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Today’s crossdressing success story comes from a lovely lady who has discovered her path, and the support she needs to live her authentic truth. Please welcome Alexis Marie!

Alexis Breaks out of Society’s Expectations

Alexis Marie

Alexis Marie

Hi, I’m a 52 year old and have had to struggle with my gender confusion since the age of 5 or 6. I grew up with three sisters and a strict macho father, so I had to pretend to be someone I knew was not the real me.

I tried so hard to meet the expectations of the social norm as well as what my family expected. This included plying sports, working at my dad’s electrical business, joining the army, marriage and children.

I completed my tour in the army but the marriage failed due to, in my opinion, that I was not happy.

I had moved out at the age of 18 and started dressing fully – it made sense when I was enfemme as if I was whole and complete.

Of course trying to do or be what others expected never seemed to work out. It was after I met my current wife 19 years ago and was open and honest from the start that I’ve been able to be happy.

Although I must still  work as male, with her support and encouragement I’m happy to say I’m now on hormones 3 months now. I came out to my older sister who has spent time with her sister and refers to me as her sister. She said when I told her she cried, not because she was upset but because she thought of the pain and suffering I must have had to go through not being able to tell anyone.

I plan to take the next steps to transition soon and as my sister and wife always tell me,”If you can’t be happy how can you make others happy? Be who you are!”

Congratulations dear! You look lovely, and your courage is an inspiration for us all!

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Natalia
Natalia
7 years ago

I really dont know how far to go in every single case of trasition is healthy.. If you are more than 40 years old We need A very good health .( heart , liver, Kidneys and so on ) if not the risk Of estradiol therapy in your heart and veins is very high .. Living 6 months as a female ..and then dying because a stroke or heart failure or trombosis is justify ? And with orchidotermy or vaginoplasty and ffs is the same point . Then the money .. Lots of money for wainting so long . For… Read more »

Tiamarie
Tiamarie
7 years ago

Omg good for you I HAVE struggled all my life with my Tru feelings never came out as being trans to my family although I have friends who know and accept me as who I really what to be I my self pretend to be macho watch sports. Talk about sports at work but after 4 pm I’m all girl have wanted to transition for so long but just don’t have finances to do so although my woman friends say I can still live as woman without having srs surgery I know if my mother was alive today she would… Read more »

Harietta
Harietta
7 years ago

Am I the only gurl who sees this?
Nowhere are society’s expectations more prominently portrayed than in the images shown on many CD makeover sites and CD help and advice sites.
Some of us are pretty good with makeup and hair, but so many of these photos are of actual women rather than CD’s of transgendered individuals. Strapped in Silk, Lucille Sorella, and others all do this.

Lisa
Lisa
7 years ago

I have dressing as a woman the last 3 year If make me bester as a person I enjoy wearing dress&heel I go out all dress up I have a boy friend He love me as lady So I will talk later LOVE&KISS LISA

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Dawn
7 years ago

Congrats on being you I’m in a similar situation I finally came out to my wife and couldn’t be happier.

Kim Cummings
Kim Cummings
7 years ago

It’s been a long time coming. We girls have to be careful not to be too much of a tart. The first thing that one should remember is to be a lady first. The mother is the best reminder of what you are. I love my mom and she was quite supportive of my life. Her lessons in my opinion were a good idea how to handle the truth. The truth is that it was okay for me to enjoy the benefits of being a feminine looking daughter. She was thrilled with her son’s transformation to that of a daughter.… Read more »

Kim Cummings
Kim Cummings
7 years ago

I’m sorry that I am so excited about this prospect of my own feminine feelings. I have found that the new experience of my life as a woman who is so tall is a bit problematic. I am a beautiful person who happens to be so very tall. Especially when I wear my high heels. I enjoy the look of the pretty legs and high heels, but I think being over 6′-6″ , many people are going to know about this.

zena simmons
zena simmons
7 years ago

I know what’s like to struggle with thing’s of being two persons at different times I started out at age of 11 trying on women’s clothes shoes an other stuff but had make sure none of my brother’s and sisters were around including my niece who was a talle tail to them as got older became more into dressing up even wore them to work under my male clothes a few noticed but didn’t really say anything as one my main bosses notice she only grinned at me started to sneak off places that sold certain types women’s clothes I… Read more »

zena simmons
zena simmons
7 years ago

Yeah I like milkshakes an icecream but puts weight on so have becareful not over do it instead putting it in my rear where needed it goes straight to my stomach although like other treat’s to mmm) zena

Michelle Gonzales
Michelle Gonzales
6 years ago

Alexis
I am so happy for you.
You are a brave beautiful woman.
Love Michelle

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