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OMG...The Power of a Makeover

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 J J
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(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
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There I was, sitting in a busy Sephora with my eyes closed as the makeup artist worked on my face. It was a busy Saturday evening in a resort town full of locals and tourists out shopping for the evening. In hindsight, it was not the best time to have booked a full makeover, especially since there was a sale on. I was enjoying the facial massage, and she cleaned and hydrated my face. I was lost in the sensual pleasures of it all. Many languages were being spoken, and there were people of all ages, but mostly it was young women, who appeared to be Sephora's primary customers.

There were mothers with their daughters, middle-aged ladies, and a few women near my age. An occasional male happened to be present, although most seemed to have been dragged along by their girlfriends, and then maybe a few were enjoying the thought of playing with all that makeup. There were even a few male Sephora employees on the floor. I mention all this because I was caught up in the middle. There was no hiding the fact that a mature crossdresser was getting a full makeover.

It had been a marvelous day that started with walking the dogs along the promenade that runs along the beach. I had on a wig, skirt, strappy sandals, with my painted toes and fingernails. It was busy, but such a beautiful day that I didn't have a care in the world. Nobody cared or even noticed that I was a guy in a dress, though with my 38C forms in place, sunglasses, and a hat, nobody was probably the wiser. At any rate, it was a good start to a good day.

I booked the appointment at Sephora for a full makeover, my first public makeover. I once went to a dressing service in London and had makeup and wardrobe done, but that was in private. This was a big step, but one I had been wanting and anticipating doing for some time. I had the afternoon to kill, so I changed into some casual clothes and went to State Street in Santa Barbara, CA. For those who don't know, some call it the California Riviera, and it is remarkably a lot like Nice France without all the history. I strolled through the shops but did not find anything of particular interest. Even Victoria's Secret was uninspiring. Still, it was nice to just stroll along the sidewalk with my head up and a certain sass in my step.

When I arrived for my makeover, I was a tad early and had to wait for my makeup artist to ready her station. That was when it really hit me! I was exposed to the world, as a 65-year man who likes to dress en femme. I was wearing a wig, but no makeup since they recommend arriving without any. I had on a snug tee with my 38C forms, which are proportional to my frame, and while a touch large, fill out my chest well. I also wore a tight pair of jeans as my legs were in between waxing. I started to feel a wee bit self-conscious, but I took a deep breath, and all was fine. The store was packed; I knew the chances of seeing anybody I knew was low, and the many women rushing about paid me the least bit of mind. I was going to do just fine... just remember to breathe.

My makeup artist arrived and led me to her station, right in the middle of the store. After a few quick pleasantries, she asked what type of look I wanted. Once I told her, she began. She said very little and asked just a few pertinent questions, which I was quite happy about. She began with a full-face cleansing, basically, a wonderful facial massage. I closed my eyes and relaxed, an amazing experience. The constant din of the store and the multiple languages spoken added to the sensory inputs I experienced. With the makeup artist saying little, it allowed me to sink deeper into the sensations. Occasionally, I would open my eyes just to ground myself back in reality. As the season progressed, I loved the strokes and dabs of the brushing across my skin and the moist feel of eyeliner and lipstick being applied. I felt immersed in a deep, meditative state. While I was aware of my surroundings, they blended together into one sensual experience.

I was disappointed when she said we were done. That was until I looked in the mirror and saw the results. Oh my! What an amazing transformation. I could hardly believe it was me. I just glazed at my reflection for a few moments before recovering and thanking the makeup artist for her skill. I paid my bill and gave her a generous tip for the miracle she’d performed and headed out the door. I was floating down the sidewalk, feeling perfectly wonderful with my new look. I happened upon a dress shop and went in. I found some lovely dresses and tried a few on. The bright lights of the dressing room allowed me to appreciate my makeup, and trying on dresses was great fun. The SA brought me a few and complimented me on some, but none fit quite right. I stopped at a great little New York Italian-style restaurant that looked like a scene from "The Godfather." It was wonderful to sip wine (and leave lipstick marks on the glass) and have a bit to eat.

I had to get home to let the dogs out, but my day was not quite done. I didn't want to waste a minute of my look, so I pulled out a nice dress, rolled some stay-up stockings up my legs, and freshened up my lipstick for a few photos. It was with great reluctance that I finally had to admit it was well past time for bed, and my lovely day out was complete.

It is my hope to inspire a few to give such an experience a try. Sephora was great, and I felt 100% comfortable there, although I have heard Ultra and MAC are very accepting as well. Nobody in the store paid me the least mind. I never caught anybody giving me the slightest sideways glance. I did not notice any comments or conversations, or even anything I could imagine of such happening. I did some people several times, and whether it was just because I was in the middle of the store, or they were walking by occasionally to see the progress, I don't know. I hope it was the latter, as it gave me a sense of pride that people were curious to my transformation. All in all, it was a wonderful experience, and I hope to do it again soon. I do not do makeup often, mostly because I do not know what I am doing, but after this, I won't bother and instead enjoy the whole experience of having it professionally done.

 

Hugs, JJ

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Duchess
(@michellemybell)
Prominent Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

What a delightful article JJ and special day out. My first transformation changed my entire view of myself and what was possible to achieve in my feminine persona. Thank you for sharing.

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 1983

Thank you, and yes it is transformative in different ways. For me what was transformative was the ability to express a deep part of me that actually is not a female persona, but just a bit of me that I have not been able to fully embrace until recently. I know we are all different in our reasons for dressing as femme. Some
want to release their inner woman, others
want to be a woman, permanently or
temporarily, and some to express their femininity. I just get a sense of pleasure from the transformation and doing it so openly has allowed me to embrace that like I have never before.

I know many of us struggle with our reasons, justification, and desires, and I hope my little day out will help others, as those who have related their experiences have helped me.

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(@leonara)
Joined: 9 years ago

Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
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Thank you JJ for sharing your favorable makeover experience at Sephora… you put reasons for dressing en femme into perspective.. I would say for me it would be to release my inner woman… and this revelation became evident from my first makeover, albeit privately at a cd/tg boutique…i was touched by the pampering as i was transformed to my feminine persona… your “public” makeover experience at Sephora is an inspiration for those, including me, who would partake in the various beauty services, Sephora, Ultra, or MAC…and I am sure personal makeup pointers are also part of the experience .looking forward to your next visit… and my makeover experience from one of the beauty services… warmest regards, Leonara

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Lady
(@dannydior301)
Joined: 6 months ago

Estimable Member     Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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Resurrecting this thread again in 2024, but I just had to say, this statement you made..."Some want to release their inner woman, others want to be a woman, permanently or temporarily, and some to express their femininity. I just get a sense of pleasure from the transformation and doing it so openly has allowed me to embrace that like I have never before" is everything. I read it to my wife to help explain my dressing. She sometimes worries, and I want to assure her that I am not straying from her or my heterosexuality. Sometimes I just like the pleasure from the transformation. Thank you for the words I could never find for myself!

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 1983

@dannydior301 

I am glad you found some help and comfort in my words. I hope it jas helped your wife understand why we do this and just maybe not feel so threatened by our dressing.

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Duchess Annual
(@michellewayne)
Trusted Member     Seymour, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

What a wonderful experience for you JJ. This sounds so heavenly. I could feel the facial massage. Good for you! Thank you for sharing with the rest of us.

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Baroness
(@dianas1960)
Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I have done Sephora twice now at two different locations. The first time I setup my gopro camera and filmed the entire session with the artist walking me through the steps. I still review that video on occasion to recall the process of going from drab to Diana. Both times it was a wonderful process.

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 1983

The camera idea is a good one, but I do full makeup so infrequently that I doubt it would do me much good. I will likely just get it done professionally for the times I want full makeup...leave it to the pros.

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Duchess
(@smartina)
Estimable Member     Bangkok, Bangkok, Thailand
Joined: 7 years ago

My regular makeover artist, Madame Lil, has me close my eyes while she puts on fake eyelashes and eyeliner, styles my wig and paints my nails. So when it's all dry and I open my eyes, I see more or less the whole makeover at once, and it's amazing. Viva makeovers!

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 J J
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(@jjandme)
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Famed Member     California, United States of America
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While I did sneak a couple of peeks during the process, most of the time my eyes were closed and/or facing away from the mirror. I don't think I could not peek for the length of time it takes to do makeup, hair, and nails...you are more patient than I am.

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(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Thank you so much for sharing this experience JJ! What a beautiful day!!

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(@lauren114)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I haven't had a makeover yet (but I definitely need one!) and hearing about your experience is helping me to feel more comfortable with the idea!

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Lady
(@emily2day)
Estimable Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I had the same experience at Ulta back in October, I went in presenting as male, sat in middle of the store while the MA was doing their magical work, women of all ages and the occasional husband/BF. No one even batted an eye, some even complemented the work. when finished I made my way to the restroom and changed into a simple blouse, jeans and sandals. it was such a great experience. And at Ulta the makeover is free with the purchase of at least $60.00 of MAC products.

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Baroness
(@sandraclapham)
Eminent Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi JJ
What a lovely account of your special day. Your elation suffused the whole thing!
I fully agree. A makeover is a magical experience.
I went for my first makeover with Boys Will Be Girls nearly two years ago and am going there for the fourth time tomorrow! I'm so excited.
You describe that moment when the make up is all done and you're ready to see yourself in the mirror. This was a miracle for me too.
When Cindy had asked what kind of look I wanted, I showed her a photo of me from when I was in my mid-20s and didn't need much make up and said I'd like to look like an older, graceful and perhaps elegant version of my younger self and not to worry about any wrinkles.
She put a blond wig (not normally my first choice) on me before the big reveal. I was stunned. I never thought I could look so ... well, I'm vain, but will refrain from using any adjectives at this point.
We went out for a walk and a coffee together in the Tower Bridge (London, UK) area. More photos then that heftily sad time when it's all having to come off which you mentioned
I hope you get more opportunities before too long and that you enjoy your photos in the meantime.
Best wishes, Sandra

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(@michelle70)
Active Member     Cleveland, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

A wonderful Story ! I have been to Dillard in my home town (saw nobody I recognized!) and had a full make-over, but never to Sephora. I might try there next. Thanks for being inspiring !

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(@stephil)
Active Member
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I remember my first makeover! Oh how i would love to do it again soon. My attitude was totally changed by the way i felt and looked!

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

just hope you had the best time of your life having a me over even tho the people around you seen you. to me BIG deal. wish i could get a make over that would be my dream come rue. but i seem to learn more as ago doing my make up better and better. but still in the closet so to speek my wife knows i dress up and seen me dressing up and also seen me dressed up. she does not seem to bother her any more good. for that part. well hope you enjoy the time dressed up i am sure i do when i dress up, its like a switch off with male hood and putting on panties, nylons, skirt, blouse or dress its all over i dress up with make up and perfume and wig and heels like a normal female would.

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Duchess
(@ozinsky)
Active Member     Akron, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Sounds like you had a most amazing day. And you have inspired me to think more about having a make over day. Thank you for the great adventure.

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     California, United States of America
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I hope you do have a makeover, it is a very fun experience. My goal in writing this was to tell the story about how much I enjoyed it, but more importantly to encourage others to give it a try. I had once gone to a CD service, and while it was great, they are few and far between and therefore not readily available to most of us. Sephora, Ultra, and MAC are very common, at least here in the US, so everyone can take advantage of such a makeover. I emphasized how public it was to encourage those who are nervous to try it by going to a city or town a bit away from home and no one will be the wiser about it.

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(@carlaroberts)
Estimable Member     Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

What a nice experience for you, to enjoy yourself being fully immersed in a feminine environment and becoming comfortable as part of it. It’s a wonderful thing to experience something women would take for granted, when for us, it is validating and even spiritual on some level.
It is very encouraging that Sephora and other stores offer makeovers and welcome “All” women to enjoy the experience of being a woman among women, comfortably,

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Baroness
(@amylove2dress)
Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

That's such a fabulous experience you had!
Yours is very similar to my first one, and in my case it was at a MAC store here in Ontario, and when I left my feeling was like yours, I felt like I was floating through the mall!
I've had several since then but that first one was my best I feel.
Thank you for sharing.
Amy

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