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Yes, I also wish I would have dressed as the girl I was as a teenager,but I/we can not go back.
Lets all look foward in what ever "stage" we are in. Lets laugh,sing,dance,wear heels (LOL) and be happy... it's about time.
God bless, Ronnie
Yes, I also wish I would have dressed as the girl I was as a teenager,but I/we can not go back.
Lets all look foward in what ever "stage" we are in. Lets laugh,sing,dance,wear heels (LOL) and be happy... it's about time.
God bless, Ronnie
I'm quite lucky, having started cross dressing when I was 17, however due to doing my computer studies which occupied most of the time, I'd put it on the 'back burner' so to speak, do I regret it? no not at all because their was other things that I was doing, like going out with friends and enjoying being young. I'd figured back then that you're only young once and that their was plenty of time to dress when I wasn't out and about. (was still in the closet then).
The other thing I realized was the importance of having a good circle of friends you can trust.
Now I'm 24 years old, having well and truly finished my studies and in work. I still enjoy what I was doing in my late teens but also spend more time dressed, since coming out of the closet it's made life that little bit more easier and ultimately more fulfilling.
I'm quite lucky, having started cross dressing when I was 17, however due to doing my computer studies which occupied most of the time, I'd put it on the 'back burner' so to speak, do I regret it? no not at all because their was other things that I was doing, like going out with friends and enjoying being young. I'd figured back then that you're only young once and that their was plenty of time to dress when I wasn't out and about. (was still in the closet then).
The other thing I realized was the importance of having a good circle of friends you can trust.
Now I'm 24 years old, having well and truly finished my studies and in work. I still enjoy what I was doing in my late teens but also spend more time dressed, since coming out of the closet it's made life that little bit more easier and ultimately more fulfilling.
Todays youth has it easier with crossdressing then what I had to do as a boy. Except for dresses primarily, boys skirts are readily available to every male in America. Even in anime there are hundreds of sites that offer crossdressing boys. In 1961 , at 11 yrs of age, I started crossdressing. I did not have to sneak around. My mother thought that all boys should wear dresses. She dress myself as well as my two brothers. I took to them like a duck to water, my brothers did not. by the time I was 16 yrs of age I had a closet full of dresses and skirts.
Although today most boys, according to two different websites, will in fact wear them, they don't know how to wear them properly. The boys usually wind up exposing themselves (under garments) or wear their shorts under them. If boys are going to wear dresses or skirts then mothers, sisters and girlfriends need to teach them. Dresses require slips and panties, not shorts and tighty-whiteys. Skirts sometimes require halfslips as well. Boys need to be taught how to wear and put on bras too.
Todays youth has it easier with crossdressing then what I had to do as a boy. Except for dresses primarily, boys skirts are readily available to every male in America. Even in anime there are hundreds of sites that offer crossdressing boys. In 1961 , at 11 yrs of age, I started crossdressing. I did not have to sneak around. My mother thought that all boys should wear dresses. She dress myself as well as my two brothers. I took to them like a duck to water, my brothers did not. by the time I was 16 yrs of age I had a closet full of dresses and skirts.
Although today most boys, according to two different websites, will in fact wear them, they don't know how to wear them properly. The boys usually wind up exposing themselves (under garments) or wear their shorts under them. If boys are going to wear dresses or skirts then mothers, sisters and girlfriends need to teach them. Dresses require slips and panties, not shorts and tighty-whiteys. Skirts sometimes require halfslips as well. Boys need to be taught how to wear and put on bras too.
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On the topic of hiding, when I was in junior high and high school, I used the space below the bottom drawer of my night stand. That lasted quite some time until my older sister went into my room to look for something in my closet and used my nightstand for a stool. when she moved it, all my stuff was left in the middle of the floor.
Today as I am older, I have two places - one for regular wear and one for special occasions. I don't go out in public so regular wear is stuff I wear in the car to and from work and/or under my clothes. I keep this stuff in the back of my masculine pick-up truck.
Special occasion wear is what I pull out when my wife and kids are out of town. I keep this stuff in a cupboard in my masculine garage. I say this knowing how heurotic it sounds but justifying it all the same...:)
Thanks for sharing a few hiding places Chris - and for warning about how even the best hiding places can be discovered 🙂
Hugs,
Vanessa
Thanks for sharing a few hiding places Chris - and for warning about how even the best hiding places can be discovered 🙂
Hugs,
Vanessa
On the topic of hiding, when I was in junior high and high school, I used the space below the bottom drawer of my night stand. That lasted quite some time until my older sister went into my room to look for something in my closet and used my nightstand for a stool. when she moved it, all my stuff was left in the middle of the floor.
Today as I am older, I have two places - one for regular wear and one for special occasions. I don't go out in public so regular wear is stuff I wear in the car to and from work and/or under my clothes. I keep this stuff in the back of my masculine pick-up truck.
Special occasion wear is what I pull out when my wife and kids are out of town. I keep this stuff in a cupboard in my masculine garage. I say this knowing how heurotic it sounds but justifying it all the same...:)
To all the fellow struggling "women" out there regarding of age, but especially those in the more earlier years of their life, hang in there, find a true friend to trust, and learn about yourself as you experiment in growing up.
Like many others have already said, "It does get better." I grew up as a child of the 50's & 60's shortly after Christine Jorgenson came out. At least I then found out there were others who might be like me. A close buddy of mine at the time & I did some experimenting and I really found out who I wanted to be. He & I did do some boyfriend/girlfriend stuff for a while until he went off to college. Then I, like so many others, went back & hid in the closet only occassionally to venture out. Always on the look out for something that might give my inner most thoughts away. Now that I am much older and have grown more mature, I do know that "Yes, it does get better." So hang in there, be yourself and do not listen to others who only think they know.
To all the fellow struggling "women" out there regarding of age, but especially those in the more earlier years of their life, hang in there, find a true friend to trust, and learn about yourself as you experiment in growing up.
Like many others have already said, "It does get better." I grew up as a child of the 50's & 60's shortly after Christine Jorgenson came out. At least I then found out there were others who might be like me. A close buddy of mine at the time & I did some experimenting and I really found out who I wanted to be. He & I did do some boyfriend/girlfriend stuff for a while until he went off to college. Then I, like so many others, went back & hid in the closet only occassionally to venture out. Always on the look out for something that might give my inner most thoughts away. Now that I am much older and have grown more mature, I do know that "Yes, it does get better." So hang in there, be yourself and do not listen to others who only think they know.
im 189 and have been doing it off and on for about 3 years and im just getting big into it and i want help with it 🙁 like person to person nut i cant tell anit one that knows me
It's pretty hard to go through life knowing if someone will judge you. I lived for nearly 16 years in fear because my mother said they kill people like me off. I have a wife who knows my situation and I must say she thinks I look better as a woman, (I am 26 now), than a man. I even look good in skinny jeans and a nice blouse top. I wear turtlenecks, mini skirts, flare and bootleg jeans, you can even wear "club-wear", but be careful to not get the really low necklines as to fear of exposing breast forms. However, I am experimenting with some make-up techniques so u can expose your breast forms but appear as real breasts. It can get expensive but well worth it. Since your young you might not find too many options on your budget. Find tasteful size breast forms proportionate to your shoulders and chest. There are a bunch in eBay, but be careful each cup size varies on the band size so check your chest circumference and I suggest oval shape plus 3M super 77 adhesive to put on breast forms( found at craft stores) and goo gone as adhesive remover which for both is like 15 dollars total compared to the 60 dollar primaries. As for hiding your "manhood" wear a Gaff, they run from 15-20 dollars. As for hair removal, get Revitol, yes it is expensive but for men who have thick hair follicles, and we all do have it ,this does the trick for like a month. Nair and veet just act like foamy razors. In your budget go eBay and buy breast forms(janetsclosetstore or stephaniesbosombuddies2009 I trust), revitol, Gaff, full wigs (please be tasteful) and Tamera pantyhose (if u have a tan or dark skinned) the reason for the hose is it is cheaper alternative to revitol, just shave your legs and wear them it hides the shaved hairs and razor bumps. Clothes and other stuff can be found at discount clothing stores and craft/hardware stores. This took years of trial and error but that is the way you learn and I am happy
It's pretty hard to go through life knowing if someone will judge you. I lived for nearly 16 years in fear because my mother said they kill people like me off. I have a wife who knows my situation and I must say she thinks I look better as a woman, (I am 26 now), than a man. I even look good in skinny jeans and a nice blouse top. I wear turtlenecks, mini skirts, flare and bootleg jeans, you can even wear "club-wear", but be careful to not get the really low necklines as to fear of exposing breast forms. However, I am experimenting with some make-up techniques so u can expose your breast forms but appear as real breasts. It can get expensive but well worth it. Since your young you might not find too many options on your budget. Find tasteful size breast forms proportionate to your shoulders and chest. There are a bunch in eBay, but be careful each cup size varies on the band size so check your chest circumference and I suggest oval shape plus 3M super 77 adhesive to put on breast forms( found at craft stores) and goo gone as adhesive remover which for both is like 15 dollars total compared to the 60 dollar primaries. As for hiding your "manhood" wear a Gaff, they run from 15-20 dollars. As for hair removal, get Revitol, yes it is expensive but for men who have thick hair follicles, and we all do have it ,this does the trick for like a month. Nair and veet just act like foamy razors. In your budget go eBay and buy breast forms(janetsclosetstore or stephaniesbosombuddies2009 I trust), revitol, Gaff, full wigs (please be tasteful) and Tamera pantyhose (if u have a tan or dark skinned) the reason for the hose is it is cheaper alternative to revitol, just shave your legs and wear them it hides the shaved hairs and razor bumps. Clothes and other stuff can be found at discount clothing stores and craft/hardware stores. This took years of trial and error but that is the way you learn and I am happy
im 189 and have been doing it off and on for about 3 years and im just getting big into it and i want help with it 🙁 like person to person nut i cant tell anit one that knows me
i have just came out, being a crossdresser and also being gay
