Apologize to transgender women

The other day I checked my Facebook inbox for the first time in many months. I was humbled by all the messages I’d received. Notes of appreciation, cries for help and heartfelt longings from many who want to share a small piece of their transgender journey with me. I also felt guilt in knowing I had left those cries for help unanswered for too long. Intellectually I know that I’m only one woman, blessed with just twenty four hours each day. Yet my heart aches for all those needs I was unable to meet. For all those beautiful souls I could have soothed. For those wonderful woman I could have laughed with and cried with.

To all of you who have sent me a Facebook message, or email that I have yet to respond to – I apologize. I started Crossdresser Heaven for you, you deserve more than a never ending replay proclaiming, “We’re experiencing unusually high call volume. All operators are currently serving other customers. Your call will be answered in the order it was received”.

If anyone in the Crossdresser Heaven community has ideas for how I could be more efficient, or better scale the ability to serve those in the transgender community please comment and let me know!

A Transgender Scholarship

Now for some exciting news I heard about last week. The Gender Alliance of the South Sound is offering a transgender scholarship to an outstanding transgender student. The scholarship offers at least $500, but could be more depending on available funds. This is a tremendous opportunity to get financial support for your education. I know that it can be hard finding support as a transgendered woman, and I’m excited about this step by the Gender Alliance of South Sound.

If you know of any other transgender scholarships please comment and share!

May the light of the day yet to come shine brightly enough to banish the demons from the shadows of today.


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10 years ago

anyone out there willing to help Vanessa? I would love to be available to help out when you get overloaded. What can we do,dear friend? You have given so much to all of us, I’d love to be able to give back a little bit. Love, Ragina

Stephenie Mace
10 years ago

Hi Vanessa I use to have a HUGE website, actually 5 of them. It gets to be a bit much after a while I know. What I did was essentially I would sit down and just do ONE thing at a time. I also got that I had stock answers and links to answers that I had before. Example, you have articles on many things that have already answered so many people questions. I found it easier to write an article and refer people to it than to rewrite the same thing multiple times. Another thing is to only answer… Read more »

9 years ago

wonderful site I love it

Vanessa Law
9 years ago
Reply to  Yukitha

Thanks sweetie!

JessicaCross Johnson
JessicaCross Johnson (@pakrat67)
5 years ago

I was led into crossdressing by my cousins a long time ago, we lived in the country and they were the only kids in 5 miles of my house, my mother was a drunk and I couldn’t get any transportation. We lived in the family homeplace, a 2 story house with 8 rooms downstairs and 6 rooms upstairs as well as a storage attic, so being kids we explored all of the storage. My mother had lived in Richmond VA and was a socialite and thus had many clothes that she had no use for in the rural area we… Read more »

2 years ago

Yes I’m interested my story started very young around 8 .i loved the way the girls at school looked and I wanted to be pretty to. I would take the girl clothes off the clothes line and go to my hiding spot and put on the clothes..now I’m 63 and love who I am.. I love my own clothes now.i live everyday as a woman and have a wonderful man..i would like to hear more of your story..

5 years ago

I wish I could say I had a good child hood but I couldn’t . when I was about 5 or 6 I was put in a dress by an aunt because I had no clothes there available because it went to another plane . it felt so right . when I got home after my parents vacation I asked if I could get some girls clothes and I was beat and laughed at by every one in family . when ever we moved witch was a lot 10 times growing up be for high school I asked again and… Read more »

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