It's such a wonderful blessing to hear stories from wives who love and accept their transgendered husband. This week's crossdressing success story is unique journey of discovery for both partners - beautiful, moving and inspiring.
If you're the partner of a crossdresser please take a moment and click here to share your crossdressing success story. Your joys and frustrations, acceptance and struggles will inspire and comfort other partners. Stories of the good times will provide light and hope, and stories of the bad times will let them know they're not alone in their pain.
Andy and Natalie's Transgender Success Story
I feel the need to share our story in the belief that it may help other wives understand and support their husband. I'll get straight to the point, when my husband told me that he likes wearing feminine clothing & make up I honestly wasn't that judgmental about it, because my mother taught me to be open minded to such things.
He informed me in a letter that he made me read in private in another room for fear I may react negatively; quite the opposite I can proudly say. I read the letter and thought about everything. It made me realize that I secretly desired to be a man. I told him my secret desire, and I will never forget the look on his face; surprise mixed with love and happiness.
Ever since our relationship has grown immensely. We encourage each other & refer to each other in the opposite sex more. Our spiritual connection was bursting with passion,
understanding, and deep love for each other; it made our relationship stronger. I sense the envy that people have when they see us and it honestly makes me thankful; I've found a bestfriend, lover, and soulmate all in one (a rarity in these current times I sadly believe).
I love to have girl nights with him. We practice & share makeup & some clothes. The only downfall we have come to learn is how & if we tell our friends and family about us, but we agree that this is a minute concern & don't stress about outsiders. We see each other inside & out & share a deep connection & desire for each other.
I just hope that other wives will be as open & understanding because they may come to realize that it can strengthen & intensify the relationship. Just remember that he is opening his soul to you, he's in a fragile state of self consciousness and any sense of negativity may hurt him. He's looking for understanding, acceptance, and in my opinion, informing you that he loves you enough to reveal this to you.
It can be a spiritual revelation to the relationship & it has (and I can testify) lead us to act upon our fantasies in a way that I can only describe as 'OMG, satisfaction.'
- Andy & Natalie from Houston, TX.