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Has it been more than a week already since my last post? Time really does fly when you're having fun. With Halloween right around the corner I've been busy hunting for a suitable (and feminine) costume, attending Halloween parties and trying not to eat too much of the candy we're going to be handing out tomorrow night...
My wife has been a fantastic help, and has diligently steered me away from costumes that would not be flattering for my figure - the sexy wench costume with barely a belt for covering, as one example. Do you have your crossdresser halloween costume yet? This is the one night a year when crossdressing is not only tolerated, but celebrated (in a drunk and rowdy way sometimes, but celebrated nonetheless). Don't let this opportunity to be beautiful for all the world to see pass you by!
The other thing I've been working hard on is to improve the performance of Crossdresser Heaven. I don't know about you, but I was getting a bit frustrated with how long it would take to load the website. After all, I want to spend my time learning how to crossdress and exploring the blessing of being transgendered - not waiting for the web page to load... Take a second to answer the poll below and let me know if I've done a good job, or still have a lot more work to go. You'll be helping me to improve Crossdresser Heaven for everyone.
With the Halloween revelry almost behind us I'll get back to the regularly scheduled posting. In fact I've been working on a few "most requested" articles, such as "How To Tell Your Wife You Crossdress". Take a moment to subscribe so you won't miss out.
Hugs and Blessings!
Vanessa
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Hi,
In addition to articles such as “How To Tell Your Wife You Crossdress”, it would be useful to have something similar to help wives accept crossdressing rather than seeing it as a threat to their marriage or an unacceptable peversion.
Thanks, keep up the good work.
Wendy
Dear Wendy
I'm a women who is very open minded with my partner regarding his crossdressing, we have a very strong relationship and I cannot understand why many women feel it a threat or unacceptable regarding their partner who wants to dress up, surly the relationship between them in the first place is not one that is strong.
My partner was open with me from the very start with the enjoyment he has wearing womens clothes but in no way does he want to be a women, it's just a pleasure he feels free to experience.
Women may feel crossdressing a threat to them if their partner has been hiding it from them for sometime, which it then becomes a shock and a relarionship barrier to her as she could feel he never trusted her to speak about this in the first place.
Honesty and understanding are the two major factors in this situation between the couple and is the only way to overcome and move forward in their relationship.
Ladies if your think your partner is crossdressing but your not sure he is THEN speak to him as he could feel unable to approach you, dont get upset or angry as this is as hard for him as it is for you. Crossdressing is very common now....
LL
Oh Loo how I wish i had a partner as understanding and accepting as you. I have to wait until she is out before I can dress as she knows about it but wont accept it. I am beginning to think I should leave her and live on my own so that I can dress whenever I need to
I told my wife about my urges to crossdress way before we were married. Her reaction was one of compassion. We married, it never was really an issue until I hit my 40s it became stronger and stronger. I approached her with it again and she was totally grossed out and angry. Her reaction was totally about her. I was devistated. I have since gone to counseling and am finding out about myself, and getting comfortable with who I am. It will be a long road, but our relationship will never be the same. As many others probably, I wish my wife had been as open minded as you.
