Learning to speak in a feminine voice can be the hardest part of the transgender journey. Vanessa explores her feminine voice and shares some tips.
Vanessa’s Transgender Experience
Vanessa Law shares her experience as a 30 year old transgender girl. Come join in her joys of crossdressing, relationship advice and ponderings on how being transgendered has forever altered her life.
I could not think of a more apt phrase to describe my 2010. As it recedes into the rearview mirror I wanted to take a moment to reflect on what has passed. The joys and pain. What has changed and what has stayed the same. And most importantly, what I’ve learnt. 2010 was a year ...
I must apologize in advance for the somber mood of this post, especially since it comes on a day meant to be filled with joy and love. Before I begin though, I want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a blessed holiday season. I pray that those you love are close to you, and th...
It’s been almost a month since my last post. I’d love to say that I was busy with the holiday season, or that I’d temporarily lost my muse, or find some other innocuous excuse for my absence. The truth is unfortunately more grim, as the situation between my wife...
Thanksgiving. A time to contemplate our blessings, to appreciate the bearers of those blessings and fill our hearts with love for them. This Thanksgiving I want to share with you one person I’m most grateful to. Someone who, in all likelihood, will leave the title I have come t...
To some the crossdressing purge is a right of passage. A validation that you've struggled with your feminine nature.
Tomorrow looms upon me. The first day of the rest of my life. The first day of freedom. The first day I am finally myself. Daunting, exciting, scary all at once, I can barely comprehend the way my future will forever be altered.
How To Tell Someone You’re Transgender
Vanessa Law Learn How To Crossdress, Vanessa's Transgender Experience 10Telling another person that you're transgendered can be daunting. Here's a few tips on how to share your secret.
Transgender Women – Stand Up For Yourself
Vanessa Law Crossdresser Support and Advice, Vanessa's Transgender Experience 10As a transgender woman you'll need to find the fortitude to stand up for yourself. Here's how I stood up for myself when treated badly by a friend.
I turn around and am surprised to see The woman staring back is me All my flaws and faults remain Behind the veil I’m still the same They say that the folly of many a transsexual is to believe that the gender change will end their problems. It’s hard not to look longi...
Step Softly, Walk Carefully – The Path Here Is Narrow and Untrodden
Vanessa Law Am I Transsexual?, Vanessa's Transgender Experience 14I am sitting outside the local Walgreens in my car holding the pill in my hands. The sun is gently breaking through the clouds as if to create a boundary around which my world would pivot. My heart is beating a nervous tune infused with melodies of contentment. As I swallow the...
For millennia humanity has sought to explore the outer limits of what is known. Travelling across continents and oceans, through the sky and into space. Each new frontier brings with it a yearning to search for the boundary to the next. As each frontier has been pushed we’v...
TransFor the first time in years I had a plan for my life. Years and years of introspection and contemplation led me to take a number of significant steps over the last 12 months. I began growing my hair out (again), steeled myself against any inquisitive glances and went out as ...
It’s been almost two months since I quit my last job. During that time I’ve had the privilege of vacationing in Kauai with my lovely wife, hosting my dad and his girlfriend at our house for a week, focusing on my health by exercising, spending time with old and new fr...
I’ve been meaning to write about this for months now. Ever since that day waiting in line to mail some return some Christmas gifts we bought for ourselves that didn’t quite fit (I told you it’s been a while…). It was a crisp Seattle December morning, and I was...
It’s been a while since I’ve felt the darkness clawing at my soul, since I’ve struggled against the suffocated night while clutching desperately to the last life in me that silently sets. This morning I stared into an abyss I had long thought banished from my li...
Dusk comes to another day. The last glimmer of light fades to a deep purple as the sun rests behind the mountains. The warm afternoon is transformed into a restless cool evening that longs for the dawn. Such was the sentiment as I traveled the long journey from Esprit. A journey ...
My transgender journey so far has been a slow path to self acceptance. Every now and then something along my path acts as a catalyst that helps me more quickly and more fully become who I am. I know from speaking with many of you that the first time you plucked up the courage to ...
If something brings you untold joy whose glow lingers for days, could it possibly be a bad? If something kisses a smile to your lips and extends a warm glow across your entire body, could it be harmful? If something is so intoxicating that it calls to you from your slumber, could...
When you look back on life changing decisions you can always point to the moment it tipped. Before that moment there was discussion, thoughtful contemplation and perhaps even some emotional bargaining. After that moment the path forward becomes clear. You’ve decided. You...
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