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My Amazing Sister

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(@kristacanada)
Prominent Member     Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi Jackie, I really love your story. If this were made into a film, it would be a major chick flick (which I just love by the way). Your writing is full of emotion and passion. Thank You so much for sharing. I wish I had a sister like Elaine. Lucky Gurl!!!!
Hugs, Krista

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Thank you Krista that was so nice for you to say. I wonder who they would pick to play the parts, Dolly Parton and Alexis Arquette?

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(@april57)
Reputable Member     Camano Island, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Very beautiful story, beautifully told. Those of us that have people in our lives who support us are very lucky.

Great piece hon.
April

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Thank you so much for the kind words.

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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Love this article because I also had a sister who is amazing. When I was about 3 or 4 and she was 7 or 8 she started dressing me up in her old princess costumes for her "tea parties" which was her, myself, and a number of select stuffed animals, lol. I can still remember how the flowing dresses and skirts felt on me as I twirled around. Eventually my dad made her stop and I didn't know why. Many years later she was the only one who ever caught me cross dressing. I was 13 and she was 17. She was a dancer so she had all these incredible shiny leotards and pinks and baby blues and whites covered in lace and ribbons. She was mad at first but then told me it was ok. When I came out to my wife 14 years ago, my sister also found out through my wife and was a huge part of getting my wife to accept it and support me. I am so blessed to have such incredible women in my life and obviously you were too. Nice story!

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Thank you for your awesome comment and sharing this adventure with your sister and wife. It is an adventurous journey and for some lived by everyday. Your supports speaks volumes, I truly wish everyone had the same support as you and I. I think the world would be a better place if everyone was allowed to be who they really and truly are with no BS, intolerance, judgements and so on! I loved your little short but to the point you shared, thank you Bridget.

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(@terrim)
Reputable Member     Long Island , New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Jackie, thank you for posting your story. I loved reading it and made me think of my teenage years and how alone I felt. I was the oldest of 3 children and we lived in a very small apartment. I remember trying on my mother's clothes and using her makeup on the rare times I was home alone. Reading your story made me wonder if I had been the youngest and I tried on my sisters clothes.
Thank you again for sharing your story.
Yours Terri

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Glad you enjoyed it Terrim, it brought back many wonderful memories writing it. Take care hun.

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(@nikkolle1)
Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Thank you Lissa, I believe you could be right hun.

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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Jackie this brings my emotions out so much and i wanted to cry just reading this article. This was so touching and loving?
Nikki

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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I'm glad you liked it Nikki, I wrote from the heart but was only able to tell some because I didn't want the article to be long and drawn out. My sister is amazing and she has been a loyal loyal supporter and best friend. Thank you for sharing with us/me. Take care hun, Jackie.

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(@vickiej)
Eminent Member     Chicago, IL, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

That's a beautiful and touching story Jackie. I have not been logging into this site much lately as I have been preparing my life for a full transition.

Your touching story reminded me of why I love logging in.

Thank you for sharing

Vickiej

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Oh thank u Vickie. I wish you all the best travels in your journey. Lot's of courage and belief in yourself to go all the way to transition. All the best to you and may the high heel God's shine upon you. Please keep us informed of things go k.

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(@heels234)
Prominent Member     Mesa, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 10 years ago

I,too,have a special sister.We live in different states and after much internal debate lasting over a few years I finally told her that I was a crossdresser,Her answer to me was "If it makes you happy,go for it".She has seen a few pictures of me fully dressed as Michelle and plans to visit when her business permits later this summer,maybe finally for some sister and sister time.

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Michelle it's so cool and a true blessing when we know we have that special bond and acceptance from other's especially our family. My mother wasn't that accepting at all, in fact she cried more than once always asking where she went wrong raising me and I would tell her she didn't at all raise me to be a cross dresser or a drag queen or even being gay. I told her and other's it's just simply who I am and even if I didn't want to be I was/am end of story. Thank you for leaving your comment. It's comment like yours that inspire so many struggling with acceptance and fear of coming out. Your sister is awesome!

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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I wish all the sisters should be helpful to their crossdresser brothers

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Would be a perfect world wouldn't it.

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Give time my dear, they do come around.

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(@blackhawk7659)
Trusted Member     Utah, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

That's wonderful that you had such a good sister who was so loving towards you, and accepted you for who you really are.
Also where did you get the dress in that picture?

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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The picture above was one chosen for this article and not me. But you gotta admit it is a cute dress she is wearing!

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(@stevenlj)
Trusted Member     La Mesa, CA, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

A wonderful story. To have a sister, who loves you as much as she does, is something I've looked for. I may never find it, but, then again, being a member of this site, maybe I will.

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Yes she was and still is very supportive. She even goes to the bar (gay bar and clubs) with me sometimes when I go. My other four sister's have came around some and don't mind being around me as well, they just aren't as supportive. I always thought that if ever my sister found out that I was borrowing her clothes, shoes, boots, makeup etc. that she would freak out and be angry. Instead she wound up giving some of my favorite things of hers. Yes she was a huge voice with me when the time came for me to come out, both as a cross dresser/drag queen and being gay.

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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Beautiful!
Had to call my sister and tell her I loved her after reading this. She has always been on my side and respected me for who I am in all aspects of life. When I came out to her she had her questions, but she was 100% supportive. If I was out of line, she was the only one who could put me back in line.
Thank you for this.

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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That is so cool that she not only supports you but just as my sisters they put me in line when I' am out of it. Blessed Be Sister, Jackie.

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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Such a beautifull story. Thank you for sharing this part of you life with us. We are always here for you. Anytime. Huggs and kisses to you Jackie,
- Terri Anne

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Thank you Terri I'm glad you enjoyed it.

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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I am new here and just read your story. It almost made me cry wishing I could of had the experience you had with your sister
My mother was both physically and mentally abusive. I felt so all alone most all of my life and finally coming to terms of who I really am even though I have known it since I was 3 or 4.
You are blessed to have a sister that is so understanding and compassionate.
I wish you the very best and hope we get to chat one day. I drive truck so my hours and times available are all over the place as well as very limited. At least this job almost pays the bills and for my transition.
Hugs,
Joanna

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Joanna anytime yo would like to chat/talk just pm me and we will. I love making new friends and girl can I ever talk haha. I'm sorry you had to experience what you did (almost made me cry) but we are survivors and we will continue getting stronger everyday. Our world is still kind of in the dark when it comes to us but it's getting better I think. I'm glad you liked the article. She has been my rock since I was a child. Through it all she remains to be my special sister, my rock, my inspiration and my best friend. Look forward to talking with you some time. Best, Jackie....

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(@Bridget Kennedy)
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My niece had surgery today so having a lousy day. The tumor was so big they are going to just put her in a coma till they figure out what they want to do.
She even calls me “Aunt Jo”
Sorry to be a bummer but my life sucks so bad. Last Christmas I would up in the hospital when I was in Pennsylvania as I work every Christmas the last 5 years and I will again.
Hugs

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(@cyberian2)
Noble Member     Elliot Lake, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Jackie....what a lovely story. Bless you. I wanted long hair in the late 60's and early 70's but my Sarge and LT had different ideas....tennis ball cut for me!

Lady Veronica

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(@nikkolle1)
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Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
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Lady Veronica I have to say that trying to persuade and convince my mother that I should be allowed to grow my hair long was a uphill battle all the way. I cried, I screamed, I threatened to run away on several occasions, I called everyone names, I skipped school, and pouted all the time. One day when my mother was gone my would be stepfather ordered me and my two nephews to sit in a chair so he could give us haircuts. Of course I ran but my nephews didn't and he put bowls on they're heads and cut all the way around they're heads. When he was done they looked like mo from the three stooges. That actually worked in my favor because not long after my mother finally said I could have my hair longer. But trust me, it was a all out war getting to that day haha!

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