When I was 12 or 13, I convinced a very stubborn and old-school mother that girl jeans fit better than boys did. We argued but I got my way because I absolutely hated boy jeans and shirts and refused to wear either, which meant I wouldn’t be going to school, which also led...
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I started Crossdressing in my teenage years. I would sneak into Mum’s room when she was not home and try on some clothes; loved the feel of Satin and Silk clothes. This Continued when I moved out of home, but I am ashamed to say (now) that when I lived with female flat mates, I...
Body hair, yuck. I have never liked my body hair. As a natural red head my body hair is fair but there’s a lot of it. I will never forget how amazing it was the first time I shaved off all my body hair. Wow! So smooth, so soft! Then to put on hose and heels and a soft dress; ho...
Do you feel trapped? Powerless to rearrange your life in such a way that a whole lot more days start with a smile than do now? I tell you from my own personal experience that you are so much more powerful than you can yet imagine. I will explain that statement as well because you...
The beginning of Erin only started eight years ago, later in my life. I was 33 years old at the time. It all started with my ex-wife’s clothing, trying them on. This happened while she was at work. At first, my feelings were no, I shouldn’t, and it changed to yes. I remember ...
…ima, ima, ima… may look weird at first glance! But, it is the most powerful statement we can proclaim in any language. Of course, it would be written more like, ‘I’m a . . . ‘, and what ever word we place after ima, is a determining factor in the formation of o...
It’s been awhile since I’ve contributed an article. I think part of being the Managing Editor is letting others use their voice instead of taking up space. I also see the trends of the current and more active members. After nearly three years on CDH and two on T...
It is comforting to know that we are not alone in our desire, this need to feel or present as feminine. Whether it is occasionally, regularly, fully, or partially. For some, their fem persona is the opposite of their male persona. For others such as myself, the only difference...
The next few words first came to my ears through the voice of the late Dr Wayne Dyer. The sentence he used them in was this. “Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.” What the heck did Mr. Dyer mean in saying this to th...
When I was around eight, my sister, who is five years older than me had a pair of knee high boots. This was back during the 70’s. I would sneak into her closet and snatch her boots. I’d take them to my room and put them on under my sheets. This was not the beginning o...
I don’t know about you ladies, but this Coronavirus has put quite a damper on my April time. For me, she has always been a release, but she has also been a way to express myself out in public. That option has been taken away from me for months by this virus, and I miss it. ...
Baby, We’ve Come A Long Way by Amy Myers Back in about 1965 when I was just starting to experiment with the thrill of dressing up in women’s clothes, the world was a different place. We were isolated by our love of this pastime. Something inside us we can’t ex...
Hey there my Sisters, I hope this week find you smiling big and enjoying life! Have you ever experienced what you later referred to as “a living hell” or “a nightmare”? Sometimes the things that seem the most devastating in our lives, are the very things we later see as t...
Hey beautiful souls, I wish you an amazing week! ‘I just have to figure out what I want now’ she said, ‘once I know that, I can easily imagine it and day dream about it with huge emotions 24/7, but knowing what I want is the hardest thing ever for me.’ ...
Are you Proud, Ashamed, or somewhere in between of being a Crossdresser? Some might find it an easy answer, but for most of us, I don’t think so. Like many aspects of this life, the truth is more muddled. It is for me, and it has evolved over time. Oh yes; for most of my life, ...
My five steps to overcoming a s*** storm, or adversity Arguably, the thing each of us wants more than everything else, at our deepest inner level, is to live our lifetime in happiness. To experience freedom of choice; enough abundance financially and in other areas, to cover all ...
I attempted to communicate the feminine side of me to my first wife. I am sure my attempts were feeble and no doubt unlearned. How could I help her understand about me what I didn’t understand about myself, had no objective evidence to prove it, and was such an antithesis t...
In response to Vanessa Law’s forum query, “Where Are You Heading in 2020,” I answered as follows. 1) I will spend more time here at CDH. The time I regularly spend here has helped me be more at peace with my femme essence. So, growth in my inner woman would profit by “h...
Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife
Cheryl Ann (Cassie) Sanders Crossdresser Support and Advice 63I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a crossdresser who is in a marriage or serious relationship with a genetic woman is best o...
My wish for the future, a Prayer for Hope, Peace and Acceptance These are a few of the thoughts I’ve had over a long time. They contain a little bit of my whimsy, but the wish within and the desire for all of you is true, particularly now for people of all race and colour. You ...
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