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For many men there are few holidays more dreaded than Valentine's day. Between the prospect of spending the day alone for some, or forgetting and spending the day in the dog box for others one can almost lose the sweet romance. Yet perhaps because of all the Hallmark-hype love, togetherness and the tender touch of your soulmate are just the start. Gifts have become a staple of February 14th - flowers, chocolates, and perhaps even some sexy lingerie are all appropriate, expected or hoped for.
I usually start thinking about Valentine's day the first week of February, but today my lovely wife surprised me and suggested that Valentine's day would make for a great poll topic for Crossdresser Heaven. I wonder... do all woman start thinking about this holiday so early? Perhaps for the moment I'm still a man with the soul of a woman.
With this week's poll you get to tell me: as a crossdressing valentine who buys the panties in your house.
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You left out an option "We buy lingerie for eachother".
I have not been dating for a few years, but I still have female friends that will give me gifts on Valentines day or other occasions, and often those gifts are feminine items and sometimes lingerie.
When I have been in relationships, depending on who I am with and what I would think they would really like, sometimes I purchase lingerie for them, sometimes other things, but I almost always would get lingerie from whoever I was with. I think it is interesting sometimes to see how other people view you by the gifts of lingerie/clothing that they buy for you because they pick things out either based on what they think you will like, or what they think you would look good in or what they would like to see you in. So just by asking how they made the selection, you can gain a little insight on how they view you, what types of colors/styles other people think you look best in, etc., unless they are buying based on what they think YOU would like, but even that can be useful info.
The best thing about recieving Lingerie, or any other feminine gifts from anyone, (your significant other, friends or family), is that it shows their acceptance and support for you.
Most relationships I have been in I usually will recieve lingerie items on Valentines day, often will both give and recieve lingerie.
Sometimes I will buy something for myself to wear when I am spending Valentines day with someone special.
I am single again this year (by choice ) so I think I will have to spoil myself a little.
WHAT AN INTERESTING QUESTION, I WISH MY FEMININE FRIENDS WOULD BUY ME LINGERIE, I'D SIMPLY ADORE IT, BUT MOST EITHER CONDONE ME DRESSING AND JUST PUT UP WITH IT, OR DONT KNOW I DO, SO NEEDLESS TO SAY, I BUY MY OWN LINGERIE. MELONY
Well, while we share a love that is not afraid to allow dressing and lingerie to be a part of it, to be honest the love is there without the lingerie. So I answered no lingerie. But if the truth be known, she buys it and I wear it.
I agree, being with the one you love is the most important thing on Valentines day. So I could be happy without any lingerie being involved. But it does make it special when someone gives you things that shows so much acceptance and support of who you truely are when such a large percentage of the world is so against allowing us to be ourselves. It's nice to know that the person you love lets you know they are totally in your corner and love you for who you are. Not that they need to give us lingerie to show us that, but it does touch my heart when I am told in that way.
Can't really say that I get anythang on valentinez day. Every year on valentineza day I waz single and I alwayz workd so in reality valentinez day is a sad day for me. I'm still single and I'm just hopin that for valentinez day I would get the girl of my dreamz and the love of my life back. Thatz all I want. I hate sittin at home every year just stayin away from everybody cryin cuz I'm alone on wutz suposed to be a special beautiful day for everybody. To everybody on this site HAPPY VALENTINEZ DAY. Ik itz early but itz nice to hear it.
My third wife left me the Saturday before Valentine's Day and I was devastated, so I was pretty much down on Valentine's Day for about two years after. Since then, I have become happy in who I am, and look forward to Valentine's Day as a special day to share if I am with someone, or a special day for me. I have never given or gotten lingerie on Valentine's Day, but in 1984, my second wife gave me a little Teddy Bear. (Everyone should have one, you know, to keep them company through the rough lonely times.) In the past, I have given chocolates, and one special year, my third wife and I gave each other really good dark chocolate truffles and expensive port wine. Then we shared them. Oh my!
But the best Valentine's Day gift is yet to be - a love shared with someone who totally accepts my dressing. I have "come out" to my current girlfriend - the first person whom I have ever told. (Now, THAT was scarey.) She is still trying to get her head wrapped around the idea, so I don't expect any intimates, (and I don't want to get her any, because I don't want her to think that I really wanted them for myself) but we are planning to spend the day together, and revel in our new-found love for each other.
I think I will get her some good chocolates; I already have some decent port in the house. 😉
My wife has allways said that she is fine with my crossdressing,but this year she proved it.She picked out bras and painties for me. That was more important o me than any thing she could have done.
always enjoy newpanties w/matching bra miss the times when i was 5-17 though. modelad all 4 of my sisters dresses. jeez oh for cute!
