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This is my time to discover who I am. So here I am, battle scars as an example of how to survive in an intolerant world, preconceived notions... moving forward
I want to be an awesome cross-dresser and that's all I want to be... that's far more comfortable than being an unusually tall and masculine-proportioned woman.
"I owe Crossdresser Heaven a great deal"...don't stress too much about who sees you when you are looking fabulous, it might be the best part of their day.
My message to everybody out there is, relax! Enjoy being the real you and let others share in your enjoyment! You won't regret it.
I have met some amazing ladies here and have had unending support... Life is short. Take chances. Be yourself... think twice about that next purge.
"I remembered ... about small bold steps... I listened to that inner little girl longing to claim the treasures she had found as her own"
Closet cross-dresser since very young despite setbacks: They saw me and laughed hysterically! I was majorly embarrassed! Yet my desire to cross-dress remained.
Many of both my male and female friends know I'm a Crossdresser. Most embrace it, some tolerate it but only one out of 30 odd have walked away from me. It wasn't always this way.
Have you ever told anyone who you really are on the inside? Someone outside this comfortable setting? I did that a couple years ago and it was a very liberating, exciting experience.
Then I got the idea to look at the mirror, and I stopped and looked at myself in these clothes and fell in love with my appearance. So I decided to continue to reach the point of being fully dressed.
There is a risk but I have never experienced any worse than rude words. I love to go out into the world. It opens doors to all sorts of experiences and it feels just wonderful.
Living at a smallish place did not help either - I traveled almost a thousand miles to try to put hands on my first wig, just to find that the place was shut off since some time then.
Do it for any reason that feels right, but do it for you not for others. I see myself as a lady, and I am respectful about how I dress. This is not to say some of my clothes aren't a bit risqué, but the only one who sees me in those clothes is me.
I was born lucky enough to be different and that is my superpower.
I started working from home about 2 years ago as a web developer so that has given me the opportunity to dress every day. I will get out of the shower and go pick out my outfit.
Sometimes I think the little victories are the important ones, the small steps are the things we should treasure, and we should never underestimate the power of a cheap pair of sandals as we walk drive the transition path.
I don't want to be a full woman, I just want to be who I am.
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