Like many, I started dressing as a teenager.  For many years, I was content with just sneaking into a pair of panties now and then, but the urge got stronger and I started trying other women’s clothes — the entire time keeping it a secret.  I married my high school sweetheart and we were together for ten years before I found the courage to tell her.  She said it was okay, but six months later we were divorced.  She promised to keep my secret, and to this day I believe she has.

For the next ten years, I was single and spent large amounts of time dressing.  I expanded my wardrobe to where I had more women’s clothes than men’s.  I did not date a lot, thus I never felt the need to mention my crossdressing to anyone.  Once, I started having feelings for a woman; I thought it best to tell her.  In the middle of the date, she up and left.

I should mention that I was a police officer in a major city in the western United States.  I had been with the department for twelve years when I was assigned as the training officer for my current wife.  She is ten years younger than I am.  Throughout her training, we had to interact with transgenders and crossdressers on a somewhat regular basis.  I saw that she always treated them nicely and with respect– maybe that is what made me start to fall for her.  We went for a drink after work one afternoon.  She mentioned that she was sad as her training was about over and she was going to miss me.  The way that she said it made me feel there was more to it than just a working relationship.  It was difficult, but after a few minutes, we both admitted that we had feelings for each other.

A few dates later, I spent the night at her place.  As a joke in the morning, I put on her panties; she loved them on me.  I admitted my love of wearing women’s clothes and we talked about it for a few hours until she told me she wanted to see all my women’s clothes.  We soon headed to my place where everything down to my last pair of panties was pulled out and shown to her.  She asked me model several outfits.  All of this led to an acceleration in our relationship.  Three days later, she moved in with me.

From that first morning, my wife started laying out my clothes.  Even on work days, she had me wearing panties under my uniform.  Her training soon ended.  She was out on her own, but we worked the same shifts.  When we get home, she lays out the clothing that she would like me to wear.  I must have spent ninety percent of the time at home dressed in women’s attire.  Our lives were good.

In May of 2002, my wife told me that she was not feeling well and was taking the day off.  I got home and she was happy and cheerful.  Informing me that she had a surprise, she lead me to our bedroom and laying across the bed was a beautiful wedding dress.  My wife got down on one knee and asked me to marry her.   When I said yes, she slid me a beautiful engagement ring on my finger.  The next day we both scheduled a week off as soon as possible.  My wife-to-be made arrangements with a wedding chapel in Las Vegas for the ceremony.  She would wear a tux, and I would wear the dress.  On June 8, 2002, we were married.

After I retired and my wife was still working, she continued to lay out my clothes.  She has helped me build my confidence.  I have not a second thought about going out day or night dressed.  I realize that I am an extremely lucky man to have found a woman who not only enjoys, but encourages me to crossdress.  My wife has helped me become the woman I love being and I am eternally grateful.

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  1. Edie Victor 9 months ago

    Brandy, you are so, so lucky to have found your real soul mate. I am very jealous, yesterday i mentioned to my wife of 43 years, that I was thinking of going out to buy a dress. She went totally ballistic. “YOUR SICK, THAT’S DIGUSTING”. I cook, vacuum, iron ,sew, wash dishes, wash clothes, everything a woman would do, but, get not iota of compassion for my feelings. She went shopping today, while she was gone I dressed today! I feel good! My deepest congratulations to you on finding that very special someone!
    Love, Edie

    • Wing Han Leung 9 months ago

      Ow… she really said that?! That’s painful…

  2. Kim Paige 9 months ago

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful story!

  3. Leonara 9 months ago

    What a lucky gal to have such support at home. What a great story to share with us at CDH.
    I wish you continued success in the woman you love to be….

  4. Jennifergordon 9 months ago

    What a wonderful story brandy. I could only dream of such a thing. I’ve been dressing on and off since I was 8 years old. It all started with my mother’s stockings. I stopped the purging long ago because as you well know it is futile. I also wear panties all the time. Maybe I will meet that special someone that I can confide in as you did and have a very happy relationship with. I feel excited after reading your story. God bless you both! Jennifer.

  5. Julie Carson 9 months ago

    What a beautiful story! But you didnt tell us all about the wedding.

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      Brandy timms 8 months ago

      We reserved a suite at the Mirage Hotel. They knew it was a wedding thing so had champagne and chocolates when we arrived. We got there 2 days early. The anticipation was so exciting. She hadnt seen me in the wedding dress and I hadn’t seen her in the tux. A few hours before the ceremony There was a knock on the door. My wonderful wife and hired a professional to come do my make up, nails and hair. My wife was in a separate room and on that day I hadn’t seen her. We weren’t going to see each other until the ceremony. After the young lady had me ready to get dressed she brings out a package with very sexy matching panty, bra and garter and nylons . They were white with pinks ribbons. Then she helped me into the dress. It has a 6 ft train with lacy front a sleeves. I had never felt more like a woman and so pretty.

      The young lady then escorted me through the hotel and to a limo that took me to the wedding chapel. I was told my wife was already there. I had to fill out some paperwork and then the music started and doors opened and I walked down the isle to my wife in her tux and I have to say she looked awesome. She had put on a strapon dildo that hung down her leg which I thought was a great touch. We were married by an Elvis impersonator. After the wedding the limo took us back to the hotel and we spend about an hour playing slots. Me in my dress and her in her tux.

      The next morning I got dressed is womens slacks and blouse and wig and we went on a helicopter ride

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      Brandy timms 8 months ago

      To find a woman who understands and supports is rare, we are lucky

  6. skippy1965(Cynthia) 9 months ago

    You are indeed incredibly lucky to have found someone who accepts you for who you are! Congratulations and hope you continue to enjoy a happy marriage!

  7. Krista 9 months ago

    Hi Brandy,
    Yours is truly a lovely story. And what a happy ending!!! I’d love to see this turned into a movie.
    All the very Best to You and your wonderful wife.

  8. What a lovely story!


  9. So wonderful that you met such a loving and open woman Brandy. We should all be so blessed to have such a beautiful partner in our lives.


  10. Gina Delgado 9 months ago

    You have such an incredible woman for a wife. What a rare gift.

  11. Katherine 9 months ago

    You are very fortunate indeed. Your wife is an angel.

  12. Pippi Long 9 months ago

    I loved it you are truly blessed it’s nice not to have to hide in the closet .my girlfriend knows I crossdresser too and she loves it

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      Brandy timms 8 months ago

      To find a woman who understands and supports is rare, we are lucky

  13. Cataleya Lopez 9 months ago

    Wow, great story! You have a wonderful woman.

  14. sathisaheli 9 months ago

    For me it is hard to believe such understanding women exist and extend their help in dressing up like woman any how one must be lucky and in that case the relation wil go a long way. good luck with the couple.

  15. Sandra Elizabeth Silvestre 8 months ago

    Que hermosa historia….muchas estamos en tu 1a situacio , pero todavia no nos sinceramos con nuestra pareja, por el miedo a q nos pase lo mismo q en tu experiencia…y porque sabemos q no lo va aceptar…que enorme felicidad q encontratas a una pareja con la que te comprenda y te acepte….

  16. Nikki 8 months ago

    WOW what a wonderful story. Your wife is one of a million. I read your story and i wanted to cry. I wish more CD had such an accepting wife. I think it was so romantic her purposing to you and setting up the wedding you living the dream of being a bride.

  17. Lucianna Kane 8 months ago


    She’s the kind of women some of us dream about.

  18. Katrina Dangerous 8 months ago

    You lucky man finding a woman empathetic to your pressing needs!

  19. Betti Jean Harlow 8 months ago

    That’s is beautiful my wife is aware of my desires but does not approve. So like many of us we are doomed to a life of dressing in private.

  20. Terrim 8 months ago

    Brandy, what a amazing story. My wife of 45yrs has known about my femme side for 35yrs. When we married about 10yrs she found a piece of paper with a female name and a phone number in my wallet. I had given her permission to get some money out of my wallet. I told her that night about Terri. We had 3 children at the time. I tried to stop dressing and started to drink more and almost killed myself. I then came to the realization that Terri will always be part of me. We are married 45yrs and have 5 children and 4 grandchildren. My wife lets me hang some of my clothes in our closet. She doesnt want any part of my femme side. I get out when I can. Balance is my key word.
    Yours Terri
    PS: I was in Law Enforcement for 20 yrs.

  21. Lanna Barton 8 months ago

    You are one lucky lady!!!

  22. DAWN 459 8 months ago

    What a wonderful story your
    Life&your job together with
    Your wife beingworking with
    Helped tomake your CD
    Life enjoyable for both ofyou.

  23. Cassandra Denny 8 months ago

    Omg, this was an awesome story. You truly are one lucky person to find someone who supports and enjoys u for u and nothing else.

  24. dizzylizzy lawson 6 months ago

    Brandy how lucky you are and blessed to find a great person as your wife all of us girls could tell you how tough life can be when people treat us rudly because they just don’t understand our feelings inside of us. my wife can be so accepting at times and unaccepting at other times. enjoy your retirement now youll have lots more time to dress up love from DizzyLizzy to you and your wife

  25. Suzanne LeBizarre 5 months ago

    Interesting that it happens at times…my first (deceased) wife hated the idea, but my second (also deceased) did tolerate and accept my dressing and would, with conditions (they’re always there!) dress with and for me in the bedroom…as she had been in show business, loved costumes and makeup, and more. Now, even tho I am much older, still seeking again that “one special person” who feels the same…

  26. Esther 3 months ago

    Brandy, you are very fortunate. My w9ife will not let me wear dresses in our hometown, but she tolerates me wearing dresses out of town where no one notices who we are. I think she dosent want to be embarrassed which I understand. Its hard for us to talk about it though. However I started wearing one of her camiselle slips that was too big for her several years ago, so she gave it to me. She even bought me a couple more slips. I even found a couple bras at the thrift store shortly after that. She hasent seen me wearing bras, but one day last summer she came in the room where she lays out my clothes with a bra in her hand & gingerly laid it on top of my clothes! I was floored but I did not know what to say, but it was the best gift she has given me in a long time! I mainly wear bras in the winter as I couldn’t believe how warm they are. I do have 7 dresses that I am waiting for the right time to wear. After wearing a dress, I now hate wearing pants. I cant believe that anyone would choose to wear pants. Anyway I am fortunate that I can wear slips ALL the time! Esther

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