<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: You&#8217;re Not The Only One Embarrassed By Crossdressing</title> <atom:link href="http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/</link> <description>Crossdresser Heaven offers fashion, makeup and body movement tips for crossdressers who want to look and feel more feminine. Transgender news and issues are also discussed, along with Christianity and crossdressing.</description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 08:36:03 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=abc</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>By: Carol</title><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-2986</link> <dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 20:21:25 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/#comment-2986</guid> <description>Dear, the guy is neurotic, demented, and a fetishist. Take some constructive advice. He dosent deserve a nice girl like you. Im sure theres another mate out there would live to have your giving, concern, patience and love. Someone who would treasure it. Get your boots on, and get walking.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear, the guy is neurotic, demented, and a fetishist. Take some constructive advice. He dosent deserve a nice girl like you. Im sure theres another mate out there would live to have your giving, concern, patience and love. Someone who would treasure it. Get your boots on, and get walking.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carol</title><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-2985</link> <dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:35:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/#comment-2985</guid> <description>Taking a constructive route to solve this, get out of there. The guy is demented, a fetishist, and self centered. Get out. theres a mate out there somewhere who will return all the love you have to give. I wish you everything good, Carol</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking a constructive route to solve this, get out of there. The guy is demented, a fetishist, and self centered. Get out. theres a mate out there somewhere who will return all the love you have to give. I wish you everything good, Carol</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carol</title><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-2984</link> <dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:33:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/#comment-2984</guid> <description>Talking a problem solving approach, get out of there. The guy mean self centered. Also a fetishist, and demented. Shame you try so hard only to have your heart broken. Get out of the situation and find a mate deserving of your love and loyalty.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talking a problem solving approach, get out of there. The guy mean self centered. Also a fetishist, and demented. Shame you try so hard only to have your heart broken. Get out of the situation and find a mate deserving of your love and loyalty.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Miserable and sad</title><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-2980</link> <dc:creator>Miserable and sad</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:48:35 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/#comment-2980</guid> <description>your wife is very lucky to have you.  I keep trying and trying to support my husband all the while getting used to this new life.  He&#039;s had forever to learn how to deal with it; me not so long.  But I am willing.  But he&#039;s so impatient and frustrated.  All he can do is complain about how unfit we are for each other because I am not kinky enough for him and in a fit of anger told me that I have never completely satisfied him sexually because he wanted to be fully woman with me.  What a blow to my self esteem!  I thought we&#039;d had some great times.  I&#039;ve tried and continue to try and I&#039;ve grown in my openness but it isn&#039;t fast enough for him.  I&#039;m tired from trying to care for a 3  year old and a preemie infant with no help from him; as he tells me he hates having responsibility (another confirmation to him that he is a woman because he wants someone else to take care of him) and then to hear that we don&#039;t have sex often enough!  He won&#039;t do any work around the house unless it is &#039;dressed&#039;.  I bought him a pretty shirt, black and lacy from coldwater creek which he loved, but then became resentful of me because I could wear those types of clothes anytime and he couldnt... things I can&#039;t even help he&#039;s angry with me about!  I could go on and on.. It hurts to actually be trying so hard in an area that so many women would walk away from and yet be verbally and emotionally abused.  I&#039;ve never told this to anyone.  I&#039;d leave if I didn&#039;t need the insurance for my infant daughter.  I need love too!  I&#039;m sorry he/she was dealt a rough hand, but it isn&#039;t my fault and I&#039;m doing my best to accomodate and to understand his pain.  I just wish he would try and understand mine also.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your wife is very lucky to have you.  I keep trying and trying to support my husband all the while getting used to this new life.  He&#8217;s had forever to learn how to deal with it; me not so long.  But I am willing.  But he&#8217;s so impatient and frustrated.  All he can do is complain about how unfit we are for each other because I am not kinky enough for him and in a fit of anger told me that I have never completely satisfied him sexually because he wanted to be fully woman with me.  What a blow to my self esteem!  I thought we&#8217;d had some great times.  I&#8217;ve tried and continue to try and I&#8217;ve grown in my openness but it isn&#8217;t fast enough for him.  I&#8217;m tired from trying to care for a 3  year old and a preemie infant with no help from him; as he tells me he hates having responsibility (another confirmation to him that he is a woman because he wants someone else to take care of him) and then to hear that we don&#8217;t have sex often enough!  He won&#8217;t do any work around the house unless it is &#8216;dressed&#8217;.  I bought him a pretty shirt, black and lacy from coldwater creek which he loved, but then became resentful of me because I could wear those types of clothes anytime and he couldnt&#8230; things I can&#8217;t even help he&#8217;s angry with me about!  I could go on and on.. It hurts to actually be trying so hard in an area that so many women would walk away from and yet be verbally and emotionally abused.  I&#8217;ve never told this to anyone.  I&#8217;d leave if I didn&#8217;t need the insurance for my infant daughter.  I need love too!  I&#8217;m sorry he/she was dealt a rough hand, but it isn&#8217;t my fault and I&#8217;m doing my best to accomodate and to understand his pain.  I just wish he would try and understand mine also.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrice</title><link>http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/comment-page-1/#comment-1616</link> <dc:creator>Patrice</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:08:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.crossdresserheaven.com/youre-not-the-only-one-embarrassed-by-crossdressing/#comment-1616</guid> <description>Marti, I can relate to your story and feelings, but mostly for concern for your loving and supporting wife.  I am single and am very lucky to have two/three gg&#039;s who support and help me be Patrice.  I&#039;ve had makeup applied and received great hints while dressed at Macys, Bloomingdales, etc.  I have been accompanied by one of my friends.  I was dressed and passed very well.  I am very lucky to have these friends who help me.  I should always consider them first, in my case.  Take care of your wife and learn to accept her feelings for Marti.  You both are very lucky to have each other. Patricerjb7839@aol.com</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marti,<br /> I can relate to your story and feelings, but mostly for concern for your loving and supporting wife.  I am single and am very lucky to have two/three gg&#8217;s who support and help me be Patrice.  I&#8217;ve had makeup applied and received great hints while dressed at Macys, Bloomingdales, etc.  I have been accompanied by one of my friends.  I was dressed and passed very well.  I am very lucky to have these friends who help me.  I should always consider them first, in my case.  Take care of your wife and learn to accept her feelings for Marti.  You both are very lucky to have each other.<br /> Patrice</p><p><a href="mailto:rjb7839@aol.com">rjb7839@aol.com</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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