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Before I get too far into my very first article on here (I do hope you enjoy it), I would like to briefly provide some information about myself.
My name is Jacinta and I have been crossdressing for less than 12 months, not long before joining this great community. I am very new to the scene, so last year I did what any new person to the community does - shop like there is no tomorrow! Unfortunately, in my shopping spree, I ordered some items that were too small for me - this includes dresses, bras and panties (I underestimated my true measurements!).
2022 was not a great year for me as it was stressful and terrible, which put a toll on me both physically and mentally, and led to not sleeping well, not eating right and putting on weight; I was at the heaviest I have ever been! At the end of last year, I decided that I am going to change my outlook on life, in particular with regards to my body. For about 10 years, I have been insecure about my body/look. Whilst I am not obese, I am slightly overweight. I wanted to have a body that shows I am fit and healthy, which will boost my confidence. I have tried this in previous years, but have failed very quickly; however this year is very different!
One of the few highlights in 2022 was embracing my feminine side and starting to crossdress. I don't get to do it enough as no one close to me knows (as I only dress in private), however, when I get the chance to dress up - I feel so happy and feminine.
As I still have the items I bought last year that were too small for me, crossdressing has given me the extra boost to continue to work hard to get that perfect body! Whilst my male persona wants to have a chilled six pack, Jacinta wants to go for a more feminine look with skinny legs, an hour glass figure and of course a nice looking backside! As Jacinta is now part of my life, I am following her direction. This includes lots of cardio, squats and lunges at the gym.
It has been about one month since I have started to look after my body (going to the gym, eating better etc), and I am just starting to see the weight slowly coming off! While it may be only a couple of kilos (or pounds depending in what the part of the world you are located), I feel like I am starting to get over the hump, and I feel it comes down to wanting to crossdress and be more in touch with my feminine side. I am hoping to reach my target weight goal and hopefully that will not only allow me to finally be able to wear those clothes that have encouraged me to lose the weight, but it will hopefully give me the confidence to venture out into the world as Jacinta.
Hopefully there will a part 2 to this article as part of my life in 2023! I appreciate you taking the time to read it and I would love to get your thoughts and opinions on this.
I hope this year is a perfect year for you all!
Lots of Love,
Jacinta xoxo
It is an awakening, isn’t it? My own personal experience had me shaped like a pear when I started…it was the motivation for me.
Keep it going now. You are working every day to create a better version of you. And remember…you are only competing with yourself.
Be blessed.
Anything that motivates a person to live a healthier lifestyle is worth it in my book. If dressing is that motivator then so be it. Enjoy a healthier you and your new found passion.
