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Well here I am 8 months later and still no further forward with that conversation! I have tried to stop dressing…..managed 4 months and then gave in to the urge and underdress most days. Even sleeping in tights and lace pants. I am sat up in my own bed dressed and feeling wonderful as my wife is asleep in the other room. Part of me wants her to walk in and catch me to force the conversation but I know that would be unfair. I have even thought about encouraging her to get herself a real man to satisfy her so I can spend more time as Teresa. I feel as though I am at some sort of crossroads in my life and really do not know which path to take. Are any of you girls out there in a similar position? Would love to hear your thoughts.
Hey Teresa. Very tough position that you are in. You need to do what is going to make you happy first and foremost but before making any decision you need to be aware what changes this may bring in your marriage and how permanent they may become.
Not sure if finding another man for your wife is quite the right decision, How would she even react to such an idea?
I am lucky my wife is semi supportive, but our life does limit how often I can dress due the kids, but she knows that when the kids are away I like to go out dressed and am learning more about other things that enhance Sarah's look. She also looks for my opinion on some of the things she is doing to enhance her look.
Sarah
Sarah, Your letter is well written. It is explanatory and thoughtful. I think so many of us SO or wives get reactive because we don't know....where it is going, what it means and we also feel that from the feelings of broken trust that come when you find out years later. When you don't know fear creeps in...and fear can run away with you very quickly. Thank you for being an example of consideration in a challenging relationship situation. A good example and reminder for all of us. -Ang
Sara, nice letter to your wife it seems like it must have helped. And it helped me understand that our wives cannot understand us unless we share and try to understand their side of it.
Sandy
