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Scarlett On How To Share Your Thrill Of Cross Dressing With Others

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    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
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Hi Girls! It’s Scarlett again and I’ll be writing this from the perspective of a situation that many crossdressers more than likely have in common.

Now Girls, you may already know I spent years and years deep in the closet with my crossdressing. It wasn’t until a year and half ago, right before we moved into our new home with lots of storage space, I was finally able to talk my sexy redhead into having “The Talk” with me. I’ll later write an article on how to bring up “The Talk” and what to say to bring about a modicum of acceptance of your crossdressing from your wife or SO.

Now to the specifics of the article. Most of us have only released our thrill of cross dressing to our wives or significant others. We have no plans of ever sharing this little secret to anyone else on our side of our family, on our wife’s side, or SO’s side of the family. We’ve known them for years, and they have known us for years, and it's the last thing other family members would guess about us; that fact that we all love to dress up in pretty clothes and become pretty girls. Let’s face it, if we dared to offer up that bit of information to those folks, the next time a family reunion was in order, we might not get invited. At the very least, it would be an extremely awkward get-together compared to others in previous years!

So, Girls, I’m recommending not to share our thrill with other family members as a result of the above notes. Besides, when you release your little secret to one family member, the next thing ya know, everyone on both sides of your family might think you’re some sort of freak or weirdo!

Now if you’ve already released your little secret to some family members and they are accepting and considerate towards your crossdressing – lucky you! You're in a distinct minority of crossdressers. There are still many of you out there who are still deep in the closet and not even your spouse or significant others know about your thrill of wearing pretty femme clothing. Been there and done that as noted above, and I wouldn’t want to go through that phase ever again!

Here’s what I did to share my CDing with others, and I recommend you all might want to give it a whirl as well!

My first sharing of my CD secret came with the customer service ladies at JC Penny’s in Pensacola where I used to have all my heels, boots, and booties shipped in order to keep things out of the sight of my sexy redhead prior to her acceptance of my crossdressing. So, my first public sharing of my thrill outside of our home and outside of an online CD site was when I took my crossdressing secret to those girls at the Penney’s customer service department.

I had about 50 of my best pictures of Scarlett loaded on my IPad and took the IPad to the customer service girls, asking them if they wanted to see photos of Scarlett. They couldn’t wait to see them! I opened the IPad to three women in that department ranging in ages from about 25 to 65 and showed them 30 of my top photos. My God, the reaction was off the chain incredible! Next thing ya know, they had passed the word on to some other employees in departments on the second floor and in less than ten minutes, I had a crowd of at least 10 ladies absolutely loving every photo of Scarlett and wanted me to stop in with more every time I came to the store – which I continue to do to this day!

Here are the next places I went over the next two weeks with my IPad, and later with color 8x10 photos in a folder and got the same exact reaction with each set of girls clamoring for more as I left each place!

1  1)    Sports Clips where I have my hair cut. The manager and all the hair stylists have seen loads of Scarlett photos, and they won’t even let me get my hair cut now unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell pictures!

2   2)    Sephora where I buy some of my foundation liquid and powder. The girls who work at these places are on the liberal side, open minded, and quite accepting of the LGTBQ folks, and now you can add CD to that list of letters as well!

3   3)    Ulta – See Sephora notes above. And I should have added kind, considerate, caring, inquisitive, and full of answers to a wide variety of makeup questions you may have!

4   4)    Plato’s Closet which is our largest consignment shop in Pensacola. With such a huge selection of girl’s clothing, footwear, and jewelry available at next to nothing prices. You would assume they would have admitted crossdressers in there all the time, but the first time I told them I was a cross dresser the girls were in shock until I busted loose with a pile of Scarlett photos. Then every girl in the place wanted to see my pictures. Some of them didn’t believe it was me, so I had to point out a small brown dark birth mark in the middle of my right shin. Then they were all believers that those photos were of me as a girl named Scarlett! Now those girls won’t let me shop unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell photos!

Other places to share your thrill of crossdressing with other employees are as follows: Stores in a mall or not in a mall you regularly frequent, thrift stores where you may shop on a regular basis, brick and mortar stores where you may buy lady’s shoes, wigs, purses, clothing, and other accessories.

And of course, the #1 place to share your thrill of crossdressing is right here with the wonderful girls in the greatest crossdressing site in the world - our very own Crossdresser Heaven - which is our way to get ourselves out of the closet or house on a regular basis and share our thrill of crossdressing with all of the CDH girls who share the very same thrill of wearing cute, pretty, sexy, and classy lady’s clothing! I get excited as soon as I put on a pair of heels! I just love being a girl as most of you know!

Girls, thanks for taking the time for reading another one of my informative articles. If you have other places you love to share your thrill of crossdressing, please send them in your responses to this article so that all of our readers of this article will have an exhaustive and complete list on how and where to share their own thrill of crossdressing with as many other accepting folks out there as possible!

 

Sincerely, Scarlett

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Good stuff, Scar! Wish I had something to add, but you pretty much covered it all. But, as much as I would love to share Dawn with the world, I don't think I can tell anyone unless, of course, I planned on transitioning. Isn't it funny that transsexuals are accepted & crossdressers aren't, for the most part?

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Girl Friend, you hit that nail on the head and thanks for agreeing with me at far as the acceptance or lack there of of cross dressers versus any one of the categories of folks covered by all of the letters - LGBTQ! I still don't see a "C" or a "D" in that line up of letters representing groups of people like transsexuals, who indeed are more acceptance than us cross dressers are to date. It's really sad!

Cross dressers are the least accepted of any groups and ironically, Dawn, there are probably twice as many or more of us than there are of any group covered by the lineup of LGBTQ letters - including the "A" and the "I" which have recently been added to the list and I don't honestly have a clue as to what those two letters represent! I just know it's not cross dressing.

Now back to this most recently published article above on sharing the thrill of our cross dressing with others which was released just today. I honestly believe it's much easier to share our photos and information with casual acquaintances or complete strangers at liberal clothing and makeup shops than it is to share with immediate or extended family members! I have't had one negative experience sharing my Scarlett photos and information with the folks noted just above and I'm not including any type of family members whatsoever!

Now Girl Friend, I don't have think you have to go through a full transition to be able to share your thrill of cross dressing with girls or guys you may interact with at hair cutting salons, makeup stores or departments in anchor stores at malls as well as people in the clothing or footwear shops you regularly find yourself in when purchasing whatever you need for Dawn.

Give my suggestion a try or two before you go into something like a total transition. I know you will be pleasantly surprised by the acceptance and encouragement by these people I'm encouraging you to share your cross dressing with. Please just give it a try and start with the girls or guys at beauty shops like Sephora and Ulta first. You are going to be shocked at the positive response from the people who work at these shops and you can also get answers to any questions you many need pertaining to makeup application processes and what products may be best for Dawn to use!

Love you, Dawn, and thanks for being the first to read what I considered to be one of my most important articles wrote to be shared with as many girls as possible here at Crossdresser Heaven. Dawn, please spread the word with your girl friends about this article of mine and encourage as many of them as possible to read this article!

Love you and have a Super Sunday today! XOXOXO Scarlett

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You know I do go out as Dawn. For my nails, eating out, shopping, etc. My makeover experiences have all been amazingly positive. I've never encountered any problems with people reading me, but if they did, I would tell them I'm transitioning, simply because that seems to be more accepted.

Yeah, that LGBT group will have the whole alphabet before long.

Nice to hear from you, sweetie! Take Care.
Dawn

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Thanks for the article Scarlett. I love your pics. You look so beautifully perfect. There is nothing more attractive than a warm smile. Agree with all of your article. Cds are usually embraced by other women and ignored by men. It becomes tough when family is involved because there are gender identities to maintain. There is so much to this. Hugs Jennifer

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Thank you so very much for taking the time to read what I consider to be one of my most important instructional articles to date! Sharing the thrill of cross dressing with family members at any level is very dicey to say the least!

I don't even suggest doing that to the most liberal of family members because the word of your cross dressing with spread throughout the entire family like a wild fire! No matter how much you trust that specific individual!

Thanks Jennifer for loving my photos and my infectious smile!

Have a wonderful rest of the weekend! XOXOXO Scarlett

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Scarlett, like you I can't share Jill with the people closest to me but I willingly share Jill to everyone in public when I'm out. These are the same places I go an I'm open to SA, waitstaff, clerks. Strange isn't it?I

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No Jill, absolutely not strange at all and that's why I'm encouraging our girls not to share with family members and get out there and share their cross dressing with the types of folks you've noted above. It's safe and you don't have to worry about your thrill of cross dressing getting back to any of your family members who would probably ostracize you from the rest of your entire family!

So encourage as many girls here on CDH you have an acquaintance with to read this article and get out and share there cross dressing with as many people as possible they come in regular contact with excluding family members.

The more we spread the word of our thrill of cross dressing, the more people will realized how wide spread it actually is and how important and thrilling it is to we who do it on a regular basis!

Thanks a bunch, Jill! XOXOXO Scarlett

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The first thing I have to say is good for you. You are really having fun with this thing. Your entourage of followers does not surprise me. I know from personnel experience that many women are literally fascinated by men in women's clothing. I wish that transferred to greater overall acceptance, but it doesn't seem to. Strangely, some of the women who admire you (I mean that) the most would be resistant and embarrassed if you were their husband and wanted to dress up to go out-and-about. I think seeing you in photos is titilating and somewhat of a guilting pleasure. And, it's likely, the forbidden nature of the propensity makes it a curiosity that you have satiated. I want to say a little more about this, but I have to run. Great job!
FAM

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Wow Falecia, I love your response to my article is really quite special.

I do think I have quite a fan club on this site. Much of it has to do with my photos and much of it has to do with my writings in articles, responses to girls in reply to the private messages they send to me, and my discussions in the chat room with our girls here at CDH.

I do everything I can to promote cross dressing and to help as many girls as I can to reach the highest cross dressing levels they can each individually reach!

I also try to encourage our CDH girls to have no feelings of shame or quilt regardless of their acceptance or total lack of acceptance of their wives or significant others. I want all of them to be proud of their cross dressing and realize that we are a huge group out there - way larger than any group represented by the string of letters - LGBTQ! And there are so many cross dressers so deep in a closest most people could never get a accurate count of how many millions of us their actually are out there across our globe!

Thank you, Falecia, for such a wonderful and warm response to my article. I want to encourage you to send notes out to as many as your girl friends on this site and encourage them to come and read this article!

Love ya and have a Super Sunday! XOXOXO Scarlett

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Have a little more time, so I thought I'd add a little. As you have no doubt been told, your photos are among the most compelling. I believe one of the primary reasons that is true is attributable to your focus on women. Like I try, you dress for the approval of women - clearly. We crossdressers enjoy seeing your presentation because you pull it off so well. You make us believe it's possible and hope to do the same. I wish more women could see and read the things we write and understand the great effort and respect with which we treat this propensity to emulate their style and beauty.

I know that drag performers exaggerate their imitation. But CDs like you present a totally believable and complementary image of femininity. You've chosen a very alluring array of outfits that stay well within the range of appropriate in countless venues and company. Although I haven't seen you in person, I suspect you could go unnoticed except by those who would be drawn by your attractiveness. I don't think I'll ever present as well, but I'll do the best with what I've got. And . . . I'll keep studying women to get better!
FAM

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Falecia, you have given me the most amount of special compliments in the least amount of paragraphs from any girl on CDH!

I'm flattered by every compliment you note in your messages to me.

I can sense a serious attraction towards me and an astute appreciation for my sense of style and the effort, time, and money I put into my total transition from "Handsome Husband" mode to "Cute, Sexy, Pretty, Classy Scarlett" mode.

Now I must tell you, Falecia, it's not all about effort, time, money, my sense of style, and my ear to ear smile that creates my total girl on look as Scarlett. And yes, on my rare public appearances (four nights per year), no one, and I mean absolutely no one has a clue I'm a guy in those cute outfits and pro makeup jobs I do on myself! I honestly believe I'm 100% passable even more so than a lot of the generic girls from birth out there. Many of whom don't have a clue how to put their makeup on or throw an outfit together!

I have to give a ton of credit to the genes I inherited from my late mom and dad. My mom always had a killer set of legs she transferred to me through her genes. Both, even though they weren't big exercisers, were blessed with great bodies, hands, feet, hair, and teeth. So I ended up with almost the perfect everything for the transition from guy to girl.

I hear about so many obstacles these folks on here have to overcome such manly features such at really big or wide feet, lots of thick dark facial and body hair, unsightly legs that may not look feminine at all, wide, big, or thick hands for fingers, and the list just goes on and on. I can feel their pain with some of the writings I see from those guys/girls.

So God bless my mom and dad for setting me up with the perfect everything for cross dressing. Even my mom had a killer sense of style and even as a young boy, she notices my keen eye for style and always let me pick out my own school clothing each year at a store in Birmingham known as Parisians. Many of the boys at the schools I attended would wait to see what I was wearing to school at the beginning of each school year before they went out shopping with their moms for the same style of clothing I was wearing at school each year!

Well, Falecia, that's probably way to much for you to consume right now so I'll stop right here!

I loved everything you had to say about me as Scarlett. It is a lot of work and it's all worth every bit of time, money, and effort I put into getting my total girl on as Scarlett! It's sexy, it's fun, it's sensual, and I hope to be doing it for years to come!

Love you Falecia! XOXOXO Scarlett

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Falecia,

Your post says exactly what I have been feeling about trying to emulate the beauty and style of women; wishing that they could see and understand that our admiration for them is part of what drives us to try to look pretty and passable, not to present as some sort of exaggeration or caricature but to look as authentically feminine as possible. I love and respect women so much that I want to BE one in my own way through crossdressing.

Scarlett,

I also have felt that we crossdressers are still not as accepted by others as much as the LGBTQ has become recognized and more accepted. I wish I could somehow feel pride in being a crossdresser as you mentioned, but a lifetime of confusion and some shame is difficult to overcome! I so do wish I could tell my wife about Tricia but I am certain it would not go well. I have at various times over the past few years tried to hint and put out “feelers” about her feelings towards the subject, but her statements regarding “guys that dress like girls” have not been particularly positive. That said, I have been feeling some pride in getting better at making myself look more feminine and pretty...

I did venture out as Tricia for the first time (other than one Halloween over fifteen years ago) last week and had a very nice time. My wife was away for a few days so I finally got up the courage to go out. I’m hoping that I will have a chance to try your suggestions soon to further enjoy time out as Tricia.

Thanks for your writing and your inspiration (and your friendship here). Seeing girls like you here gives us all hope that things can get better!

Hugs,
Tricia

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All of those comments are so sweet of you to say, Tricia! And girl friend, continue to maintain hope of acceptance by your wife. I had to drop those subtle hints with my sexy redheaded wife for years and got the exact same response from here over a span of 13 years. My first wife of 24 years never knew I was a cross dresser because I only dressed up about twice a year while she was away visiting her mother and father in Mississippi. I was also working a more than full time high profile job, raising two boys, and serving as their head football and baseball coach in city league ball so there was no time for Scarlett for many of those 24 years!

Now with my sexy redhead, I finally insisted on sitting her down and having "The Talk" with her telling her each and every detail about my cross dressing two years ago! I covered when I started as a young boy and how, why I cross dress, how important it is to explore the feminine side of me for my mental health and well being, how often I dress up as Scarlett, how extensive my wardrobe was, how I was now going to store Scarlett's things in our new expansive home instead of in a temperature controlled storage facility, how my cross dressing has never affected my unconditional love for her and our sex life as well, and why I could never stop but tried to on several different occasions, and much much more.

After "The Talk" Tricia and her understanding the fact that I will always love her so much more than cross dressing and that if it became choosing between the two, Scarlett would have to go, she had an entirely different attitude towards my cross dressing and her level of acceptance continues to grow and grow as the days, weeks, months, and years have gone by. She's even purchased me a couple of very cute items for Scarlett while I was shopping with her on two occasions at TJ Maxx. A cute pink Tommy Hilfiger flutter sleeved dress and a cute and sexy Calvin Klein top which can be paired with skirts not only in my closets but in her's as well. She now knows that I have been borrowing things from her closets during photo shoots for years know is just fine with it because we wear the same sizes, we have the same sense of style, and as long as I return them exactly where I found them in her closet! Luck me, huh Tricia!

Love ya and don't give up on that wife of your's!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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Thats wonderful and its true there are not so many CDs i m lucky i have a wardrobe and wigs already and feel very comfortable out in a skirt.I had noticed that other men were attempting to be Girl when one stopped wearing jeans and skirt he said how nice my skirt was..he couldnt find skirts dresses shoes to fit At She was about 46 i suggeted elastic waist band skirts and gave him the address when he can get a skirt made but could cost abot 30 Dollars depending on the material
I also warned him the seamstress was in a militant woman zone so he better go there prepared for comment and bad looks...but She will get a great skirt that fits perfectly

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Oh Fiona, I didn't there were not so many cross dressers out there! On the contrary, I said there were millions and millions of us out there and probably more because so many cross dressers are deep in the closet where no one has a clue they are out there!

Fiona, it sounds like you're doing super with your cross dressing and I like the fact that you are help others with their cross dressing as well!

Keep doing what your doing and share your cross dressing with as many people as possible. We need to spread the word how much fun and exciting our thrill of cross dressing is!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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Scarlett,
Once again, you have come up with the right advice at just the right time; thank you. After a fabulous shopping trip with my wife this past Friday, I'm bursting at the seams to talk about it, and even model a few of the purchases...but there is no one I can tell, for the reasons you covered. Now I have a place to start. We shopped at Penney's, and the ladies there were very friendly and helpful, so I will remember this for my next outing. And I will reach out to Sephora; OC that I am, I won't do something I can't do right, which has stalled the makeup issue for too long a time. One question: Should my first visit be full Bettylou, or would stealth-ish be acceptable? I find my self-consciousness about wearing "girl" clothes is rapidly fading, since I joined CDH. Talking about it certainly helps.
Hugs,
Bettylou

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That's a great question, Bettylou! I'll tell as briefly as a can about the first public appearance I made as full up Scarlett about 5 years ago. I had my makeup on perfect. I was wearing a thin snug fitting long sleeved turtle neck top (it as cold and at the end of fall). I paired that top with a plaid pleated black and white wool skater skirt with a black wide elastic belt around the top of the skirt and the front of the belt wash embellished with faux diamonds. You've seen it several times displayed in my photos when I'm wearing that belt. I also had on a pair of black Hanes opaque tights and a cute and sexy pair of black suede ankle booties with two rings a faux black fur around the top of the ankle booties.

And Bettylou, I was shaking in those ankle booties at night outside our busy mall when I got out of the car and headed for busiest entrance and exit of the mall - the food court entrance! Before going in, I had checked out Scarlett from head to toe in a full length mirrow and basically told myself - "Scarlett, there is no possible way someone is going to be able to tell that you are not a cute, pretty, sexy, and classy lady who really understands how to wear her makeup and how to throw a really sharp cute little outfit together!"

And when I walked through that entrance door I was thinking the same thing even though I was shaking in my booties. However no one could tell there was a nervous bone in my body because I was walking with my head held high feeling as girly as one could possibly feel with that huge smile on my face that you see in all of my photos. I was pretending to be on my cell phone talking to my husband at home - which I never had a husband at home!

By the time I had walked up and down the longest hallway in this huge mall, I could tell that no one had a clue I was a guy at that point. No weird stars, no snickering or whispering going on after I walked past people. People just saw me as a cute and pretty lady out shopping that night. Then I got really bold and hung up the phone and put it in my black purse and just walked right into our Sephora makeup and beauty shop in our mall. After browsing for just a bit, a sales girl walked up to me and asked me if I needed any help and I said, "Yes, I'm a cross dresser and when I'm dressed up as a girl like this I go by the name of Scarlett" She was in shock that I had a guy's voice and the fact that I was a guy instead of a girl. She asked me if she could get the rest of the staff to come over and check me out. She didn't tell the girls I was a cross dressing guy. And when they gathered around me and I started to tell them I was a cross dressing guy by the name of Scarlett, their jaws just about hit the ground and they all started asking me all sorts of questions - "Holy crap, I can't believe it, did you do your own makeup or did your wife or girl friend put your makeup on?" "Did you pick out the entire outfit or did your wife or girlfriend dress you up in that killer outfit?" "You must have been cross dressing for a long long time to look nothing like a guy in that makeup and outfit" Girl, you're prettier than 99% of our female customers who come in here for makeup advice!" The manager ask me - "Scarlett, how would you like to come to work for us?" We have another cross dresser who works for us now but she/he is no where as pretty and as well put together as you are! You would be a big hit in here and a lot of help to girls needing advice on how to wear their makeup!"

This went on for about 20 to 30 minutes and I told them no, I didn't want a job and I was just out as Scarlett for the very first time to see if I could pass 100% as a girl in public. They all said, "Well girl friend, you've definitely passed that test for sure tonight! There is no possible way we could tell there's a guy in that makeup and outfit". I thanked all of them and they begged me to come back the next time I dressed up as Scarlett which I do each time I go to the mall on my four outings a night.

Bottom line, Bettylou, it's up to you to go full up as Bettylou and go as a guy in there and ask a pile of questions before you made you appearance as a girl!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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such a beautiful article by a truly beautiful woman I am proud to call a BFF. As you know, I read and rely quite a bit on your intuition. After a recent discussion with my wife, I think she is relaxing a bit. so am in the early stages of planning to go to Sephora about an hour and half away from me and talk to the ladies there. Maybe set up a private makeover.

I think that would be the only thing I would add to your article. If one cannot go to the stores in your own town, be it because of your professional life, or it is a smaller close minded community, consider driving a bit of distance where you are so much less likely to get noticed. The article is so spot on though. I love it. And as you know, Love admiring your beautiful photos and the advice you always are willing to give.
Hugs girlfriend
Danielle

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You make a great point girl friend and this is about getting way out of town away from coworkers or neighbors who might recognize you when getting a makeover.

Many married couples where the wife is totally on board with her husband's cross dressing and will not go out with him full up as a girl go way out of town to do a girl on girl date with each other. For instance, if I ever talked my wife into going on a girl on girl date, which by the way will probably never happen, I would have us do the girl on girl date about 200 miles west of her in a very liberal city towards cross dressing which would be New Orleans. There are a lot of drag queens over there and lots of crazy people especially during Mardi Gras, but it's still a place where I would give it a go!

Thanks, Danielle, for adding that extra travel for go public with your cross dressing!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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Scarlett, I'm in a bit different boat, but similar. No SO, but my mother has known of me being in women's clothing as a young kid and she has been so against it. Even tried to get me to stop, but I wanted it to continue. So Rachel has to be well hidden at home and I make sure all of my Rachel purchases are either out of town or shipped to store. Except makeup. I even buy it in drab mode (and yes, I shop at BOTH Sephora & Ulta). And when I travel to Portland, OR, I stay at an AirBnB where they call me by my fem name, called the Rainbow House.

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Rachel, I can definitely relate. I was in the closet for decades! I had to keep everything hidden in a temperature controlled storage unit for years and years. It was a pain the butt and a logistical nightmare.

So glad those days are behind me now!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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Thank you, Scarlett,
Given that I stand the proverbial snowball's chance in Hades of avoiding stares without at least some makeup, I will go in guy mode and ask what they can do for me.
Hugs,
Bettylou

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I that case, that's the way I would roll too girl friend!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
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Hi Scarlett,
Thank you for detailed article on sharing our CD with others. I may share my CD with the customers service at Macy's where I pick up my feminine purchases .. I thank you for our friendship... You are a special person an a very pretty one, also. Leonara

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(@scarlett398)
Joined: 7 years ago

    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 1041

Thank you Baby Doll! You're one of my biggest fans and I appreciate each and every one of these fan letters you send to me Girl Friend!

Yes, take some photos of you to Macy's and share them with the customer service girls there. They will love to see your pics and once you show them the very first batch, they will want you to bring another batch each time you come to pick up something else for Leonara!

And you're just a pretty and as special as you think I am!

Love ya Girl Friend and take 8x10s produced at Walmart in the photo section or take an IPad for phone to show them off! You will be surprised at the level of acceptance and encouragement you'll get from these girls! I promise!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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(@leonara)
Joined: 9 years ago

Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Posts: 1287

Thank you Scarlett for the encouragement.
I am a bit shy. But I will take your advice.
Luv ya ...Leonara

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(@gloria-mundi)
Eminent Member     charleston, South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

You are an icon of lovliness and style. Thanks for drawing attention to the truly amazing acceptance and enthusiasm so many women have once they have had a glimpse into our world. Gloria

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(@scarlett398)
Joined: 7 years ago

    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 1041

You're so very welcome Gloria! That's such a lovely compliment you dished out to me!

I hope the acceptance of cross dressing continues to grow and grow so many of us can go out in public on a more regular basis and also so we can get a whole pile of us out of the closet in out in our towns to show off how pretty we are on the inside as well as on the outside!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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(@scarlett398)
    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Love you Dawn Judson! Yep, even the trans girls and every other group represented by those letters LGBTQ are more accepted than us thrilling cross dressers. We hope with more public appearances by girls like us and with this wonderful site Crossdresser Heaven, we can one day add the letters CD to this list of letters!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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 Leah
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(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

great articlew and wonderful to hear of your success out in public and being accepted by so many ladies!

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(@scarlett398)
Joined: 7 years ago

    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 1041

Thanks a bunch Leah! And by the way, that profile pic of you is SMOKIN' HOT girl friend!

XOXOXO Scarlett

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 Leah
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(@leah63)
Joined: 7 years ago

Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 789

Wish that was my actual picture...but it was just one that I liked.

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(@scarlett398)
Joined: 7 years ago

    Pensacola, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 1041

It's OK about the profile photo. I'm sure you're not the only one using a photo that's not the actual photo of the one the profile photo tracks to!

Great selection of a hot girl anyway, Leah!

XOXOX Scarlett

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