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I found that I was able to present myself better in public I starting out by wearing kilts. Kilts are for men and women and once people get used to the kilt then you add something else to it like maybe nice shoes or maybe tights. After they get used to that and taken adding like a nice blouse or something and keep going till you have the look that you want.
I found that I was able to present myself better in public I starting out by wearing kilts. Kilts are for men and women and once people get used to the kilt then you add something else to it like maybe nice shoes or maybe tights. After they get used to that and taken adding like a nice blouse or something and keep going till you have the look that you want.
Your story moved more than can imagine. This must of been quite a soul baring experience putting all this out for us to read.
My little confession, I read this just before I had to leave home this morning to go to a meeting, and could not think of a reply, so I just closed my computer and started my long drive to the city. Though I felt that such a heartfelt confession deserved a reply.
Driving along the highway later on, I could not help but think of the incident where your mother retaliated against your toys.
You sound like you must of been an only child, as I was, too. Though I had a much more normal and compassionate home life. But this is my point, being a shy, lonely kid, as well, toys and my few stuffed animals were my companions, at times they were my only friends, and most had real personalities for me. I talked to them, and I felt that they replied. To loose all of your special friends in such a manner, I cannot describe the feelings it would cause. It brought tears to my eyes as I drove.
Amy
Your story moved more than can imagine. This must of been quite a soul baring experience putting all this out for us to read.
My little confession, I read this just before I had to leave home this morning to go to a meeting, and could not think of a reply, so I just closed my computer and started my long drive to the city. Though I felt that such a heartfelt confession deserved a reply.
Driving along the highway later on, I could not help but think of the incident where your mother retaliated against your toys.
You sound like you must of been an only child, as I was, too. Though I had a much more normal and compassionate home life. But this is my point, being a shy, lonely kid, as well, toys and my few stuffed animals were my companions, at times they were my only friends, and most had real personalities for me. I talked to them, and I felt that they replied. To loose all of your special friends in such a manner, I cannot describe the feelings it would cause. It brought tears to my eyes as I drove.
Amy
Hi Fiona
Thanks for sharing your story. As I have got to know you I have seen your confidence grow.
You are a diligent member of the Ambassador team and are great fun. So I am pleased to call you a friend.
Hugs
Hi Fiona
Thanks for sharing your story. As I have got to know you I have seen your confidence grow.
You are a diligent member of the Ambassador team and are great fun. So I am pleased to call you a friend.
Hugs
Hey Fiona,
Would be glad to chat about CDing....
I am not going to transition...never wanted to " become " a woman...love to CD.
Been CDING from the 1960' s out in public.
Love to discuss " coming out " with young FOLKS.
Later T.J.
Hey Fiona,
Would be glad to chat about CDing....
I am not going to transition...never wanted to " become " a woman...love to CD.
Been CDING from the 1960' s out in public.
Love to discuss " coming out " with young FOLKS.
Later T.J.
Hi Fiona,
As many of the responses have already pointed out we all live with our past, be it good, bad or indifferent. The most important choice you have made is to be a better person. That includes being Fiona. You don't have to go out alone, metaphorically or actually, as there are so many here who share your trepidation (myself included) of being accepted en femme. Hopefully there is at least one other member of CDH near you who can lend you a shoulder for support to physically step out into the world. I don't doubt the world will seem a little bit brighter for it.
Hugs,
Steph
Hi Fiona,
As many of the responses have already pointed out we all live with our past, be it good, bad or indifferent. The most important choice you have made is to be a better person. That includes being Fiona. You don't have to go out alone, metaphorically or actually, as there are so many here who share your trepidation (myself included) of being accepted en femme. Hopefully there is at least one other member of CDH near you who can lend you a shoulder for support to physically step out into the world. I don't doubt the world will seem a little bit brighter for it.
Hugs,
Steph
My Dear Fiona,
You are such an amazing woman sharing your story with us....I cant imagine living my life that long and feeling this way. I'm young and am finding my femininity everyday and the urge to go out dolled up is very strong, I relate to that so much, as I'm sure we all do. In my case, I found the courage to come out. I dress how I want and I suggest you do what feels right. ..and not care about what others think. Find local friends who will accept you and associate with them. Even though my family and the most important people in my life (brothers and parents) won't approve, it is not their choice to make for me even though i don't dress around them and have no desire to, so its not a big deal...you can do it anywhere its shockingly easy and freeing and you'll get compliments even and people giving funny looks. I've even found the funny looks make me happy, because that means I'm really looking the way I want LOL. Otherwise I believe you and others like you will continue to be unhappy with the way your living. For the issue if anyone asks and finds out in my family, I'll simply tell them I always have, you just haven't known! I am no expert, just hope this helps you!!!
My Dear Fiona,
You are such an amazing woman sharing your story with us....I cant imagine living my life that long and feeling this way. I'm young and am finding my femininity everyday and the urge to go out dolled up is very strong, I relate to that so much, as I'm sure we all do. In my case, I found the courage to come out. I dress how I want and I suggest you do what feels right. ..and not care about what others think. Find local friends who will accept you and associate with them. Even though my family and the most important people in my life (brothers and parents) won't approve, it is not their choice to make for me even though i don't dress around them and have no desire to, so its not a big deal...you can do it anywhere its shockingly easy and freeing and you'll get compliments even and people giving funny looks. I've even found the funny looks make me happy, because that means I'm really looking the way I want LOL. Otherwise I believe you and others like you will continue to be unhappy with the way your living. For the issue if anyone asks and finds out in my family, I'll simply tell them I always have, you just haven't known! I am no expert, just hope this helps you!!!
My heart goes out to you, girlfriend, upon reading your childhood and young adult experiences… Let me be clear: YOU are amazing and worthy for being here after experiencing all of THAT. (On a personal note I believe there should be a special place in Hell for anyone who treats a child lie that!!!)
And I’m so happy that you, like me, has found so much joy with our female selves.
Hugs,
Jules
My heart goes out to you, girlfriend, upon reading your childhood and young adult experiences… Let me be clear: YOU are amazing and worthy for being here after experiencing all of THAT. (On a personal note I believe there should be a special place in Hell for anyone who treats a child lie that!!!)
And I’m so happy that you, like me, has found so much joy with our female selves.
Hugs,
Jules