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(@dianas1960)
Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago
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I always dress en femme when I am traveling on business. Most of my trips are by car and occasionally I fly.  This was to be a short trip to the Chicago area for an audit.  I drove up on Wednesday stopping in Merriville for some shopping at the Macy's and JCPenneys.  I prefer Kohl’s but they still have their fitting rooms closed.

Anyways I had a great non-eventful trip up and even found a new blouse.  Dinner at Chili’s car-to-go and back to the hotel.  Fairfield has mobile-key check-in so I do not have to interact with the front desk although I have checked in en femme before with no issues.

It was a successful trip and time to go back home on Friday.  It had snowed overnight and I did not have a brush to clean off the rental car.  So I took a towel and went out in the frigid cold to clean the car and pack up.  It was a difficult drive for the first few hours as the snow was still coming down and with the Chicago winds there were drifts everywhere.

Once I got back to Indiana though the roads cleared up and I was booking along 79 in a 70.  I saw the trooper in the median, but I have never been pulled over as long as you stay below 11 over.  However, I looked in the mirror and he was pulling out.  OH Sh$t.  He couldn't be for me though.  I moved over to the middle lane and he pulled up just beside and behind me for about a half mile.  Then he pulled behind me and popped on the lights.

This is the first time I had been stopped in 15 years and never while dressed.  I pulled over and he approached on the passenger side.  He asked for my license and registration.  I had to explain it was a rental and my registration was on my phone.  I showed it to him.  He then told me he had pulled me over because my plate was not visible.  It turns out my drive earlier in the snow and covered the back of the car white and you could not see anything.

He was very cordial but did write me a warning ticket.  He even cleaned off the plate for me.  Nothing was said about the discrepancy between my Drivers License and my appearance.  He said good-bye and I was on my way.  Whew!

About 30 minutes later I look in the mirror and again there is a state cop with his lights on.  I had New York Plates so I figure I am being targeted.  Turns out though he was not out for me, I pulled over and he passed going to an accident on the other side of the Interstate.

And on I continued.  As I got closer to home there was some construction I had forgotten about and I got re-routed though this really small town.  Wouldn't you guess there was a sheriff sitting by the side of the road.  I am guessing a speed trap.  Fortunately, I hadn't been speeding but guess what.  I pass and he pulls out behind me.  Not again.  He follows me for about a mile and then pulls off.  I guess my New York Plates were being checked.

Overall it was a great trip and I did get to do some more shopping on the way home and even found one more blouse to buy.  But I have seen enough Police for this week.

Thank you for taking the time to read my article. Please take the time to send in either a response to my article or one or more of the questions I’ve posed to you below.

*Have you ever been pulled over by a police office while you have your total girl on and how did it go?

*Have you never gone out driving in your vehicle for fear of either getting pulled over by the police or by getting in an accident while dressed fully en femme?

*How about gaining access to a bar or club which required showing your driver’s license shown towards the front door before entering. How did that situation go if you were dressed totally en femme and you looked nothing like the photo on your driver’s license?

Thanks girls for reading my article and looking forward to your possible responses to my article or questions!

Sincerely, Diana

 

 

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(@richelleb)
Active Member     Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

First and only time pulled over... riding with another TG after leaving a bar, got pulled over for a burned out headlight. We both produced ID's as requested and the deputy returned to his car to run them. When he returned he simply asked each of us for our Social Security # since our appearance did not match our ID photos. After that all was good and my friend got a warning ticket.

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(@beach-girl)
Honorable Member     United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

In 2019, on my way to a Christmas party, I was changing shoes at a stop light. I thought I had put the car in Park when I actually had it in Reverse. Took my foot off the brake & drifted into the car behind me. We got out & exchanged information. I was in a beautiful red party dress and before I even gave him my license, I said, "I'm a guy" because that's what my license says. He was like, "So what?" Police were not called. Damage was minor & I paid for it. No issues.

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(@Lacy)
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Joined: 8 years ago

Well I have been out driving in just my white lace lingerie with hose, garters and heels though heels are hard to drive with and fortunately I've never been pulled over but sometime love living a bit on the wild side as it's fun and love the erotic.

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I went out dressed up to a Buffalo Bells meeting one year, took the thruway to get there and was scared that some one passing by me would see that i was a man dressed up in a female clothing, or get pulled over for some dumb reason. no pull overs by a police officer thank god. got to the meeting place, put on my make up in truck, then heels , got out of truck and was scared to walk into the meeting place. but the sound of my heels was so exciting that I just walk into a wrong room at first sat down to watch a movie. I realized I was in the wrong room, for people were looking at me funny. I found the right room to go to and walked in and was greeted very well. sat down and we all talked about our x dressing. then it was my turn to tell my side. I was so thrilled and happy to hear them talk and tell my side I was happy knowing I am not alone in this world of x dressing. stayed a few hours there then left to go home.

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(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

About 30 years ago muggins me went for an en femme late night drive in Perth Western Australia. I was on a business trip and drove around some of the industrial estates where I had customers. Cops thought I was "casing a few joints".. So I got pulled over, flashing lights.. the works... I had not been drinking and I always carried my drivers license when femme.

All was well in the end and I was sent on my way with, "I think its time you went back to your hotel.... sir....."

Caty.

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(@amylove2dress)
Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

I have been out many times, but have never been pulled over, nor had to produce my guy id for any reason.
One time I had a nearish miss. I was running late for a makeover and was driving quite fast on the main highway. It is clear and open which of course encourages speeding, and for that reason it is patrolled on an irregular basis. Usually I'm quite cautious en femme so I don't need to worry about it, but that day I was driving fast enough to attract official attention, then I realized how fast I was going and slowed down. Then further along was a cruiser in the median!

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(@alison-anderson)
Noble Member     Middlesex county, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Since the pandemic I have been dressed more often than not. Last August I was dressed heading to the supermarket. Traveling down the road, someone going the other way turned left in front of me. I hit the other car on the side, and ended up totaling my car. The air bag popped and with my seat belt, I was left with only a few minor bruises from the exploding air bag. It was a couple of black and blue marks, and cuts on the heels of the hand from the air bag exploding past.

A gentleman who was a part time firefighter came over and helped me out of the car (there was a lot of smoke from the airbag, he thought there may have been a fire). He held my arm firmly until the police came, and was even trying to get me to sit down (by getting a chair from another business near the accident scene). I had to go back to get some things from my car, and noticed my wig had come off. (My hair is quite long, and I was at the beach earlier in the day and had not taken my clip-on bangs off, so it still looked feminine without the wig.) I quickly slipped it back on and stuffed as much as I could into my purse before my car was towed away.

The police came and they also called for an ambulance to check me out. I gave my documents to the police (a woman), and went into the ambulance. They asked me a few questions including my name (which I gave my male name) and took some vitals. I didn't need to go to the hospital (and they agreed). I got out and got my paperwork back from the police, but no comment.

I'll bet the other driver was surprised when the police report came out with my male name on it. But otherwise I had no issues.

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Lady
(@jo)
New Member     Edinburgh, East Lothian, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Diana, thanks for your article. I drive all the time in female dress and I haven’t been stopped yet but I can imagine the concern you must have felt. But these days I worry less about such stuff. I was recently invited to get my vaccination and decided I couldn’t be bothered to change into my male identity. I was asked for my ID three times, which didn’t produce any reaction. Sometimes we expect strange reactions when most people don’t bother. But I’m sure there are girls with less positive experiences and it’s important not to go to far outside your comfort zone.

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(@ginaindy)
Trusted Member     Indianapolis, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I was running late to meet up with some friends at Talbott Street and finished putting on jewelry and accessories in the car , I had dropped an ring on the floor and bent over to pick it up , keep in mind i am only 4 mile from my house and most of the officers around know me, well when I bent over I drifted over the center line and well there was a police officer hidden checking for speeders . I got pulled when he came to the car he asked for license and registration which I gave to him and asked if we could keep this between us due to how I was dressed , he said I do not care how your dressed you are getting a ticket , about that time another police officer pulled up also, I am thinking oh shit I am busted because it is going to be someone I know well I did not know either one fortunately, we talked for a little bit he asked , if I had been drinking and where I was headed , told him no had not been drinking and was headed to Talbott Street at which time he told me he had does security there, well that was a relief , he was very cordial and nice about the situation.

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Lady
(@janedon)
Reputable Member     London, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

When I think about it, I've never been pulled over while driving fully Dressed--With wife driving & me fully dressed we've been pulled over--I've had some strange looks but never any problems from cops though--

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(@tallsamantha)
New Member     Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Thank you for this article. I have terrible time with law enforcement of all forms.....sheriff, highway patrol, INS, Homeland Security (I cross borders a good bit) and have been profiled as some kind of "person of color." for over three decades. I am worried about driving en femme and being pulled over. As it is I already am grilled, searched, delayed.....but en femme I have no idea what to expect. I am glad to hear so many ladies here have had these sort of interactions with nary a problem.

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(@samanthat)
Trusted Member     BRADENTON, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

There used to be a consignment shop I would go to as Samantha. I don't really pass, but I figured I was trying on dresses skirts and blouses and shoes. I would rather be wearing a bra and forms when trying on clothing and the proprietor was very friendly with me and would ask me to show her what the dresses look like on me. This is the southeastern United States so there are a lot of close-minded people and one or two made comments and left the store after seeing me in feminine clothing. She defended me unequivocally and when I apologize she said she did not want those type of people in her shop. On my way home I noticed I was running out of gas. the warning light came on in my car that means you've got a couple miles. I had to pull over and get out and gas the car in the mid-afternoon Sun in a crowded gas station in a bad part of town. Fortunately the person on the other side of the pump was an African American woman she complimented me on my shoes and said her brother did drag shows. I felt a lot better when I got back into the car and got it started and back on the road.

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Lady
(@peterlinda5170)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 25

I can relate to the consignment shop story I have on two occasions been told by the shop operator she doesn't want close minded customers they also insist I model for them one shop owner said she would kill for my legs

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Duchess
(@terrim)
Reputable Member     Long Island , New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I am retired law enforcement. I got pulled over once while enfemme. I didn't show my PD ID and was able to talk my way out of the situation. I also had a accident while enfemme and exchanged information with the other driver. There is no law as far as I know for driving enfemme. Most officers today know about us. Just be polite and give the officer your information. And most importantly don't drive drunk.

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Lady
(@cindyjones)
Trusted Member     Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Diane,
Thanks for the wonderful article. This is a re-print from previous forum post on "Close Calls"...

Ok, here’s one from a long time ago when I was young and stupid (now I’m just old and stupid).

This takes a little setting up… I used to travel (by car) quite a lot for work. So to pass away the evenings, I would dress up and take a long drive on the interstate. I would enjoy turning on my dome light and teasing the truckers as they would pass by. Soon after, I installed a CB radio so I could hear what they were saying about me. Eventually, this led to daytime drives on the interstate as well. Of course, never satisfied, I graduated to stopping on little used 2-lane overpasses and got out of the safety of the car to walk back and forth in my skimpy skirt and heels as the cars and trucks would whiz by underneath. My car windows down and the CB volume up so I could still hear the trucker chatter about “the sexy girl on the overpass”.

One afternoon, while doing my overpass catwalk somewhere in Perry County Indiana, I wasn’t paying attention to my surroundings and a county sheriff was driving up from behind. Someone must have placed a call that a girl was broken down on the overpass. Needless to say, I scurried back to my car and hopped in. But it was too late, he had parked behind me and was walking up to my car. I couldn’t leave, couldn’t even take off my wig, so I sat there and waited his arrival. Since all my windows were down, he started to talk as he approached… “is everything alright ma’am?” Then is face dropped when he actually saw me. I said, “everything’s fine officer, I was just leaving”. He just turned and walked away without saying a word. I drove away and he proceeded to follow me for the next 30 miles, all the way to the county line!

Needless to say, that was my last overpass catwalk.

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