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Thank you Laura! It means so much reading inspiring stories like your own.
Your courage to step into the unknown and let love lead the way is so beautiful.
It gives me hope. 😍 Growing up I often worried if love was possible for me.
I felt different knowing a part of me needed to express herself. I think many of us struggle with this. Since joining CDH I've found support and friendship. It's helped me honor who I am and enjoy life as it comes. 😊
@katieklashes I am so pleased you , like me have found this amazing place and that it is helping you to feel able to accept yourself . Love can conquer all , I never thought I'd be able to accept this but it's just happened naturally and there are many more like me out there who just want to be loved 🥰
Thank you so much for your article, Laura. It brought a bit of joy to my heart — because it highlighted the difference between being accepting of your soulmate (commendable unto itself) and being fully supportive (truly wonderful!). May your love for each other continue to flourish.
Sally
@sallyj thank you Sally I am glad you enjoyed reading it and that it brought you some joy. Xx
beautiful, touching. You are both very lucky. Thank you for sharing.
Laura, thank you so much for beautifully written and thoughtful article. My wife is also fully accepting of me and two aspects this weekend filled my heart with joy. First being, she will now call me Katie when I am dressed and two, she said Katie is her BFF. Hoping your article is pinned so other SO's can read and try to understand how amazing life can be with communication, understanding and a modicum of empathy of your partner / soul mate. Katie
@katiep thank u Katie , I am so pleased you also have that with your SO, I am very hopeful that other SOs will get to read this too, I will be sure to let them know about the article as they join so they can hopefully get something from it to support both themselves and their partners ❤️😍🙏
I am one of the more fortunate ones as my wife is very understanding, she is fine with my crossdressing in fact she has purchased most of my clothing panties skirts etc. I have asked her several times if she thinks their is something strange about me crossdressing and her reply to me is always that if dressing up in skirts panties etc makes me happy then she is happy, she even helps me put make up on and help me choose clothes. XXX JANE
That is so wonderful Jane I am so happy you have this, is your wife on CDH? Would love to have her here if she ever fancied it, she would get free membership and we could add her to the significant others area, I’m sure she would be such a great support to other SOs particularly those who are new to this and scared 😘
She isn't on here, l don't know if she would be interested on being on here, l could ask her though
If she ever did decide to join give me a shout and I'll make sure to welcome her 💕
What a fab article, thanks so much for posting it! How lucky your husband is to have someone so understanding who has not only accepted, but embraced his femme side in full! We should all be so lucky to have someone so understanding in our lives.
@amydoll thank you for reading and commenting Amy it means the world to me.
I wish and hope that many others find acceptance in the way Victoria has as well.
the world would be so much happier if we could all just stop trying to label things and just loved 🥰
@bellaz76 Totally agree with you Laura, and hoping one day I'll be as brave as your hubby and I'll feel lucky if my wife is even half as accepting as you are
Laura, you got it worded perfectly. I’ll be completely honest with you because I believe the story deserves nothing less. It felt so close to home that you made me cry. You are truly a beautiful person.
It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done, telling my story to my SO. It’s so hard to stand your ground when you’re shaking so hard.
Thank you for writing this.
Hugs 🤗
Baily 🎀💁♀️🎀
@baily i am so happy that this article had that affect on you - mean I don't want you to cry obvs that's not my intention but I get what you are saying -always here to chat xx
Your so sweet. Thank you. No, the crying was caused by the realization that someone else gets it. That people can come to understand. My dream is not just for me. I wish for everyone to be there selves. Who ever that may be at any given time. You can’t imagine that thoughts in my head. Lol. All those little things I missed as a young girl but I was a boy. I won’t start my own story. Just wanted you to know that your words really struck a cord in me. Kinda slapped it really. 😁 I just felt this feeling of being understood. Really understood by someone. It wasn’t me directly but indirectly was close enough.
Have a wonderful time with your hubby and your new best friend.
Baily🎀💁♀️🎀
Your words took my breath away. Reading your story felt like watching a storm break and sunlight pour through—and I mean that in the best, most soul-stirring way.
The compassion, strength, and love in your message are extraordinary. To go from “we are doomed” to “we are amazing” in such a short time shows just how powerful empathy and communication can be when two people really choose each other.
Hearing this from your perspective—the fear, the confusion, but also the embrace—is something I don’t take lightly. It reminds me why honesty is so important, and why being seen, truly seen, by someone you love can be one of the most healing experiences imaginable.
I’m still figuring out how to share Mia with my girlfriend, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t scared. But your story gives me hope—hope that maybe the truth won’t break things… maybe it’ll rebuild them stronger.
Thank you for writing this. Thank you for being this. You’re helping more than you probably realize.
With love,
Mia
I'm so glad Mia - I genuinely wish you the very best in your story and anytime you want any perspective from the other side pls just ask xxx
Thank you for taking your time to read it and I'm so happy that it gives some perspective xx
