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Coming out to your partner

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(@Laura Days)
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Congratulations on your success when sharing it with your fiance, but even more, I congratulate your courage to grasp that opportunity to share it with her, it must not have been an easy step to make.

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(@holly-g)
Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Jessica I wish all of us had that same result. I waited over 15 years before my wife found out about Holly. This was definitely not the best approach. I hid Holly to protect my wife but in the end I only shielded her from the truth which she regretted in the end. I wish that I had the chance to come clean like you did with the person I love back at the start. We are slowly working our way through it though so I still have hope!

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(@Laura Days)
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I love seeing the success stories! Thank you for sharing!

I told my last girlfriend. Only person I've ever came out to fully. We had been seeing each other about 3 months, I've adopted a philosophy of letting my secrets out early so she could leave before we're in too deep if she's not cool with what I share. I warned her that one day she'd see girl mode in action. A couple months later it happened. She talked like she was supportive but I didn't get the vibe she was really feeling it. Weeks later she talked a little smack to me about what I shared and eventually told me that she felt like she had to "compete" with me...I guess I had made her feel that I was more feminine than her...that makes me giggle but more so I feel bad that she saw it that way. I too had been hoping for a shopping partner or a girls night out. We're not together anymore, NOT because of that, but other things, we weren't in the same place anymore after 3½ years. It's fine. Live and learn eh?

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(@alice-b)
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Active Member     nottingham, United Kingdom
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I tell ladies early too now. Some say bye but remain friendly some hit the highway some say ooookkayyy but then they know I'm not going to drop a bombshell on them

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(@don-walter)
Eminent Member     jacksonville, texas, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

I'm one of the lucky ones my wife is all for it. we go out and she will pick out something and say this will look good on you.

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(@Laura Days)
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My first two wives hated the idea and never supported it in any manner. I divorced the first one, God took the second one. My current wife is very supportive. We talked about it prior to marriage. Her only restriction is not during sex. We share clothes and even have matching outfits. Lovely story, glad it worked out for you .

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(@Laura Days)
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You're very fortunate, Jessica. I'm very happy your coming out had a positive outcome. She is definitely a keeper. Congratulations.

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(@speedster)
Active Member     Walnut Creek, CA, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Just a great story Jessica. My wife of many years wouldn’t be to keen on me going out and about overtly, but one time about ten years ago she decided to switch brands of panties and I asked her for her cast offs. She was surprised at first, wasn’t too happy but decided on her own that I had a fetish to answer to and put this big pile on the bed and said, “...have at them.” We haven’t looked back and I have worn panties ever since, added bras and camisoles. I wear woman’s jeans too. I love the feelings I get when in my girlie things....sometimes I get very emotional, tears of joy really but when I’m feeling that way, I can feel the sensitivity of my skin and every movement reminds me of how much the blend of gender makes me whole.
xox

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(@alice-b)
Active Member     nottingham, United Kingdom
Joined: 8 years ago

At first she seemed to encourage me, then she started to to get distant eventually she asked me to leave. Then we lived apart which seemed to work we could still meet etc. Although we've come to a natural conclusion in our relationship, she still remains my rock as we've always said sometimes love isn't enough. She remains my best friend wardrobe adviser and shopping buddy and as we're a similar size, clothes horse at times.
Hugs Alice

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(@Laura Days)
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Great story Jessica I wish my wife was on board with me but she and my daughter thinks it is gross

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(@Laura Days)
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That is so awesome I hint around with my wife but when she gives me this I'm weird look I stop. My thing is pantyhose and thigh highs. I always have on a pair under my pants My wife knows but I play it off as I use them for warmth. Great story.

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(@Laura Days)
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Jessica , I am happy for your and your wife.......now there is a partnership!

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(@Laura Days)
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As a wife of a cross dresser my husband is a loving husband and I under stand his situation. I support him as best I can. I see no harm in it at all. I try find things to suit and do my best. Over all we are together 30 years now and I feel the same today as the day I meet him.

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(@Laura Days)
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I dunno. In the past six months I have come out to my wife as a submissive and she is now the head of our household. I have also told her a lot about my weird and unconventional fantasies, my desire to be dominated and my joy when she publicly asserts herself over me. She has come a long way with me, patiently and kindly. The crossdressing might be a bridge too far.

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(@jullieann50)
New Member     Fortworth, Tx, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I wish my so would be supportive and we could have a lot of fun with it

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(@Laura Days)
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Jess,
You have a soul mate to die for and don't realize how blessed you are.
There are about 99% of us girls out here crying tears of joy for You and
tears of sorrow for us. Most of us are happy to even have a closet to hide in.
Thanks for sharing your story, these morsels of good news are what we come
to CDH for. Thanks again-GOD BLESS YOU and that FANTASTIC SOME OTHER.

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