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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
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Today is the 28th September and Becca is now one year old.

Just over twelve months ago, my wife went on holiday to India. I'm not a great traveller, much preferring to be in familiar territory, and anyway, someone has to stay at home and look after the rescue dogs. We don't like to put them in kennels since that's where they came from, we wouldn't want them to think they were being abandoned yet again. She went on one of those guided solo holidays and spent ten days in India's Golden Triangle, where she met an older lady with whom she became friends (indeed, they went to Rhodes together earlier this year).

For no particular reason, on her first day away, I was looking through Amazon's vast site and came across a long, boho skirt in a rust colour. I bought one, though for the life of me, I couldn't tell you why; perhaps it just looked comfortable, perhaps Becca had been in there, hidden, waiting all these years for her time to emerge.

I'd almost forgotten I'd ordered it when next day, a driver knocked on my door, handing me a paper bag which contained a new future and a new direction for me, although I couldn't have known it then.

The dogs received the shortest of walks and after returning home, I put the skirt on. Indeed it was, as I imagined, very comfortable. I loved the way it looked, the way I could feel it on my skin, the way, when I curled my knees up on the sofa, it would drape itself over my legs and bare feet, keeping any draughts at bay.

I wore that skirt at home every day while my wife was away and then she came home, none the wiser, and I went back to being all male; inside though, I was thinking about wearing that skirt again.

Two years ago, when I drank wine and beer, I would have had a few glasses, then, when the alcohol had worked it's confidence-enhancing magic, I would have blurted out that I was wearing women's clothes. Ah, but I no longer drink, I had no Dutch courage, I could only feign casual indifference and mention 'in passing' that, while she was away, I found this skirt that looked comfy.

The die had been cast, what was coming next?

'I go away for two minutes and you're a tranny?!'

'Have you been trying on my clothes?!'

'That's weird, I'm leaving you!'

No, I heard, 'Well, you can put it on if you want.'

I wasted no time, but the minute I put it on, I realised that far from being comfortable in it, I felt embarrassed, awkward and foolish. What was I doing, wearing a woman's skirt? After all, I was a man for heaven's sake.

Nevertheless, for the next few days, I wore it at some point every day, and slowly, I began to realise that my wife was completely unfazed by my dressing.

A little while later, probably within a week or two, I ordered some other clothes from the Chinese company, Temu, since they were very cheap. Another skirt, a shorter one this time, and a very bright top with a bird design on it. I tried them on with my wife present and although she didn't say anything (hindsight says perhaps she should have), I thought they looked ok and we took some photographs. These photographs are unlikely to see the light of day since they portray a shaven-headed man with a blue beard and dodgy legs wearing a skirt that was too short and a top that was too big. Oh, those were the days [to forget].

I had some medical issues over the next few months and my cross-dressing was somewhat sporadic and only when I felt well enough, but it never went away. I bought breast forms, hip pads, a wig and finally, my wife agreed that I could shave my beard off; such a relief to have that gone after decades of covering my face.

During my illness, while aimlessly browsing for forms, or wigs, I don't remember, I came across the wonderful Crossdresser Heaven. I knew people cross-dressed, I had seen a few in my time and observed them with some curiosity, but no desire to copy them. That is until that skirt in September 2023. Once I joined CDH in January of 2024, I realised that cross-dressing was a phenomenon that was far more widespread than I thought; so many across the world. I didn't even look for other sites in a similar vein—and it would appear that many of them are more sexually oriented or contact sites, in neither of which am I interested.

Once I was aware of the cross-dressing community and how CDers went about it, things moved apace. I bought a better wig, different breast forms, clothes, jewellery, clothes, perfume, more clothes, cosmetics...and shoes.

Shoes were a problem at first. I have size 9 (UK) feet and most of the shops stopped at size 8 in women's, so online purchasing was all I could do, paying over the odds for inferior footwear. However a chance encounter in a sports shop with a pair of size 8 trainers brought me the realisation that so long as I wasn't entering any marathons, I could get away with a smaller size...and suddenly, the world of women's shoes opened up to me!

Eventually, much earlier than planned, since I couldn't wait, I made my first trip out in public; something that is documented in my earlier article.

My wife had reservations about that first trip out, but they quickly evaporated.

I got my ears pierced. I love dangly and hooped earrings as I can feel them as I move; just one more thing that reinforces the feeling of womanhood.

My wife taught me how to do my makeup, trimmed my wigs and kept me on the straight and narrow regarding what clothes worked and what didn't. We started going out on a fairly regular basis, to the theatre, shopping, garden centres, even just for a coffee.

These days, we often go out and about with me dressed and even when I'm in drab, we still look through women's clothes shops together.

I have so much jewellery and if one of us doesn't like some item we have bought, the other may well take it on, even some clothing can work for both of us.

The other day, I bought a small car for my feminine side (SO uses one to go to work and 'dressing' for motorcycling, my other transport, is inconvenient at best) so Becca now has her own wheels, a black Smart car. Soon it will have flowers and butterflies transferred onto the bodywork; all perhaps an expensive step too far, but it's too late now, I've paid for it.

I am at ease with my femininity. If I haven't been out for a while, I get that initial nervousness and reticence until I have my makeup on, I'm dressed and I step out of the front door, ready to face the world en femme and I feel good about it all once again

So here we are, precisely one year on from when I tried on that skirt. It seems both a long time ago and also only like yesterday. I can thank CDH for a large part of this journey.

Becca is one year old and happy, although with rather less money.

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 11 months ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 632

@rebeccabaxter Well, Happy Birthday to you. That does seem like rapid onset CDHing but then being in a similar situation I can understand that. It sounds like you've managed to find yourself in such a short length of time so is there anywhere left to go now? other than out more. Not so appealing at this time of year as I found out last night. All the plans for a night out at a gig went out of the window as it was much too parky for skirts etc so it was back to jeans & big coats unfortunately. Hopefully Cornwall is warmer & You can keep up the boho look for a bit longer.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

After years of wearing shorts in all seasons, a skirt feels positively warm. Cornwall is generally warm.

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(@alexina)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1596

@rebeccabaxter 

Becca, thanks for this entertaining and informative article, a pleasure to read.

I totally agree, skirts are much more comfortable than trousers, dresses even more so because there's no waistband. And that's before we even get into colours, styles, materials and so on and so forth...Ha ha, I love that phrase.

Yes, a lot can happen in a year, my own theory is that a dinosaur is thin at one end...no, that's not my theory, this is my theory, Our inner girl is denied, suppressed or even just unnoticed for so long, then she gets out and doesn't want to go back.

Lucky lucky us, I say, now we get the best of both worlds!

I also get, and respect, your care for your dogs, we got our latest cat (we've had the pleasure and privilege of living with various cats all through our 48 years of marriage), as a kitten, though not from rescue place. I believe that he, too, would think he was being dumped if we took him to a cattery so I won't do it. We've had people say, "He's only a cat" and my reply is always the same, "He's another person, he's just a different shape and he communicates slightly differently". 

Allie doesn't have a birthday as such, there's been so many stops and starts over the years and if there was one date, I'd only forget it! I'll adopt my CDH joining date as Allie's birthday though, and celebrate that, if and when I remember!

Xx

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

I don't she is ever going to go back in.

We've always rescued dogs, I've had them all my life, where possible. The only only one that wasn't a rescue is the one we have left now (we lost one of them earlier this year) and she is a freebie as a result of a dog [human]training course I did because the older dog had a lot of issues, which I had to learn to deal with. He had a good life after we rescued him, but what someone did to him before that, we can only imagine.

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Lady
(@paulapantyhose)
Joined: 7 years ago

Estimable Member     western part of state, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 135

@rebeccabaxter It is a good thing that I am unlikely to met any of those horrible people who do unspeakable things to dogs who just want to love on someone, I would most likely end up a ward of the state if I met any of those nasty people. We have one rescue but luckily the worst thing that happened to her was she spent a few days running the streets and a few weeks in pound before we hot her at less than 6 weeks.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Paula,

For the first few months, our Ollie, a six-year-old Springer/collie cross (Ollie the Sprollie), wouldn't go into different rooms until he was ready. If he was in the living room and we wanted him to go into the kitchen (or the other way round), he wouldn't go. Any attempt to get him to go was met with bared teeth and growling. You couldn't comb him without him snapping at you. Sometimes he would stand in the middle of the room looking at the ground, his tail between his legs and his ears drooping; a picture of sheer depression. He would go for people, dogs, cars, anything that came close. We had to warn people not to look at him or try to touch him in any way.

There was never a time when we were going to send him back, even though he lunged at a guy who put his hand out towards him in the shelter even as we were collecting him—went for his throat, I'm not kidding, teeth bared and everything. The dog shelter never told us about his aberrations, we had to find out the hard way.
It took us months if not years to get rid of most of his fears. We never could let him off the lead as he was prone to running in any direction in a panic. We fenced in our large garden and let him off and he just threw himself at the fencing and we had to attach a six foot length of lead to his collar and let him drag that around with him, it seemed to keep him calm; eventually we managed to take it off so he could run around free of it.

I could go on and re-tell the diary I kept about him for the first six months—a tale of his depression, rage and woe—but suffice to say, he turned into a lovely, and loving, dog in the end and had a good ten years with us before he was put to sleep because of laryngeal paralysis ruining his quality of life.
We still miss him such a lot, we put a lot of ourselves into him, but we did get an awesome amount back from him by the end.

Sorry to go on.

Becca

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1425

@rebeccabaxter Good for you Becca. Makes me realise why I've been a mad cat lady all my life 😂😂😂 xx.

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Lady
(@paulapantyhose)
Joined: 7 years ago

Estimable Member     western part of state, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 135

@rebeccabaxter you are an amazing person for working with him until he was able to trust you. He differently had a bad start in this world. 

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(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 962

@rebeccabaxter 

This is a great read Becca.

Congratulations on your anniversary.

You've certainly come a long way in a year. It’s interesting that you say things moved on a pace after joining CDH. 
That seems to be quite a theme with a lot of us. It’s amazing to find how many of us actually do this isn’t it ? 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Yes, I've come frighteningly far really. There was a brief period when I thought my fem side was going to take over altogether but it steadied out and now I know where I am with my cross-dressing.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1230

@rebeccabaxter Happy Birthday Becca! I love the photo at the top of the article. It's great to read what a positive year you've had despite the health issue.

Anna x

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thanks Anna. Yes, there were some dark times earlier this year but a small drug regime is keeping everything functioning for the moment until I can get some surgery. I am well enough to enjoy life again, and so I am—big time.

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 515

@rebeccabaxter 

Cupcake

Hi Becca, HAPPY BIRTHDAY. What an amazing first year of your (new) life, and many more enjoyable years to come.

Many thanks for sharing that heartwarming story with us! ...... No, "heartwarming" doesn't do it justice. It was fabulous, I did an internal high-five. That must have been a magic skirt, calling out "Wear me, Becca".

I really liked the photo at the start of the article as well. I found that, if I right-clicked it and opened it in a new tab, the picture was brought up in all its wonderful detail. That is a really well put together outfit you are wearing. And will the car re-decoration feature any dogs? Well, if you didn't have to stay home to look after the dogs none of this might have happened, right? Look forward to seeing the new version of the car.

Happy Dog

May the hugs long continue, Rebecca x

 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you for the encouragement Rebecca. I think there will be some paw prints or some such going there at some point soon. I hadn't thought about blaming all this on the dogs! 🙂
Unfortunately, we lost one of the dogs in April through laryngeal paralysis but we know his last years with us were a million times better than his first years with some unidentified a^hole, who did not treat him at all well. If you had seen him during his first few months with us, you'd never have seen such a wary, depressed dog in all your life. Eventually he learned to trust us and became a happy dog for many years. We still miss him terribly.

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 6 months ago

Reputable Member     Longview, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 117

@rebeccabaxter wow, what a lot of discoveries in just a year’s time.   Congratulations to you and your wife for making this happen in a way that seems so positive!

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you Kim. One does what one can, YOLO and all that.

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Duchess
(@gafran)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 498

@rebeccabaxter 

Happy Birthday Becca!

All the best to you! You definitely had a beckoning urge to emerge as Becca! 

Enjoy yourself in this Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you Fran,

I shall endeaviur to make the most of it.
x

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Baroness
(@trish1980)
Joined: 3 years ago

Prominent Member     Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 761

@rebeccabaxter Hi Rebecca and happy one year anniversary as a girl. doesn't it feel great? I've been crossdressing since I was 14 and that was 60 years ago and the feelings of being Trish have increased rather than decreased. I love it more now than ever.

I must say too that you are one lucky lady to have the wife you do. Treat her well, you are in the 2% of crossdressers whose wives are totally supportive. They are few and far between. My wife is accepting and for that I feel blessed but when I read about girls who have wives like yours it think of all the things that I can't share with my wife and that makes me sad. Hope you've had a great day girl.

Trish 💖

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 6 months ago

Reputable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 238

@rebeccabaxter happy birthday because,  l dress at home, many of what l wear was purchased for me by my wife, l usually purchase my clothes online.  I found since l started crossdressing l care more about my appearance and l also find l am less stressed,  l enjoyed reading your story , thankyou

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Becca, what a wonderfully written story of your short but intense journey. Not the usual tale of trying Mum's things on as a kid, purging, guilt, self doubt etc. Although I've never suffered any guilt personally. Congratulations on your anniversary! Have you any idea in detail what actually attracted you to the skirt in the first place? Have you still got it?

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

It just looked like something I'd like to try on, as I said, I have no real idea why.

Yes, I still have it and it will get used again as the weather gets colder; nothing like curling up in front of the fire with a skirt draped across ones legs.

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(@denimwear)
    Other, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Congratulations, Becca! It seems that in finding the skirt, you found yourself.

I'm sure we would all love to see a photo of you with your car all decked out.

Hugs,

Lynne

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

I have done some transfer application, some artistic butterflies. How much further I depends on how I feel at the time, sometimes less is more. I have got a personalised number plate with the letters CDR at the end 😉

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Duchess Annual
(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Happy Birthday Becca, may your days ahead be filled with fun and happiness!

Sherri

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you Sherri, I do hope so.

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Duchess
(@theapat)
Estimable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Wow! Great story, well written. I felt like I was at the theater, sitting in the first row on the edge of my seat.
Congratulations on your 'one year' and the relationship that has stood the 'SKIRT TEST'.
I know you bought a car and you made mention of being 'happy although with rather less money'. I haven't bought the car YET but I have always made the same statement. Do I enjoy my wardrobe, from my shoes to my wigs, from my body forms to my make-up and accessories. If I 'went out' en femme, did I get my money's worth"? Was it better than taking in a 'ball game' or a playing a 'round of golf'? The answer? It's always a resounding, 'YES, YES, YES'!
It's good to spend money wisely but first and foremost, it's good to be happy.
Stay Well, Keep on Guard, and Continue to Enjoy what you love doing.
Sincerely and With Love,
Thea

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Well, male me is 70 now and as they say, you can't take it with you. Probably NOT wise, but one has to enjoy life.

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(@gracepal)
Honorable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Becca - Just a great, well-written, not just another “tried on Mommy’s panties when I was 10” story. I love your wife’s attitude of “go ahead, no big deal.” Wouldn’t we all support our wives pleasurable pursuits pretty much no matter what they were? I know I encourage mine to always do what makes her happy…(which, is a LOT of shopping.)

It illustrates vividly my long held belief of: “What’s the big deal about wanting to wear women’s clothes?” Seriously…what? Who does it harm? Nobody. On any level.

Also…LOVE the girly car. Can’t wait to see the updated pic, be sure and share. I’m in the process of getting a girlier car myself BTW….little Grace can’t be seen driving a big ‘ol truck anymore!

GP

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

I did try on a bra when I was a kid and I quite enjoyed it, but it didn't raise questions about my sexuality in any way, it was just something probably most boys do at some time out of curiosity. I do it these days because it's comfortable and it's fun.

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(@staciebobacie)
Estimable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

Congratulations Becca, your story brought a smile to my face.  What will the next year bring?  Enjoy your continuing journey!

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Hopefully, more of the same. I'd love to be able to do it in my locale but aside from the occasional glimpse by people around here, that's as far as I can go. Away from the village I couldn't care less who sees me, even if they are from the village.

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(@christineth)
Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Joined: 2 years ago

Happy anniversary, Becca. And what an amazing wife you have. Hugs Christine

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you Christine. My wife is priceless, she really is.

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Duchess
(@xerri)
Active Member     Clymer, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Happy first birthday, Becca. And my wishes that you will experience many more. Love, Xeri

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

One can only do one's best, keep the head down and soldier on, enjoying life as much as possible.

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(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

A happy anniversary Becca. Only a year to get to this point which may have taken girls here many years to achieve, and with your wifes blessing too is magnificent!

But then at your age you can't hang about so now to take the foot off the gas and take it at a slower pace to enjoy every moment. 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

At MY age how dare you!! Only kidding, As I see the names of tv/sports personalties, actors and the like, having their deaths announced on the news, it brings home thoughts on my mortality and spurs me on to do the most with whatever time I have left. It's something a youngster doesn't think about and you can't tell them that they should.
Onward and upward.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Congratulations and happy birthday Becca!

Alice

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you for reading my little note, Alice.
x

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Noble Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Happy Anniversary to you Becca! You have just experienced a very interesting and exciting portion of your life. You have had a lot of very nice things take place this past year, just think how much more fun you're going to have over the next 12 months. Enjoy.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     New York, United States of America
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I forgot to add that the skirt is very pretty!

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

It's from a UK company and the line is called Cerulean. I have two more skirts in a similar vein and one of them is reversible -- patterned black on one side, and multi-coloured on the other. For skirts, they are quite expensive but the material substantial and the skirts well-made.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

So long as the health problems stay in check, I fully intend to enjoy every minute. I have been both unlucky and lucky this year. There have been dark times and periods of great joy, I'm trying to make the most of the latter. Thank you for taking the time to read my little missive.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Becca -

Happy Birthday and thank you for a well written account of your journey. Your wife is a wonderful lady for being so supportive.

Love the picture at the beginning of the article. You must share pictures of the car after you've adorned it with appliques. Have you given her a name yet, you must if you haven't.

XOXO
Suzanne

 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Thank you Suzanne,

Yes, we have named her. Her name is Schmoo.

My wife is a real gem.

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(@melissa70)
Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

what an adventure you've had! Happy birthday! It helps give me courage. Thank you.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

It can take courage to go out, it's a big step. Read my other article where I describe my first steps, I think(I hope) I've improved my visage since those early days.

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 11 months ago

Becca, apologies for my somewhat belated congratulations on a wonderful first year hon *hugs* 

It's amazing what can happen in a year, isn't it 😊  Not to diminish the early-life experiences of so many other girls on here in the slightest, but I wonder if it's all happened so fast (for both of us) exactly because of the lack of them? 

Anyway, here's to many more years of very femme enjoyment in your new life!

Big hugs,
Fiona xxx

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 10 months ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 877

Fi,
Yes, it's VERY belated, shame on you!!😀 Only kidding of course.

It is true that this CDing lark only really started in earnest in September last year. I have thought about things from the past that might have been latent, but apart from some messing about with my wife when we lived in The Netherlands at the end of the eighties—and that was only sexual play at the time—and a little bit of youthful curiosity regarding women's underwear when I was in my teens (I used to look through the mail order catalogues at the bras), there's absolutely nothing I can think of that made me want to do it more this time.
As I've said in other posts, at other times, I suppose it's a bit of a hobby. I'd like to dress more around here but probably just because it would be more convenient than getting into male mode to take the dog out twice a day, then getting changed back again. I have no desire to transition at all, it's just nice to have a little bit of a different persona. Indeed, I have two friends now, first my wife and now Becca. My wife enjoys it all too, after the first few weeks of trepidation about going out in public; she never fretted about me dressing at home.

Anyway, long may it last, it would be a shame to waste all the money I've spent being Becca!

Thank you for your birthday wishes.

Lots of love,
Becca
xx

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