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Thats wonderful Stephanie,
The liberation we feel when having our secret revealed to our partners is fantastic. It isn't always accepted but the burden of not being honest has been lifted, we then at least know where we stand and can make decisions moving forward.
The initial conversation was harder in my mind than in life and I'm so glad I did it. I have blossomed since then with few restrictions and with open, honest communication regarding both of our feelings towards it.
Liv On
Olivia
Hi Stephanie, nice to hear things are working out for you.
I consider myself one of the very lucky ones, my wife is very understanding and is happy with me dressing. She even comes with me to a local transgender support group here in Bristol, which is a nice social. She's fine with me dressing at home, but just not with my wig in a home setting. It's such a shame that people have to live in secrecy. Personally it has improved our relationship massively, we go clothes/makeup/jewellery shopping together now, and have so much more to talk about and share. I'm also a much calmer person and we very rarely have any arguments, bringing out my feminine side has definitely made me a better person. I personally don't see any down sides, maybe I'm just fortunate.
Good luck Stephanie and to all the ladies out there.
Charlotte
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Hi Stephanie!
Yes it is good to take it slow with your wife! In time she will be curious and want to go further with your relationship! I have some friends that it took time for me to share with and it took them some time to accept me totally! But in the long run I found that letting others accept things in their own time is best! Keep dressing up when you can and practice your makeup when possible so that you are ready for your "public debut"! Blessings to you, be safe and take care!
Hugs
Michelle
32 Likes and 17 responses - off the chain girl friend! Congratulations Stephanie!
XOXOXO Scarlett
Lots of questions. Was I gay? How far did I want to go? Did I want to be a woman?
After a while things started to settle down. She has made it clear that she does not want to see me in a dress. She does not want me to shave body hair. It is OK if I sleep in a nightgown and panties. She is OK if I underdress in bra and panties, as long as I present male when I go outside. I sometimes wear a bra, panties, pantyhose and a slip, under one of my male nightshirts in the house during the day. She doesn't know about the breast forms, shoes, wig or makeup (I don't think). She does know that if she is out for the day, to call before she comes home, to give me time to change, before she gets a surprise.
Hey girl thanks for the friend acceptance and pointing out this article. As a lot of the girls on here, you're story resonated with me. I came out to my wife 3 years ago and I was SHAKING LIKE A LEAF in a hurricane. But thankfully with a lot of communication and some therapy sessions we continue to make things work. Our love has gotten stronger and we are closer because I no longer hide myself from her.
I'm super happy that you've been able to come out to your wife and now Stephanie has a some closet space!
Hope to talk soon!
-J
Reading about Stephanie, my wife said this site allows us to express ourselves. We carry guilt, we are worried about how we come across in society and are we helping our families as a dad, husband. You have Stephanie, and your courage had been rewarded.
Perhaps you and your family should have a femme weekend somewhere. Shop, eat out etc.
Great reading about your success. Jane