was born in the wrong sex.I feel more at ease while dress as a girl.I do most of the time have my own fantasys of having sex as a girl with a man ( either my husband or boyfriend and at times have rape sexual attacks fantasys as well ).I think i dress as a girl because it helps me feel at ease and gives me the chance to think about in my dream world or fantasy of having sex as a girl/woman.
This is nothing new, but I crossdress becuase it is comfortable and relaxing. Mainly, I just like women’s clothes better. I love femininity and want to be as feminine as possible (in some regards, but I also like being a man sometimes). I don’t necessarily want to “pass” — usually. I just want to wear the pretty dress and relax.
For me, sometimes there is a sexual aspect to it. I love wearing panties or lingerie to bed with my wife (a rarity). It just makes everything that much more fun. I love having an orgasm while dressed up and pretty as well. This is not the main reason at all though, it is more of an added bonus.
Rachel, thanks for sharing love. Great to hear from you.
Hugs,
Vanessa
I think in the same way that you do. I have crosssdressed since I was 10, I’m 38 now and I’m not really passable as a woman without a great deal of effort. For the most part I crossdress because i like womens clothes better. I am not into makeup and wigs and don’t see it ever being a real issue. Although there is a sexual or more a sensuous side of crossdressing, I think that there are many of us who use it as an escape from our very regular everyday lives. I love womens lingerie and especially shoes. However I also like being a man. I do manly things for work and also as hobbies. But there is a great release in coming home and shaving my legs and slipping into a nice pair of pantyhose, a silky nightgown and a pair of high heels. Not all of us want to be a woman full time nor we want to have sex with men. This is a very popular misconception that many people have and as result, crossdressers unlike many gay or lesbian people are even less accepted in society. Recently I have been able to have my wife accept my crossdressing as a part of me and she is incredibly supportive. But she also knows that it is MY preference to keep it quiet. I have told many of my female friends that I have done drag shows as a way to test the waters, and much to my surprise they think its great. At any rate I hope that my small contribution to this post reaches someone somewhere.
Good for you! rachel!
I totally agree!!
It just feels SO good!!
Hi,
I am 59, and started to crossdress about three years ago. It started when my wife was away for a trip a couple a weeks and I found CD hilarious. I left a wineglass with lipstick in the dish washer machine. She thought I was cheating on her, kept asking me who´s been seeing me. I said nobody. Then, When I told her she didn´t believe me! “It´s just a bad lie!”, she said. I said wait. When I dressed and put on some make-up she started to cry. It has been a pretty hard time since, but we keep on talking about it now and then and she knows I crossdress sometimes when she is not around for a while even if it´s just a couple of hours.
remember who the first crossdresser was? adam he wore one of eves big leafs
I recently wrote about a crossdressing client on my blog. Actually, he just liked to wear a nightgown in bed. I think he also found the outward expression of his femininity very relaxing.
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I just discovered my boyfriends basket of goodies and at first I freaked out because I knew for some time he was hiding something from me. I told him that I want to join in on whatever it is. Now I know and I can accept this but I want to understand the need to dress up and fantasize, would you men be willing to talk and share these fantasies with your wife if she was open and non judgemental about it?
How do I approach this with him without him freaking out?
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HI
I am in the same boat you are in. I tried to explain to her, and she wont budge. The problem is there is no point in arguing whose mind is closed or not in a rational state. It is quite difficult to argue with them, I guess next to impossible.
Simply put hon, you have to make her feel special all the time. You have to show her how important she is to you all the time. That doesn’t mean you have to kiss her ass. It means that their really isn’t anything short of action that will convince her otherwise. Good Luck.
Cheryl
Hi Chastity, this article might help hon: http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-tell-your-wife-you-crossdress/
Try letting her read this forum
I am a cross-dresser. Just like an alcoholic, we will ALWAYS be a CD. We need this “expression” of ourselves, just like an artist needs to express their creativity. With in us is the want need and/or desire to submit to a female. The wife, Girl-friend or signifigant other will be the total recipiant of the admiration that a queen would deserve. She would be worshipped. Then he changes back to his male self….
I have been married for over 40 years to my lovely wife. Before we got married I got her a book on transvestism, and had her read it. I also got her a few books on forced feminization so she would learn about the possible positive effects of having her “personal Maid” and closest “girlfriend” all wrapped up in her subbie-hubbie.
Good-Luck!
Hi there
tell her the reason you do it is because you just like womens clothes & like to emulate the female form as that is what cross-dressing boils down to.
In a way providing you are not gay or bi-sexual all ready, i think it actually makes you straighter than the macho macho men who feel the need to prove their manliness, as win my case as well as liking womens clothes and admire the female form that much that i want to emulate the female form. Please note that i am not trying to put words into ya mouth, as evry one has to find themselves, their selves. Pep talk to yourself in your head & answer your own question b4 answering hers.
I would be happy to help if she wants to communicate with me. I am a heterosexual female. My boyfriend is a heterosexual male that likes to cross dress. Not into men and is not “gay”.
Iv just started doing cross dressing the first time I did it was for a costume party so that way my excuse all my friends were cool with it but then they started saying how girly I looked and it suited me but they didn’t know that I finally felt like me for the first time I have know idea how you should tell your wife I don’t think anyone can everyone takes things different wish I could help
I personally would love to converse with an understanding woman on this subject. I have told my wife and she is aware of my panty fetsih, but is NOT willing to open her mind or even try to understand any of it. She has actually gone so far as to forbid me to do it. Yes, I would love to be able to be open and honest with my wife, unfortunately this is not the case. I truly believe our relationship would be strenghtened by having her approval and support.
Maybe you could slowly incorporate it into your lovemaking by asking him to wear your dirty panties while you have sex. Maybe even suggest a girls night in where you offer to paint his nails and give him bubble bath.
If you would like to converse directly, my email is cntlvr4u@hotmail.com
I’m a straight guy who crossdresses in private. The reason I do it it’s a turn on. It’s a role play thing. The problem with sharing it is that he might be afraid you’ll tell people. I would wait until you guys are having sex and I’d put your panties on him. Turn it intoa kinky thing. Rub him through the panties. Maybe put a double ended dildo in youand wear his underwear. Make him rub your dildo through the underwear. This is how it hapenned for me. It’s a way to get involved and have fun too.
Bring up the subject of crossdressing during conversation and see how he reacts. Act like you have an open curiosity and he will eventually open up, because it is what I would want if I were him.
You could start by asking him if he wants to wear a nightie to bed (you might have to buy him one) or lay his stuff out on the bed one evening and just ask him if he would wear it in front of you
Oh, if I had just had the opportunity to tell my wife about my enjoyment of wearing women’s garments, I think our marriage would still be working.!
We have acknowledged that we do love each other, after being separated for many years.
However, with our ‘catholic’ upbringing, I thopught myself sort of weird how I felt, and whenever the subject came up it was treated with derision.
Only talking to people like all you lovelies have I found out that my feelings are so normal.- and shared.
Maybe we were all born a generation early. !
Luv to all
thing is even tho you say you will be non judgemental there will still be aspects of you that will be… i know this because my G/F said the same to me and she didnt openly judge me at first but little things she said over the first year or so let me know what she was thinking and it took some time for her to accept me for me… i told her that i am me with or without the clothing its not my clothing that makes me who i am on the inside and if you cant love me for me then theres no reason for us both to be unhappy and well 18 yrs later we are still together.. but i still dont share all my fantasies with her some are just to be kept to ones self i guess
but i am happy to hear there are women like you who want to help and take part in it all because there are guys like me who with a lil help make 1 hell of a good looking lady and some guys like me have a woman who enjoys the touch of a woman
I wanna talk, please e-mail me
Boy, are you in for some good fun! If you like the idea of sharing CD with your husband, take the bull by the horns, and “dress him up”.
Just invite him to the bedroom, “order” him to strip naked, and then tell him that that you have a fantasy about dressing a man up in woman’s things. I am almost certain your husband will go along with what ever you want to do….
mcC, I am a heterosexual crossdresser. My wife knows and is supportive now. It hasn’t always been that way though. The simle fact that you want to talk to him is huge.
Whiole I am heterosexual, I do have a fantasy about my wife and I having sex with another tgirl. The key part of the fantasy is her. What we have done to satisfy it is to talk about it when we have sex. It is very erotic for me. Actually having sex wwith my wife while dressed I do believe is my real fantasy. She responds to that and accepts that and it has added variey to our sex life.
I dress fully, dresses and skirts, stockings and pantyhose, heels wigs makeup and I am passable about 70% of the time. I don’t have sluty inhibitions and as a matter of fact I conduct my with class at all times.
Try this. You bring the subject in general conversation. Tell him you seen a couple tgirls and it really kind of intrigued you. Then lean the conversation towards him dressing. Once you get him dressed he will be much more willing to talk.
Now for the tough part. Think about one thing in your life that you just really love. You just can’t live without it if at all possible. Do you really know why? It is something that you enjoy and it makes you feel good. You don’t really know why, you are just really into it. That is what crossdressing is for crossdressers. Keep in mind that a very high percentage of crossdressers are not gay or bisexual. They like the girly girls. And what I mean by that is they like the girls that dress very nice. Also keep in mind that depending on where he is with his personal journey, crossdressing for him may be a very embarrassing, guiltful and confusing thing.
If you say you can accept it then you really have to accept it. Once you really accept it be prepared for him to dress a fair amount because he has not ever been able to dress and actually hang with someone he cares for. It is so theraputic.
I do not want to be a woman, I absolutely love to crossdress, fish, play guitar, hunt and take sly looks at the hotties waking through the world.
I don’t know if this helps you but I know it will help him.
Why do you like ice cream? Because t taste good.
Why does he dress? Because it feels good.
Why ask why?
Cheryl Ann Teaks
i feel that he would be happy if u found out i would be happy to share with anyone my wife and kids know but dont accept i think it drives them away i dress up cause its more i would love to talk with wife ir other women who accept it more even get pointers from them
yes i would be she is on the other side she is like guys r not supposed to dress she tried a few times with me i i would take him out shopping i our cross dresser dream if u acceping he will be there to make a girls night out or halloween must of u fantazie being accepted with our girlfriend
a simple yes we want her to share our fantasies and both do the fanties and shoping toghter
Don’t tell him you know. Let him know you approve of CD by dropping hints about it in a generic sense. Steer the conversation in a CD direction when the opportunity presents itself (maybe when gay marriage comes up?), and then, “Gee, I don’t know what the big deal is to everyone. People just have needs. Some people just need to dress up as the opposite sex now and then to be fulfilled, and that’s perfectly healthy.” If he knows you’re going to accept him, then he’ll probably come out to you.
We all want to be accepted by our loved ones for the completeness of who we are. If he sees this opportunity to deepen the relationship between you, then he’ll jump at it.
Good luck!
slowly bring up the topic see what he says maybe try to play around with him and see what he does.
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i could not say it better if i tried shave your legs 900 ct sheets chocolate n a romantic movie thats me all the way. i deserve to pamper my self
I just had my husband tell me he cross dresses and has been keeping it from me for 30+ years, it is very hard to understand and to even believe this is my husband. After a few days of discussing it with him Im trying to understand him, Im not willing to give up the Man I Married. Im very scared he will leave, if we cant come to an understanding. If someone could give me some insight that would greatly be appreciated.
i have been with my boyfriend (who i call my husband) for 17 yrs.I did not know of his crossdressing right off,but his ex-g.f decided to tell me in the hopes i would get freaked out and not want to be with him. (Guess she was not happy they split up). anyway,,,, little did she know i hhad already had 2 lesbian relationships prior. So i guess im bi, i have had 2 relationships with a woman(committed) and alot of promiscuity with men. although a few long term ones.
My husband i would say would not be passable at all,but then again he is really into the panties,panty hose,lingerie, and high heels.
Personally being attracted to women to, i would not mind in the least if my husband was a passable gal. i really would have the best of both worlds, boobs and c***k !
I am very understanding but we have had some very rough times too. We have been through the hot sex all the time, do anything he wanted,gadgets and gizmos,etc. and we or I have been through the total turn off,your a freak,it disgusts me, you can only have sex with me when you are dressed up, you really want a man,not me times….
He says he has never beenwith a man, but even after 17 yrs. im not sure i completely beleve that.
but the fact is,he is with me ,i do get turned on by his crossdressing, he has the best looking legs in heels and hose ive seen.
I think it is hard for a person to have all these different and unsure feelings when you are involved in this situation.
I have been guilty of shaming and putting my husband down for what he enjoys,yes to hurt his feelings,only to find that at the timenot only were we having problems but that my words scarred him, and made him more stand offish to me,and to the degree that we were pretty much “room mates” in our home.
Things are much better,we are working on our trust and respect issues, which we both damaged.
I do admit i do fantasize about us having another c/d join us, but even though the thought is there, i know i would never be able to go through with it, im stuck on monogomy,and still cant deal with the ‘its only sex, idea.
So enough of my rambling,And im sorry that your wife has such a wall about it.
Yes,from experience approval and support is like the utmost for a good relationship.
i noticed your post is from 2011,so i hope things are working out, and that you are still together.
I would love to converse and share thoughts with you.
i will send an e mail too!!
Every woman wants to feel special, but a relationship is a two way thing, meaning a man wether transvestite or not,should not be taken for granted. Think the main thing to when coming out of the tranny closet, to your partner is to re-assure her that your not gay, as even some of the most open minded people when faced with this scenario can become closed minded when comes to the subject of transvestism/cross-dressing as is the western worlds last taboo, as the gays, lesbians, & goths have become part of society & accepted. I am a part time transvestite, & I regard myself as lesbian when dressed, as my sexuality does not change(I’m still only attracted to women)cus if you only like women you only like women! They may be some that use the cover of transvestism as an excuse to come out of the gay closet, but the majority of transvestites are straight men that just love womens clothes & the female form to the point they want to emulate the women they admire so much.
to beckyg65
like what you put on your mesg above this one, but wondered what make you worried that your man would want be or do another man. Is it just the fact that he’s a cross-dresser & there for your worried he might gay, or is there other reasons that none of my business. i only ask this cus i hate the people who think that we transvestites only do this to pull men cus according to stats & most other tranny’s i know most are straight, & this mith that we cross-dressers are gay, needs dispelling. Like in all other walks of life though! you get a variety of different people in this community & some may be gay or Bi-sexual, but its not the rule or majority, some of us just like womens clothes & admire the female form so much so, that we want to emulate it, which is the case with me, & generally prob what been a cross-dresser is about.
Ok ..I am a straight female…45 years old. My boyfriend told me he is a crossdresser. He is not gay and I am the only one he has ever told.
At first I thought I was openminded enough to handle it. Then he decided to dress daily…wherther it be in a night gown. Womans shourts with bra and tank top…One day I cam home and found him in the driveway cleaning his car in womas jeans white flip flopps and full makeup…only thing missing was the wig. He came tward me for a kis….and I felt uncomfortable…didnt like it. I went againt my own feekings as not to hurt his…but as the day and evening went on I got even more turned off.
He told me he does not want to “change” but that he just likes to dress this way. Ok fine,,I love him and want him to be comforable in his own home and skin but explained for me…sexually I an not have sex with him unless he is him….(make sence?)
One day Im doing laundery…putting clo0thes away,,,he is out so I know his makeup burshes are in his underwear drawer. Upon putting clothes away I discover “estroven”…this upset me because he said he didnt want to “change”…isnt the point of taking hormones…even over the counter hormones..a sign someone wants to “change”?
Moving on I learned his alter name…his full name and found a facebookpage dedicated to “her” with links to transgender/transsexual sites and support groups…ok fine. hat got me was something he/she posted….it said “sorry i didnt make it to church…i was home practicing whichcraft and being a lesbien.”
Again…I am a straight 45yr old female who has never been attracted to female…I am actually a submissive female who enjoys dominiate men in bed. (which he protrayed himself as when we started dating)
I ffel bad because we have broken up…maybe thats why im here to get answers. He is a good person and wants more from “her” in his life. It just isnt for me…As Iv read through this site isee alot of you have wives…also wives who are accepting. However I am no closer to undersrtanding or haveing the capability of being with a man who thinks himself a feamale’lesbien. I just wish things were differant. We were so good together as a team out of bed. :::sigh::
I realize I cant force him to change,,that will only lead to more deception. I also know I can not live part time as the other half of a lesbien relationship… Now I know I have to let him go so he can be free to be himself/herself.
sorry for so many typos…a bit stressed over this whle thing
Hi Tracy,
I hope all is going well with you. I too am heterosexual female, 46. I have a CD boyfriend and knew it when we got back together. I have openly participated and loved being with him CD. I dont feel lesbian when we do it… but… just recently he told me he wants to take hormones… and has started… I like you am not lesbian and dont want a feminized BF who is “changing” his physical self. I need the man parts all functioning well etc… He has become more obessive with his appearance, acting very much like an anorexic person or someone addicted to plastic surgery (all conditions which I have extensive experience dealing with in my profession)… dismorphic, narcissitic and very self absorbed.
I honestly don’t think this is about being a CD. In his case, I suspect it is about an obsessive compulsive disorder that is not necessarily related to CD.
I love my man and his feminine side too… but I am not interested in the feminine side “chemically killing” and high jacking his male side (which will affect his ability in bed and will take away the physical aspects of our attraction). He is a very manly man which is something that I need and love. I too may have to let him go and move on to something that suits him (am me) better if he wishes to fully feminize with hormones etc.
Just like he needs to be who he is, I am not and never will become a lesbian.
So to all of you sweet loves that CD, please please please don’t lie about your full intentions if you plan to be sexually and physically altered using chemicals and hormones and have desires to become a woman through surgery or hormones etc! Because heterosexual partners like me are born this way. We are what we are and we are not going to change our sexual orientation.
JPL…
Thank you for your responce. actually he and I met out yesterday. He told me that part of his life is over. He told I am more important than his self destructive behavior. I explained that I think he is a good person, and while I believe his intentions are good, I do not think it is that easy.
We are no longer together, I did tell him we can be friends, but in the future there will not be a relationship. I too, told him I wish him the best in finding a partner who can understand and even be involved…but I am not her.
Thanks again for this site. I learned alot about him as well as myself in teading the posts here.
Happy new year everyone.
Hey JPL
The disorder you are thinking about is GID or Gender Identity Disorder. I know this because like alot of people here i am a cross dresser but I’m also more. I feel better dressing looking acting going out at a female. It’s hard to deal with yes and alot of people don’t understand what or how to do with it. I myself am not gay not would I date another guy. I feel in a way I wanna look female and have the chest but not take hormones because I want my man parts to. It’s even tough for me to deal with and there are days were I feel like nobody wants me. But I work through it.
Hi . I know how you feel. I also feel I was born the. Wrong sex. I love everything about girls. I started dressing around 10. I have many fantasies of being a girl and having sex with a guy. I would like to chat more with you about this.
To Vicky mynx.
Hi Vicky, Please can you tell me, when you cross-dress do you feel that you would like your partner see you as an attractive women and make love to you or you are just excited by your own self looking in the mirror. Because my boyfriend told me that he is a straight CDr and he is fine with being a man, its just his sexual fantasy .But i cant understand what exactly is his sexual fantasy. I asked him to put on a wig i put a make up on his face and then we took pictures and i asked him if he goes somewhere would he masturbate on his pics he didn’t say No, which got me really thinking that he is not “”a I regard myself as lesbian when dressed, as my sexuality does not change(I’m still only attracted to women)”".He cant answer if he is attracted to himself ,all he says that he used to masturbate before while CD and its his habit and now as he told me and i am the only person he ever opened, he doesnt know what are his feelings while CDsing.I am super confused. He tells me he loves me and wants me and he is not gay.But he masturbated on his own pictures. Or lets say used too,what does it mean?
To Vicky mynx.
Hi Vicky, Please can you tell me, when you cross-dress do you feel that you would like your partner see you as an attractive women and make love to you or you are just excited by your own self looking in the mirror. Because my boyfriend told me that he is a straight CDr and he is fine with being a man, its just his sexual fantasy .But i cant understand what exactly is his sexual fantasy. I asked him to put on a wig i put a make up on his face and then we took pictures and i asked him if he goes somewhere would he masturbate on his pics he didn’t say No, which got me really thinking that he is not “”a I regard myself as lesbian when dressed, as my sexuality does not change(I’m still only attracted to women)”".He cant answer if he is attracted to himself ,all he says that he used to masturbate before while CD and its his habit and now as he told me and i am the only person he ever opened, he doesnt know what are his feelings while CDsing.I am super confused. He tells me he loves me and wants me and he is not gay.But he masturbated on his own pictures. Or lets say used too,what does it mean?
Maybe give him a dressing day when your not around or try to do little things for him like wearing some panties to bed. being supportive would be the best thing for both of you all it also took a lot of courage to come out and tell you he likes to cd so be proactive with that and see what you all can start talking about.
Men crossdress for a variety of reasons: sexual stimulation, comfort, Tension release, a brief escape from reality, emulation,in that they look up to their female partners,or they feel that they are indeed more feminine than male. even physical health can be a reason. one must always look at a difficult situation logically and not emotionally to understand the reasoning behind certain actions. I believe that since it took him 30 years to tell you that he must love you very much, and is probably more afraid of you ending the relationship.In my own situation, I tried to tell my wife of 15 years that it helped relieve stress, brought on by bills and work. I have been unhappily divorced for over thirty years now. I still love her, but she doesnt want any part of me. I now have certain health issues that prescription garments can alleviate, but at a fixed income cannot be purchased. instead I opt for panty hose and skirts at home. and accept misery when I have to go out. I have also learned how to communicate better and to understand my own failings in order to correct them. cross dressing can be very educational, especially in the reasoning of why it takes a woman so long to dress for a night out. just be patient and good luck.
i feel the same way sometimes then again i have also thought that if i were to change sex i would be a lesbian but idk because sometimes i dress up and think of a man being in me it does get hard and is very confusing. please lets chat about this more often.
MY DEAR. TRACY
I AM SAD FOR YOU. ABOUT BEING STRESSED. WITH GOOD TIME AND UNDERSTANDING.IT WILL ALL PAST”