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Your writing is so informative and I can truly relate to your experience..thank you for sharing…Leonara
If you are doing the things that bring you inner joy, you are a success! Finding your level and being happy is what matters overall.
Thank you. It means a lot to me to show encouragement.
It took everything I had to be open, given my past experiences. I am amazed at my good fortune
Great story and sage advice. My confidence began building when I chose to style my hair the same everyday and always wearing earrings.It never hurt being addressed as, “Ma’am” even when unexpected, putting a bit of spring in my step.
“Whatever happens, be the best you”. That’s excellent advice for any situation, Marla.
I love Marlas article.
I really found this article extremely close to home for me. My size has always been a deturrent to step out. Even though I still do occasionally. I'm Building confidence slowly by wearing some what gender neutral clothes, shirts,pantss, coats, sweaters, etc. When I go to the stores. This has certainly helped me get more comfortable about going out in public. I do sometimes get out fully dressed in the evening or night. I have not had any adverse reactions by other people...so far. Which has helped me relax and be more comfortable being enfemme. I do need to work harder on my size which might be the one thing to push me, to be me more often.
Thanks for a wonderful article.
Hi Marla and thanks for the article. I see myself there.
I've been slowly moving toward an androgynous look in my daily life and feel comfortable going out and about this way. Yep, I get some questioning looks being that I live in a very conservative area but it doesn't bother me at all and I find I like the attention.
I underdress with panties and a bra every day sometimes with small forms or not, wear a scrunchie that matches my top to hold my high ponytail, use clear gloss on my fingernails, wear womens tees and tops (I love pink), usually some feminine bracelet on one wrist, use feminine Secret deodorant, keep my face shaved and moisturized and shape my eyebrows a bit, try to walk, sit, and move like a female. I even wear feminine pads sometimes. Next I'm going to get my ears pierced. The remodel continues.
No one has made any comments except one female cashier who noticed my clear gloss fingernails and told me how pretty they were. Such a small observation and comment but made me feel wonderful for the rest of the day. My bra has been noticed but still no comments which is probably a good thing.
I feel completely comfortable presenting androgynous.
Daily dressing? I'm guessing you don't have to work--