If there is one question that is seriously prevalent to my being, it is this: “How do you know?” I’ve asked that question enough times to fill my car with silver dollars. If they made a crossdresser anthem, that would be its title. Although it isn’t just about crossdressi...
Brina’s Corner
Here’s the Thing… I don’t come with an on/off switch. How convenient would that be? To be able to shut off my feelings and close down my brain when I need to be me. Right… which me are we discussing again? That is always going to be the issue. I was standing next to one o...
What is a vanished twin? And why might it be important to understanding why you crossdress? “Are you, your female self, a vanished twin?” Many in our community needlessly suffer confusion, shame, guilt, and more for simply trying to live authentically within boundaries, expec...
As Mother’s Day approaches, I hope those of you who are fortunate enough to still have your mom around appreciate the gift that you have. I wrote this back in May 2011 just a week or two after my mom passed away and posted it as a forum post in 2016, and again in 2019. I added ...
Hello darlings, sisters, friends, members, and all a’y’all, This is your Managing Ambassador, here with a Public Service Announcement. I know this will come as a shock to you, but we have trolls that come here, who are not in search of chaste and enticing conversations about ...
Merriam Webster’s definition: to be excited or emotionally stirred up with anger. Yep… that explains it. I never know when a thought will hit me that is worth pursuing for an article. I love the challenge of finding parallels in thoughts and assumptions. “Seeing Red�...
There is so much feeling put into the preparation of becoming the woman we envision. The excitement that builds as a certain time gets closer. It can be the world’s greatest distraction. The hands of the clock moving at a speed slower than snails on a glue trap… Many have the...
Resolutions… It’s that special time of the year when we promise to be better (or less bad) than we were the year before. Kind of like Tim McGraw and his next 30 years. I thought it might be fun to look back at my life by decades and do a “He Said, She Said” compilatio...
So, it’s the holidays… “Yahoo!” Or is it instead the feeling of, “I won’t have any time to dress.” Being who I am, and I expect, who you might be as well, when it’s been a while the need and desire to dress raises stress and when finally doing so it calms the inne...
First off; it’s been a long month for me. My mother passed somewhat unexpectedly at age 88 before Thanksgiving. Dealing with dementia and declining health-stage 3 lung cancer, we admitted her to the hospital to find the cause of her recent tiredness and increased need for oxyge...
As much as this lifestyle is full of angst and anxieties, it can also be wonderful, exciting, and full of “Holy *%$#” moments. Can you imagine a television show like “America’s Funniest Videos” dedicated to all those moments of panic-stricken, hilarious mishaps, misstep...
Our lives today have never been more influenced by others and outside pressures than it is now. Independent thinking has given way to repetitive reasoning as strongly (or officially) suggested by those in charge, in positions of power, or in their self-prescribed strategic stagin...
I’ve fallen head over heels for the caftan (often spelled kaftan). I’m not strictly speaking of the classic, Mesopotamian garment, but of a wide range of long, flowy summer dresses. Caftans bring to mind images of exotic summer nights in the 60s. Sophisticated parties...
Dabbing my toes in the water of femininity. Is this what I’m really doing or am I a creature of unknown origins? A collection of thoughts and actions that show neither a true path nor a divergence from safety and the familiar. Enough with the existentialism. Just what the heck ...
There is a lot to talk about, and I could make each point a worthy article, but I thought I would instead throw some expanded comments at the wall to see which ones stick… I’ve kind of had one of those weeks where I’m pulled in different directions. One moment, I’m search...
They say with age comes wisdom. It also brings a confluence of memories and wishes. For those of us who see the world as being more than male and female it typically brings more heartache and unanswered questions. I know that I’m part of the new 40 having just turned 60, but as...
“Hooked on a Feeling.” I can’t stop this feelin’ Deep inside of me Girl, you just don’t realize What you do to me I got it bad for you, girl But I don’t need a cure I’ll just stay addicted And hope I can endure Saweetie “Fast (Motion)” Off...
Here is a reprise of an essay I wrote many years ago. First a credit. It all started with a letter I had at that time from a blogger than going by the penname “Jenny Mahoney.” (A little imagination will enable any among us who keep up with the important opinion leaders in o...
Many of us traverse the internet and have landing spots that we frequent while dressed or not. Even when I’m not sipping my morning coffee in a skirt and heels, I still spend time on this site, our sister site Transgender Heaven, Flickr, and a few others. None of those other si...
Issue II I learned long ago that I’m never going to be 5’6” and 120 pounds and fit into a size 6 (or smaller sized) dress. My hair isn’t going to glow and be long, my complexion to die for, or my bust the envy of women and men alike. I’m never going to be able to wear a...
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