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Dear readers,
Over the weekend I was thinking about you, and about the journey that I've taken. In many ways I've been tremendously blessed. My self discovery, the support I've had along the way and my transition have all worked out about as well as I could have hoped. Yet I know that for many of you the road has been harder. Perhaps you're just starting out, or perhaps you're a loved one of someone who is on their journey and you're hurting, confused and scared.
I realize that for a little while yet I still have something I can contribute back to the community. Even though the memories of my former life are fast fading into the distant path, I know I've walked a path that for many is still shrouded in mystery and tainted with anxiety.
I think 2014 will be a year where many of you will experience breakthroughs. I know there will be heartache, but there will also be joy. Each step along the journey to discovering your true self is a magical and beautiful endeavor.
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To start the next year off right I've done some tinkering and improved www.crossdresserheaven.com. You'll find it now works better on your tablet and mobile phone, and should load a lot faster. You'll also be able to login with Twitter, Facebook or Google+ to leave your comments (don't forget the 3 steps to keep your feminine identity secret).
So, dear readers, it looks like you're stuck with me for a little while longer 🙂
While I'm around I'd like to know what you are most interested in hearing more about. Please drop me a note in the comments and let me know what you would like me to share.
My name is Dana and I live in Michigan. Your site is a welcome and unexpected surprise. I was in hiding for so long. Afraid to be the woman I am. Yearning for acceptance. You are an inspiration to me and others I am sure. There aren't many groups here that help...you have truly made it possible for me to be free and live like God intended. Thanks
Dana, you do not indicate your age, but if you are perhaps older there isa group on Yahoo called ElderTG which you may find helpful support. Vanessa is after all a mere babe in the woods at least compared to moi. (wink, wink Vanessa 🙂
Thank you Cheryl C. I am 47 years young but I am blessed with youthful looks. Thanks for that info...I will look them up
Hi Vanessa:
It is sometimes very lonely and somewhat scary,trying to come to terms with my feminine feelings.However reading all of your commentsmand also from other Girls,it has given lots of comfort! Comfort,because it is good to know that iam not alone! you have given me the insight to know,that it is alright to have feminine feelings!.
While as of yet do not go out freely dressed as a woman,you have given me the courage to explore this part of me!,and with you insightful comments,know that i will soon! Also from reading the many comments from other girls,know that i am not alone! and for this Many many thanks!
elisa michelle
Dear Vanessa,
What is your take on genderqueer/genderfuckers:
I look & feel fabulous in women's clothes, hairstyles, & make-up, but I like my beard !
Yes, I sometimes get harassed, but the compliments & words of encouragement make my day !
Thank you for sticking with us for a little while longer. {{Hug}}
Your just wonderful,
just wonderful,
I hope to come out someday
I echo Dana's sentiments,you are an inspiration for all of us girls,who have yet to truly fulfill our wishes to be sexy women!you are a friend to all of us!!!!!
Vanessa,
I'm so very pleased that you came to this realization yourself that it would be a mistake to abandon your 'sisters-in-arms' and that you still have a contribution to make. I remember when I read that 'last farewell post' thinking, "Well, that's pretty crappy!" I truly understand the desire to get on with your new life and put all the old pain and struggle behind you. On the other hand, in Plato's allegory of the cave, and in the movie The Matrix, there is an obligation of those who successfully woke up and escaped to go back in and try to help the others still trapped inside. How will others manage to do what you've done if you don't share your experiences? Thanks for sticking around.
@Cheryl C - I cannot find a group by that name in the Yahoo Groups directory. If Vanessa doesn't mind, could you post a link directly to the group please?
since i started crossdressing at the age of 13 wearing my mums knickers and anything else i could wear without getting cought then when dating i would tell my girlfriend at that time to leave some spare underwear and clothing at my house in case they stopped, they never stopped at mine no one was aloud which i knew but thats how i got them to leave things so i could wear them when i was alone.
As time went on i started to let very close friends{girls} put make-up on me that progressed to giving me a complete make over then to wearing girls underwear every single day for 6 months solid and no one thought it was strange then my brothers girlfriend found out i was wearing girls underwear i thought she was going to grass on me and take the mickie tell everyone i was weird but no she said if i would keep her company while my bro was away (he was in the army) then she would let me wear any item of underwear and clothing i wanted eventually she wanted to totally transform me into a female infact she wanted me to be her pretend sister and if i didnt do she said she would tell everyone even my family what i was wearing so ofcourse i let her do what ever she wanted to me and did she get carried away with it yes , she came round for me every day if no one was in my house she would bring everything with her.she started by removing unwanted hair on legs and arm pits etc,then she shaped my eyebrows to look more girly she put false nails on me then make-up then she gave me a girly hairstyle then she put a white silk bra on me with matching french silk knickers(that was the best feeling ive ever had whilst wearing womens underwear )then she pulls out her old school uniform knee high socks went on then this grey knee lenght skirt and white blouse went on but she wasnt happy with my look she said something was missing so she popped out then returned with some sandals and jewllery for me to wear she turned me into a girl seriously i looked so feminine when she had finished nobody reconized me at all we would go every where shopping the fair and not one person knew i was a male the best thing was that her mum always thought i was a girl i would stop over in the same bed by now i was having so much fun i wanted to be a girl for 2 years i lived as a young girl now at the age of 40 with 2 kids and a wife who knows about my past she buys me the odd pair of silk knickers nothing frilling though i want to dress up again wear sexy dresses and lingerie etc,etc she will not help me at all so im wondering if there are women out there who would love a man who they can turn into a sissy/women and enjoy doing it
great to see that you met a girl who was open minded and adventurous enough,to let you enjoy your feminine desires freely! also good to see that your wife respects your desires and indeed helps get garments for you,you are lucky!
regards
elisa michelle
Vanessa you are a breathe of fresh air to me. I appreciate your writings and viewpoints.--keep them coming. Glad I joined CrossdresserHeaven.
like Jasmine says,you are a comforting breath of fresh air to us TG girls!love reading everyone of your comments,so please keep them coming
Miss Vanessa,thank you does not convey my depth of feeling,in allowing to join this beautiful group of like-minded sisters.I'm ashamed to say,I haven't posted anything since joining our "society of sisters", even if by second hand methods,that helped me here.thank you,Gran(curtsey). I wish, here and now,to change my name from.....Andy(ugh)......,to millie,please.my intention is to start" full-time girl training ",at easter next.must be then,think on All that chocolate......., drooooooooool,like Homer Simpson.
im a man who love dressing like a female away from work it helps me relackand helps relieve my stress of the day
