Wife helps crossdressing husband with makeup

It’s such a wonderful blessing to hear stories from wives who love and accept their transgendered husband. This week’s crossdressing success story is unique journey of discovery for both partners – beautiful, moving and inspiring.

If you’re the partner of a crossdresser please take a moment and click here to share your crossdressing success story. Your joys and frustrations, acceptance and struggles will inspire and comfort other partners. Stories of the good times will provide light and hope, and stories of the bad times will let them know they’re not alone in their pain.

Andy and Natalie’s Transgender Success Story

I feel the need to share our story in the belief that it may help other wives understand and support their husband. I’ll get straight to the point, when my husband told me that he likes wearing feminine clothing & make up I honestly wasn’t that judgmental about it, because my mother taught me to be open minded to such things.

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He informed me in a letter that he made me read in private in another room for fear I may react negatively; quite the opposite I can proudly say. I read the letter and thought about everything. It made me realize that I secretly desired to be a man. I told him my secret desire, and I will never forget the look on his face; surprise mixed with love and happiness.

Ever since our relationship has grown immensely. We encourage each other & refer to each other in the opposite sex more. Our spiritual connection was bursting with passion,
understanding, and deep love for each other; it made our relationship stronger. I sense the envy that people have when they see us and it honestly makes me thankful; I’ve found a bestfriend, lover, and soulmate all in one (a rarity in these current times I sadly believe).

I love to have girl nights with him. We practice & share makeup & some clothes. The only downfall we have come to learn is how & if we tell our friends and family about us, but we agree that this is a minute concern & don’t stress about outsiders. We see each other inside & out & share a deep connection & desire for each other.

I just hope that other wives will be as open & understanding because they may come to realize that it can strengthen & intensify the relationship. Just remember that he is opening his soul to you, he’s in a fragile state of self consciousness and any sense of negativity may hurt him. He’s looking for understanding, acceptance, and in my opinion, informing you that he loves you enough to reveal this to you.

It can be a spiritual revelation to the relationship & it has (and I can testify) lead us to act upon our fantasies in a way that I can only describe as ‘OMG, satisfaction.’
– Andy & Natalie from Houston, TX.

Read how Charlie discovered her boyfriend Veronica was a crossdresser, and how this affected their relationship.


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I’m passionate about creating a safe space for everyone in the transgender community to find laughter and friendship on their journey. I completed my physical transition in 2011 and through it I lost everything, and gained everything. I am blessed that I was forced to gaze inward and embark on the journey to discover and live my authentic self. My deepest wish is that all who wander here may find peace, happiness and freedom.

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12 years ago

I am honestly wondering that the acceptance garnered by successful revelation of a desire to crossdress isn’t an additional reflection of the wife’s desire for some form of crossdressing also.
My wonderful wife took to my crossdressing like a duck to water. However, we attribute some of her open-mindness to her Tomboy-like behavior. I wonder…..

11 years ago

My wife encourages me to crossdress at home all the time. Even though she is a very feminine looking woman, I consider her to be a female to male crossdresser herself since she only wears men’s clothing, jeans, plaid shirts, work boots, etc. When we make love she always wears loose fitting sleeveless tee shirts and men’s briefs with a large realistic dildo inside her underpants making it appear that she has a large stiff erect penis. Of course she plays the male and I play the female role in our love making. I guess you can say that we… Read more »

9 years ago

My wife knows of my crossdressing, but does not participate or encourage me in any way. She knew I was a crossdresser before we married, and I was in the hope it would in someway be a part of our marriage. However; that just hasn’t occured, as she seems to want nothing to do with the subject. I would like so much for her to be encouraging and supportive in my crossdressing, in return I’d be agreeable to almost any freedom she’d choose to pursue. This would include her having a personal and intimate relationship with another man if she… Read more »

8 years ago

My wife and I have been married for 26 years and I only came out to her about 3 years ago, it got off to a shaky start but then she encouraged me to dress while she was about, she even bought me a few items, she really did make an effort to embrace it, unfortunately she can’t do it and it has now almost become a don’t ask don’t tell, I say almost as she still questions me as to whether I’ve dressed or not, I’d prefer if she just ignored it completely now, it doesn’t interfere with our… Read more »

8 years ago

My wife knew I was a crossdresser from the start of our marriage, what she didn’t know was how it would take over my life. It started out just a harmless quirk, dress up & go walk around town, maybe 2 or 3 nights a week. It grew to every night, then to all day & night, then it progressed to keeping my body free of hair, keeping my toes polished all the time, wearing panties, bra & pantyhose under my work clothes then sleeping in nightgowns. When I started growing my hair & fingernails long, my wife started to… Read more »

Tina Brinner
6 years ago
Reply to  Joanne

Sounds like fantasy to me

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