I attempted to communicate the feminine side of me to my first wife. I am sure my attempts were feeble and no doubt unlearned. How could I help her understand about me what I didn’t understand about myself, had no objective evidence to prove it, and was such an antithesis t...
In response to Vanessa Law’s forum query, “Where Are You Heading in 2020,” I answered as follows. 1) I will spend more time here at CDH. The time I regularly spend here has helped me be more at peace with my femme essence. So, growth in my inner woman would profit by “h...
I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a crossdresser who is in a marriage or serious relationship with a genetic woman is best o...
My wish for the future, a Prayer for Hope, Peace and Acceptance These are a few of the thoughts I’ve had over a long time. They contain a little bit of my whimsy, but the wish within and the desire for all of you is true, particularly now for people of all race and colour. You ...
This is my way of saying thanks and I wanted to make a small tribute to the wonderful friendships I’ve found both here and in the wider CD and TG community. A few of you might know me a little bit from my posts and articles here over the last year and half or so, but I’ll giv...
This article is inspired by a reply I wrote in a thread. I stopped having two personas years ago and now I’m just me. So when I say “we” I’m talking about how I was before. Most of us grew up with the notion that some ways of thinking and acting are solidl...
I spent my life from around 14 until 48 hiding my feminine side, worried that people would find out, and even running for cover if my doorbell went, until I ended up clinically depressed and needed to seek the help of a councilor before doing something I regretted. After the firs...
One of my favorite words in the English language – Freedom! This one word truly sums up my deepest core values all in two syllables. One of my favorite questions was asked by Mr Shakespeare, a name you may be familiar with. The question is famous, To Be? Or not to be? Whe...
I’ve been a cross dresser for really as long as I can remember. I’d have between 10-20 items at a time and have purged often, always careful not to get “caught”. I’ve been in a few long-term relationships (2+ years) and an 11-year marriage as well, never letting a singl...
My SO, who is more than a little disapproving of my crossdressing was going to be away for a couple of days. This gave me the opportunity to have the flat to myself, and I could spend the whole time dressed. I had the thought, “Why restrict dressing to in the flat?” N...
Hi Girls, I’m Bree. I’ve been dressing for many years and through several relationships. In all my years I have not shared my fondness of my thrill for cross dressing with any of my SOs. I had remained in my closet until I discovered CDH. Now that particular feat of conce...
What am I becoming? What am I Now? I’ve struggled with this question in the past, and still do. It stemmed in part from a common expression put to me by a couple of my long time male friends, who know nothing about the existence of Amy, and a shared concern of all as to where w...
Why do we cross dress? Why does it give us such a rush? An inexplicable sense of fulfillment when we dress and act in ways a woman does? I think the answer lies in understanding the masculine and feminine qualities. Every individual, whether male or female, possesses both ...
Okay, here’s the question I pose to all the girls here and everywhere: why do we do this? “This” being dressed as a woman and being in public. I know there are as many answers as there are CDers and TG girls. What precipitated this was a conversation I had with my wife last...
It’s been over five years since my wife died, and my world changed forever. The person who I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with went away, never to return. My wife knew all about me, the wanting to dress as a woman, and she accommodated me as much as she could, ...
Here’s a little story about my very first trip to a make-up store as a male. I slowly walked past the store I wanted to enter. It was a high-end makeup store full of people, so I kept going to the food court and had a coffee and relaxed for a little bit hoping the place would b...
The Need to Crossdress: Blessing or Curse? I titled this article the “Need”, which I think accurately describes this compulsion we all seem to share here. Although dressing ourselves up to one extent or another in women’s clothes brings us together, we all travel a differen...
So, just to start things off, I want say that I have a lot of mental issues, all of them pretty severe; depression, anxiety, and PTSD. I’ve been going to counseling to find the source of my most recent mental health upset, which caused me to have a complete mental breakdown...
SelfPartnered by Lori Peace It’s a meme started by Emma Watson of Hermione fame. She said that as she approaches her 30th birthday, she decided to trade in the moniker “single” and exchange it with a new title: “selfpartnered.” Check it out on Twitter #selfpartnered. Sh...
As an over the road driver, the one thing that you seem to have an abundance of: time. You have time to contemplate, time to hash out things, and time to over-think things. Yes, I said it; time to over-think things! Over-thinking can make things worse than they actually are. I re...
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