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The snow has started falling in Seattle. The air has chilled to a frosty 23 degrees, as the Christmas lights begin to twinkle in malls across America. Okay, that last part was a half truth – we all know that Christmas really starts for big retailers around the time the first fall leaves begin to change color. But why let that ruin our idyllic image of the perfect Christmas?
A time of love, joy and goodwill towards all men (woman and crossdressers) is upon us. You may be pondering what to get the crossdresser in your life for Christmas (or perhaps you’re pondering what feminine delights you can indulge in yourself – after all, a girls got to treat herself sometimes…). I’ve shared a few thoughts in Christmas posts past, with a short crossdresser christmas list, or wondering whether your wife gifts your crossdressing at Christmas appropriately. Though for all the earthly gifts we could receive, perhaps the most valuable is the gift of acceptance for our transgender nature.
As you’re thinking about how to treat those you love in your love, take a moment to be thankful for their acceptance, even if it is still yet weak and small. Such love is a treasure that will bless your heart all year long.
A Few Gifts This Christmas
I couldn’t leave you without a few thoughts on what to get for Christmas. As I’m going further in my transition I’ve had occasion to clear out a few things from my closet – they’re all in good condition, and at a fraction of the price of new items may make a perfect and affordable gift.
Update: All gone!
My wife keeps telling me I have too many shoes. To try to rectify that I’m selling a few pairs, all in woman’s size 12W. You can find high heel clogs by Softwalk, a cute pair of high heels by Softspots and some high heel mary jane pumps. The hormones have worked at quite a pace, and I’ve found occasion to sell a few pairs of breastforms I own. For the larger look there’s a pair of C Cup silicon breastforms, and for the more demure among us some B cup breast forms would be perfect. Lastly, if you need to spruce up your look there’s nothing that a beautifully layered brunette wig with bangs and highlights can’t solve. Okay, perhaps a slight exaggeration but I’ve found that a good hair day can work wonders for my mood.
I hope this holiday season is a blessed one for you and your loved ones. My love and blessings are with you,
Vanessa
Christmas time is the perfect time to stock up on makeup because there are some ridiculous sales this time of year. This is especially true of the huge eyeshadow/blush pallets that allow you to play around with color schemes to your heart's content.
In the grand scheme of things, foundation, perfumes, etc etc are not "big-ticket" items, but they add up, and fast, especially if you fond of the department store brands. Soooo, I buy myself a few presents when the sale prices are right.
I'm sorry for being so late in reading this e-mail about Christmas gifts; however, I thought I'd respond. My wife asked me to hang up my stocking this year near the fireplace, as usual. When I hung up our traditional red ones, she laughed and handed me a pair of pantyhose to hang up for mine. We both laughed a lot. On Christmas morning, the legs of the pantyhose were filled with small "girly" things; lipsticks, eyeshadow, nail polish, etc. I was so excited....at the the bottom of one stocking leg, there was a note on pretty pink paper. It basically said that "Patrice" was accepted in her life. The note also had me play scavenger hunt throughout the morning, starting with gift #1, a pretty panty/bra set (satin green) that I immediately put on. I continued the instructions and within an hour I was wearing all the undertrimmings and a beautiful long feminine coverup over all my pretty lingerie. I was accepted, what a gift. We played "girl" all day long (first time). I was thrilled. It was a Christmas to remember. Thank you all....now for Valentine's Day.
Also, nobody suspects anything when you buy feminine items at christmas time!
I love shopping at Christmas time. You can really explore in any store with out to many questions. I love the beautiful dresses and skirts this time of year.
Hugs
Amber
