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You wake up in the morning feeling the cool satin of your pastel pink nightgown... yes, you are a man who sleeps wearing women's nightgowns. You've liked it ever since you tried on Mom's nightgown years ago and it's okay.
You put on your floral robe - satin too - to drink your coffee., tying back the hair you've let grow longer as you read the newspaper.
After breakfast, you realize you woke up early. You can exercise a little, put on leggings and a brightly colored sports bra. After training and a good shower, you're happy to see how successful your last waxing was.
You start preparing for a new day: put on makeup - it's not feminine makeup, but it's important to enjoy the process. Apply a discreet lip moisturizer as if it were scarlet lipstick. Dry and comb your hair.
You wear a suit and tie, of course. It's the corporate world. As it is cold, you should wear a vest. Your underwear is gone. You now wear delicate boy short panties - like the black lace one-piece you are wearing now.
The cold encourages you to put on pantyhose - and over them a man's sock.
You wear men's dress pants - slim fit, of course.
You start to put on your shirt when you remember a detail... Then you open a dresser drawer, which reveals your bra collection. Yes, you took advantage of cold days in the past, by wearing your sister's bra when going to go to school. But now you have your own collection and can choose the most appropriate piece for the context.
Generally, you choose tops or bralettes, preferably without fasteners or adjusters, as you cannot mark the outfit. But the day is cold, and you risk a bralette with clasps on the back that match your panties. It's magical to button and unbutton bras.
Just in case, you still wear a men's tank top to disguise it. You button the satin dress shirt, which has no transparency - you don't wear white T-shirts. Did you forget the bra may appear through it? Then, put on your tie, vest, and jacket. You also risk adding some accessories and jewelry that are theoretically masculine but have a certain feminine charm.
Office life seems more exciting when you're in lingerie. The bra's permanent embrace and sense of adventure make you calmer and more productive. A somewhat masculine style, but with a touch of femininity. The tighter cuts and fabrics, like satin, make it feel better.
When you get home at the end of the day, you start to undress. Like every woman, you feel a certain relief in unclasping your bra in front of the mirror, you see your body with the marks that the bra left on you after a long day. After a relaxing bath, you need to make a decision - after so many decisions you made that day.
The night is not over. Should I dress up now? In a dress, wig, makeup, and a padded bra (maybe with forms), and go to a party? Your biggest excitement is when people think you're a woman. It's great to receive compliments. Will there be a man or woman that might desire to kiss you, as has happened before? It doesn't even come close to the frustrating few you achieved as a mediocre male kid. Your female version is your salvation.
You may be a little tired to leave the house, instead choosing to wear that exuberant lingerie and calling a friend to stop by. She may be the one that unclasps your bra, and vice versa. Or he could be the one to snuggle into as you explore possibilities born of curiosity.
But you're out of patience and decide to leave the party for the weekend and call it a night. You put on your satiny pastel pink nightgown and get ready for bed.
Tomorrow is a new day. You have an appointment to get your nails done with that neutral nail polish. As with most feminine routines, the important part is in the experience!
great read and wonderful way to start each day
When I wake up I have those kind of feelings, how will I start my day. Shower, shave everything and then pick out the perfect pair of panties that match my mood. Then decide what I will do today, will I go shopping dressed, work in the yard in short shorts and tank or will I go out semi dressed. Or maybe put on a short denim miniskirt and tank then go for a nice ride either in my '94 Corvette or take the top off my Wrangler and enjoy the road dressed in fun girly things.
Some mornings I will be very Carla lazy and get up, put on bra, tank and denim shorts and sit on the deck and enjoy my coffee, or still in my panties and sleep top. Putting on something as simple as just a pair of panties reduces my stress levels significantly and keeps me sane. When I walk into my closet and see all my dresses, skirts and tops all in a row, it makes me smile and makes me very happy!
When I go out in guy mode I'm still wearing mostly feminine clothing. All my jeans and shorts are women's as well as my polos and tanks. It is fun to blend guy mode and girl mode with what I wear.
oh yea I enjoyed your article too Marie and related to so much of it. Truly we are not alone in our journey
Tia here, I got side-tracked trying to get to comments somehow. How was my day feels just like you describe it. I'm a stealth girl, wearing my clothes so the macho ones, who are afraid of their feminine side, don't know who I am inside. I am retired and not restricted by the corporate dress code so, I can wear what I like. In the Pacific Northwest, the weather is such that a flannel shirt is often appropriate which hides the body's shape. I have been able to wear a sports bra and small forms along with my panties and leggings in public without anyone noticing. That is such a wonderful feeling. Thank you for sharing. Have you considered writing as a profession? I think you would be successful at it. Love you
It is such a nice day, Marie Claire.
Marie -
Thank you for sharing your day, it sounds wonderful.
Unfortunately I'm not able to do what you describe, however, my early mornings are mine so when I get up I have the opportunity to dress. It is usually panties, bra, a skirt and blouse/top or dress, in cooler months pantyhose, sometimes a wig, always lipstick or lip shimmer, a different pair of earrings and necklace. I then get my morning coffee (love seeing the lipstick print on my mug) and spend time here. My hope is to someday do more but for now what I am able to do is enough.
XOXO
Suzanne
Wonderful story that really hit home with me. I adore sleeping nighties, especially pretty long gowns with matching robes. Waking up and having my morning coffee in my nightie is one of my favorite pleasures in my girl life. I often have to force myself to get dressed for the day. On rainy weekend mornings I will often linger in it for hours.
Underdressing is my main daily outlet. Deciding on which panties to wear any particular day is often a process. Should I wear my simple girly cotton bikinis or something more silky and sexy? There all so enjoyable and cute. Today silky and lacy won out. I never tire of that wonderful feeling I get had I pull them up and adjust them just right. My lace trimmed triangle bra will compliment my panties. My heavier T should hide any sign of my bra. This closeted girl needs to be careful and aware in public but feeling a little daring is so much fun!
I’ll day dream often today about slipping into something soft and feminine when this evening comes. Slipping out of my panties and bra will be a pleasant reminder of another day in pretty lingerie
Natalie💋💋💋💋
Perfect!
I do love the way I dress for the day the same ways.